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My LDR boyfriend hasn't texted me in a month. Is it over?

I’m trying to some objective perspective on a situation I’ve been struggling with. I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with an older man I met online. We had been texting consistently for a while, and I truly felt like we had fallen in love and established a real relationship. About a month ago, he suddenly stopped texting me entirely. There was no argument, no we need to talk, and no explanation just complete radio silence. It’s been four weeks now, and I’m caught between wanting to hold out hope that something major happened or that he’s just overwhelmed and the painful reality that this might be a permanent ghosting. Given the nature of online-only/long-distance dynamics, how should I handle this? Is there a point where I need to accept this as an ending, or is there a standard protocol for when an older partner goes silent like this? I’m finding it hard to get closure when I don’t even know if he’s okay, but I also don't want to be the person chasing someone who has clearly checked out. Any advice or similar experiences would be really appreciated

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u/Mediocre-Map-9360 — 18 hours ago

23 [F4M] #colorado - looking for a very mature man who knows what he wants

I'm just another ordinary girl grew up around much older people and loved how attentive and honest they're. Right now I need a man who can hold me down and make sure he has the best interest in mind for me

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u/Mediocre-Map-9360 — 6 days ago

23 [F4M] #los angeles mi - Searching for a Lasting Bond with My Mature, Older Companion

I’ve consistently been captivated by men with substantial life experience and real maturity. There’s a special charm in your poise, insight, and quiet strength that draws me in. Casual dating holds no appeal for me I’m ready for a devoted partnership focused on creating a shared, stable life. Imagine starting our days wrapped in each other’s comfort, building treasured recollections through travels and simple joys, enjoying easy laughter, engaging in thoughtful conversations that stretch into the early hours, and me feeling protected and precious with you. I desire a relationship that helps us both evolve your knowledge encouraging my development while my fresh perspective energizes you. I offer heartfelt, constant love and unwavering faithfulness, committed to being your steadfast partner through thick and thin. Mature, noticeably older men 45+ who want something authentic and enduring with a young woman who values you greatly feel free to reach out. Let’s make this real.

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u/Mediocre-Map-9360 — 18 days ago

23 [F4M] #los angeles - Seeking My Distinguished Very Mature Man F4M

I’ve always been drawn to older men. There’s something so deeply attractive about your maturity, experience, and the way you carry yourself. I don’t want games or short-term flings I want a real, meaningful relationship with a man who’s ready to build a life together.

I dream of waking up next to you, creating beautiful memories, traveling, laughing at silly things, having deep late-night conversations, where I can make your face my favorite place to sit and feeling safe and cherished in your arms. I want the kind of love where we grow together where your wisdom guides me and my energy brings you joy.

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u/Mediocre-Map-9360 — 1 month ago

23 [F4M] #online - Been active in the BDSM lifestyle for a few years and know exactly what I want.

I want a mature experienced submissive man aged 45 and above who understands his place and craves structure discipline and service. I’m seeking something that can start online and potentially become in person if trust is built. I’m open to possibilities. What I offer: Firm but caring dominance. Clear rules protocols and tasks. Regular check ins including daily tasks and orgasm control. Impact play bondage humiliation service submission chastity depending on limits. Mental dominance. Aftercare always provided. What I’m looking for in you: Age 45 plus. Emotionally mature stable responsible. Honest about experience if teachable. Respectful obedient genuinely submissive. Communicate openly about limits needs. Consistent availability. Discretion important. I have a strong preference for older subs who worship a younger dominant the age power dynamic is something I enjoy deeply. Hard limits: anything illegal blood scat permanent damage or non consensual. If you’re serious write a proper introduction. Tell me your age experience level main kinks hard limits why you’d be good for me and recent photo clothed fine to start.

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u/Mediocre-Map-9360 — 1 month ago