I wonder if it’s as common as I (AuDHD) suspect in this lifestyle. Being upfront about expectations, having a special interest in looking good, etc. I’ve watched some of Holly Madison’s videos talking about her autism and her experiences as a Bunny and that had me thinking that it’s more common in the sugar world than people outside it would think.
I have become the bakery baby.
Every date I acquire (1) single baking ingredient from men until I have enough to open my own French pastry shop. Keep your wallet AWAY good sir, I will accept a nice egg in these trying times.
God give me strength.
Thanos had the infinity gauntlet. I have twenty bags of brown sugar and a gallon of vanilla extract.
Today, flour.
Tomorrow, the world.
I was looking at dresses both in my local thrift store as well as Pretty Little Thing. My sense of style has always been complimented but mostly by women, I’m unsure where to look for the types of dresses or outfits that would appeal to a SD.
(Trying this again)
To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether it’s nobler in the wallet
To suffer the trials and errors
Of outrageous dating apps
Or to take funds to a sea of POTS
And by splurging, spoil them
31F seeks intellectually curious gently dominant man who loves a curvy woman. Bonus points if he loves cats (and all animals), reads for fun as well as education, and is a patron of the arts. I enjoy whiskey neat, classic fantasy books, monster movies, singing, writing, and acting in my community theatre in my spare time.
I’m very partial to handsome distinguished men who are fit or muscular/athletic and am a sucker for a guy in a suit who is good with flirty, teasing banter and wordplay. I’m a brat, not completely submissive, so hopefully you are someone who enjoys brat taming for the love of the game (or brat enabling lol). Together we could indulge in all the pleasures life has to offer and I’ll be your warm embrace, your soft space to land.
I’m imagining meeting you already, let’s chat.
Either in terms of ppm, allowance, or what he expected from you.
*Four hours away from Chicago, two hours away from Madison (repost due to Reddit filters removing it)
To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether it’s nobler in the wallet
To suffer the trials and errors
Of outrageous dating apps
Or to take funds to a sea of POTS
And by splurging, spoil them
31F 5’6” curvy (plus size), charismatic, and confident, with dark brown hair and hazel eyes.
I’d prefer a SBF/SGF type of relationship with guys who in turn love a thicker curvier woman. I’m interested in a genuine connection both emotional and physical. I’m a sucker for a muscular nerdy intellectual who can pick me up and carry me around. I want to feel like a princess in your embrace. I love a well groomed man in a suit with fresh cologne as much as I do a guy in flannel chopping wood (both is best)!
My BA is in theatre, and I’m narrowing down MFA writing programs while I work in the nonprofit world. I feel most at home in the natural world, around animals, and curled up with a terrible book (you read that right, I love anything horribly written and goes for movies too). I enjoy whiskey, classic fantasy, monster movies, video games, Diogenes the philosopher, the comedic stylings of Robin Williams, learning languages, and all manner of jazz and folk music.
My goals for 2026 include trying stand up comedy, kissing someone on New Year’s, finishing my novel, and being able to bench my body weight.
I’ve been finding myself more attracted to slightly older men, they are often handsome and distinguished compared to the more baby-faced guys my age in my area.
Edit: grammar in title; should say ‘What do you like most’
I’m in the process of losing weight (Zepbound plus diet changes plus gym). Aside from my weight, I am conventionally attractive, dress well, have good skincare and makeup habits, and a Fun Personality.
I’m interested in hearing from those of you who are either formerly or currently plus size (of any kind), what has your sugar experience been like both during your plus size era and after you lost weight?
Do you just sit at a bar looking sexy and wait for someone to approach? What things have you done that have successfully gotten a man to approach you, or what has a woman done that made you approach her?
*Four hours away from Chicago, two hours away from Madison
To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether it’s nobler in the wallet
To suffer the trials and errors
Of outrageous dating apps
Or to take funds to a sea of POTS
And by splurging, spoil them
31F 5’6” curvy, charismatic, and confident, with dark brown hair and hazel eyes.
I’d prefer a SBF/SGF type of relationship with guys who in turn love a thicker curvier woman. I’m interested in a genuine connection both emotional and physical. I’m a sucker for a muscular nerdy intellectual who can pick me up and carry me around. I want to feel like a princess in your embrace. I love a well groomed man in a suit with fresh cologne as much as I do a guy in flannel chopping wood (both is best)!
My BA is in theatre, and I’m narrowing down MFA writing programs while I work in the nonprofit world. I feel most at home in the natural world, around animals, and curled up with a terrible book (you read that right, I love anything horribly written and goes for movies too). I enjoy whiskey, classic fantasy, monster movies, video games, Diogenes the philosopher, the comedic stylings of Robin Williams, learning languages, and all manner of jazz and folk music.
My goals for 2026 include trying stand up comedy, kissing someone on New Year’s, finishing my novel, and being able to bench my body weight.
*Four hours away from Chicago, two hours away from Madison
5’6” curvy thick (on Zepbound!) with dark brown hair and hazel eyes.
Artsy creative woman seeks self-assured athletic, strong man. Truly, I’m weak in the knees for a guy who can literally sweep me off my feet and haul me around. I want to feel like a princess in your embrace. I want someone who I can make laugh with all my dirty jokes and bad puns, who will teach me poker, and with whom I will share all manner of adventures.
My BA is in theatre, and I’m narrowing down MFA programs while I work in the nonprofit world. Outside of my passion for writing and the performing arts, I feel most at home in the natural world, around animals, and curled up with a terrible book (you read that right, I love anything horribly written and goes for movies too). I enjoy whiskey, classic fantasy, monster movies, video games, Diogenes the philosopher, the comedic stylings of Robin Williams, learning languages, and all manner of jazz and folk music.
My goals for 2026 include trying stand up comedy, kissing someone on New Year’s, finishing my novel, and being able to bench my body weight.
Don’t be shy, come say hi.
To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether it’s nobler in the wallet
To suffer the trials and errors
Of outrageous dating apps
Or to take funds to a sea of POTS
And by splurging, spoil them
31F, 5’6”, curvy thick (recently started Zepbound and I work out regularly), dark brown hair, hazel eyes, white with Latin American and German heritage.
My hobbies and interests include painting, sketching, singing, video games, language learning, speculative fiction, and writing poetry. I adore Shakespeare, Mary Shelley, Jane Austen, and all manor of classic literature. My drink of choice is whiskey neat on special occasions.
Depending on the day I’m draped in goth black attire or dressed to the nines like an eleven princess just because.
I’m pursuing an ambitious life and career, so I enjoy like-minded people who seek great things for themselves.
Being spoiled by a man who is generous with his mind in addition to his wallet makes me feel sexy and safe, and in turn I enjoy enriching his life with my companionship and sharing our bodies. I’m especially drawn to athletic, strong men who can pick me up and carry me around. Someone who takes care of me and guarantees that I’ll always feel safe and at ease in his presence.
YouTube channels, books, whatever you’d suggest. I want to carry myself in a way that entices men (SDs) to approach with relationship/arrangement intentions.
I’ve always been a very independent diy kind of woman, so maybe that puts them off if they need to feel needed. Anything you’d recommend, thank you.
Edit to clarify: This is not about makeup or clothing or fitness or becoming ‘hot’, this is asking about how to carry myself and how to behave in a more feminine and approachable manner that appeals to potential sugar daddies.
Whether it’s sporty or nerdy, what interests do you bond over together?
I’ve yet to have one but I’d love to hear others’ experiences!
What it says on the tin. I’ve yet to have even a regular date that blew my mind.
I like wearing blue dresses with a nice set of earrings and necklace.
To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether it’s nobler in the wallet
To suffer the trials and errors
Of outrageous dating apps
Or to take funds to a sea of POTS
And by splurging, spoil them
31F for intellectually curious 30-45M. Bonus points if he is fit, muscular, and strong, loves cats (and all animals), reads for fun as well as education, and is a supporter of the arts.
I have a degree in theater, am currently applying to grad school, and work in the nonprofit sector. My goals for 2026 include trying stand up comedy, kissing someone on New Year’s, finishing my novel, and being able to bench my body weight.
I enjoy whiskey, classic fantasy, monster movies, singing, writing, and acting. I’m a huge nerd who loves video games, theatre and cinema history, learning languages, tabletop rpgs, watching Critical Role, and assembling puzzles. I’d love to build my own PC and other other diy tech projects.
I’m ambitious and career oriented. There are many things I’m working hard to accomplish so I may think fondly back on a life well lived with few regrets. My artistic projects and career goals will always be the most important thing in my life.
Someday I’ll fall in love, but I’m not aiming for a deeply committed serious relationship at this time.
I’ve seen comments on SLF from time to time indicating that Hinge is a popular vanilla app for sugar people to find each other, but I’ve yet to try it. For those who have, what was your experience like and what do you recommend to put on a profile to attract sugar minded men?
Do you play pickleball, tennis, golf? Or have you found secret success with exclusive tabletop gaming groups? Perhaps you met your boo at a pottery class and role played that scene from Ghost back at home.