So my job starts late morning and ends late evening. By the time I get home I’m too exhausted to go out to bars.
If I wanted to give freestyling a go between the hours of 6am and noon, where should I go or what activities should I pick up to meet potential SDs? Aside from the gym, I’m already going there early.
I know that pretty much anyone who does sexy audio puts out exclusively NSFW audios, but I’ve been wondering if there are creators who toe the line of SFW and NSFW without going into full audio porn, while still making their audios fun roleplays for the listener.
I’ve tried looking on Patreon but not sure how to word my search.
Are you kinky or vanilla?
Do you expect your partners to be kinky or vanilla?
Is it a dealbreaker if you are and they are not?
I’m guessing it’s not terribly common but I’m curious if any SBs got into sugaring as a way to have someone help take care of them and their health, and what their SDs thought about it or if they enjoyed being the man to lean on while she focused on her health.
The question popped into my head today while I was doing my asthma treatment.
To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether it’s nobler in the wallet
To suffer the trials and errors
Of outrageous dating apps
Or to take funds to a sea of POTS
And by splurging, spoil them
31F seeks intellectually curious 30-45M. Bonus points if he is fit and muscular and strong, loves cats (and all animals), reads for fun as well as education, and is a supporter of the arts.
I have a degree in theater, am currently applying to grad school, and work in the nonprofit sector. My goals for 2026 include trying stand up comedy, kissing someone on New Year’s, finishing my novel, and being able to bench my body weight.
I enjoy whiskey, classic fantasy, monster movies, singing, writing, and acting.
I’m quite ambitious and career oriented. There are many things I’m working hard to accomplish so I may look back on a life well lived with few regrets. My goals will always be the most important thing in my life.
Do you like someone who would go skydiving without a second thought? Or do you prefer the more introverted indoor type? And so on.
I’d like to move to NYC or London one day since the career opportunities align with what I want to do.
I’m currently trying to come up with cheesy lines instead of the standard ‘Hey’.
I get tired of seeing the same profiles since I live in Iowa which doesn’t have a huge bowl, so sometimes I like to look at other cities even if I can’t travel there, just because I’m curious how it differs from my location. I want to move to a large metro eventually so it’s research in its own way that may influence the future move (not a huge influence since my career comes first, but a good dating scene generally is in the back of my mind for wherever I want to end up).
SDs and SBs, what is that one perfect thing that will catch your eye on a Seeking profile every time? What’s that little thing in their photos or bio that reels you in enough to send that first message? Anyone can be attractive, but if you don’t have a good profile, nobody is going to message you even on vanilla sites.
✨Creative, ambitious, passionate ✨
✨To sugar or not to sugar
That is the question
Whether tis nobler in the mind
To scour through fields of messages of outrageous matches
To take arms against a sea of sugar possibilities
And by choosing, date them✨
✨I enjoy fantasy and sci fi media, cheesy romance novels, star gazing, sipping good whiskey, and attending jazz and classical music concerts.✨
✨Were money no object, I’d be an adventurer/explorer.✨
✨Life itself is an adventure and I wish to make the most of mine.✨
✨Two college degrees, eyeing two more. I adore education.✨
✨I love to sing and play video games in my spare ✨.
✨I could talk philosophy for hours.✨
✨In search of an intellectual who is strong enough to carry me around and smart enough to carry endless conversations. I’m a curvy-thick girl and love a guy with muscles and power to make me feel dainty with his strength and masculinity. ✨
Been talking to one guy who refuses to send photos of himself or talk about himself because he says he ‘needs to trust’ me before that can happen. Idk if he’s a time waster, pic collector, or just someone who can’t make up his damn mind a month into talking if he wants to do this, but I’ve not encountered anyone who has been this discreet showing me about his face. Idk if he’s worried about blackmail or something in the case that he’s somehow legit, but I’m done with it. Sugar is a two way street.
I am passionate, ambitious, creative, and whimsical. I love acting, singing, writing, video games, being out in nature, fashion, makeup, and talking philosophy. Long brown hair, high cheekbones, hazel eyes, chubby/thick.
I’d prefer a SBF/SGF type of relationship with a handsome fit guy 30-45, who in turn likes a thicker woman. I’m interested in a genuine connection founded in friendship and shared hobbies/interests. I’m a sucker for a muscular nerdy intellectual who can pick me up and carry me around. I love a well groomed man in a suit with fresh cologne.
I’m open to women/SMs as well.
Willing to occasionally to travel to Chicago or Minneapolis for the right person, can also find my way to Des Moines and other major cities here if you go there occasionally but aren’t from the state.
Seeking, Reddit, irl, elsewhere?
…asking for uhhhhh a ‘friend’ 🙄🤦♀️
I have a job and career path where it would Not Be Great if it got out that I’m doing this. What do you do to keep this part of your life under lockdown?
Where would you go in Chicago to mingle/freestyle with eligible SDs/generous men?
I’ll be living within a 2 hour drive of the city which will make frequent trips there much easier.
I’m a plus size woman with nice curves but most of my recent photos are selfies. A friend’s going to help me take some new ones soon, but I’m looking for examples of poses or types of photos that would be best to include in my profile. When I posted my current profile recently I got positive feedback on the written section but negative comments on the photos.
Would love examples if anyone has them.