Is Being a Sadist Automatically a Red Flag?
I am a single sub bottom currently dating and I find sadistic guys very attractive. Not 24/7 Sadists, but in bed only. I can't help it, that's just how my heart has always felt😅 But I am afraid that sadism in a man is a symptom of something darker like a personality disorder. And since I am looking for a relationship (more than sex), I wonder if my desire for a Sadist comes in contradiction with my desire for a healthy relationship. Have you had any experience that informs an opinion on this issue?