u/NefariousnessOdd1735

I was speaking to this guy like over a month ago and we just didn’t click
We spoke about sexual stuff then 3 hours later when I was telling him I was being sick and not well he brought it back up.
I told him no and then he had a massive go at me saying I started it.
The next day I explained that why I’m not well or being sick I don’t want to talk about sex.

He went off on one again accusing me of all sorts.
He made me sick with stress and didn’t care.

So I walked away
Today I put a post up he saw he message me saying “ how many doms have you scared off”
I asked him why he was attacking me

I don’t understand at all
Why did he message me?

Why is it that doms are like i’ll take care of you. It’ll be okay.
Talk for three days non-stop
Then suddenly go very quiet and it’s two or three messages a day

I don’t quite understand when you’re telling me that you like me and you wanna meet up and then you go very quiet

Most of them blame me for not wanting a relationship or putting too many boundaries in place when they are very normal boundaries (wanting to meet up in a public place)

I miss having a dom/daddy
I miss beeing taken care of and knowing someone cares about what I do and say.

I’m not well so don’t want to talk about sex but when I’m better I’m sure it will come up

Just need cuddles and care
26-40 please

I’m looking for more than just play.
Before the kink, before the scenes, before the sex—I want connection. I want someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know me, who checks in, makes me feel seen, and makes me feel like I’m wanted, not just available.

I’m a brat, but I still melt for affection. Pet names, good morning messages, reassurance, praise, and thoughtful attention mean far more to me than rushing into anything physical. Call me “good girl,” “pet,” “princess,” or whatever feels natural between us—not because it’s a script, but because you genuinely enjoy making me feel cared for.

I’m interested in a dynamic where trust, communication, and emotional safety come first. The strongest power exchange, to me, is built on respect, consistency, and mutual care.
If you’re only looking for a quick hookup or someone to fulfill a fantasy with no connection, we’re probably not a good match. But if you’re looking to build something meaningful where care and affection are part of the dynamic, I’d love to hear from you.

Limits -pee poop sick water and I’m funny about bj

Hiiii
I’m a sub something between a brat and a little
I want a dom who is psychological dom as well as in presenting
I have been a sub for 10+ years but all in negative relationships
I want a conversation not just sex sex
I don’t care about sex till I feel safe

Please ask me questions coz idk what to say most the time

Soft limits
Water
Bj

Hard limits
Pee
Poop
Sick
Work
Family

Hii
ATM I’m not well so verry unlikely to get anything sexual or want anything sexual.
But I need a cuddle and care and attention and mmm yh
Wow I’m so bad at these I have ptsd just fyi and wait this is the important bit
DINO ATTACK RAAAAA
HEHEHHE

I’m sick af in and out of hospital and I’m scared and not having a dom to tell me to stay in the hospital or that it will be ok or cuddle is crap af
I wana here all the cute it’s ok I have you ur safe aww no bby girl im sorry all that stufff please

I hate doing these there always so hard to to
ATM I’m sick so it makes it harder I sware so bullet points it is
- dom who’s not always sexual - u can give punishment that arnt sexual

-knows that they don’t get respect they earn it
-I like there voice to be deep
-to be able to go on walks and adventures
-to understand that I need help and rules and strucher
-I’m a brat sometimes
-I wana do more pet play
- my kinks are , chocking,spanking,fingering ,tied up
Denial mm there’s more
-limets, deep throatin , public , anything to do with work or family, illegal
-have the awareness and confidence to say it’s not for them instead of ghosting
- it’s rair that I little space
-I wana try more pet play
I have my life together some what a flat a car a job so I’m not interested if you live at home (there are some ok reasons to be at home )
-I want to be able to get advise about work sometimes so

Not to be under 28 -or over 42
To be able to eat fruit and veg
Don’t hid stuff
I need a cuddle and care atm

So if you got this far please make sure it’s an interesting message that IS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX

P.s you will not be coming to my flat for 2 month

Someone ones told me there’s was

Having there dom finger them in a feeled but the details was insain

Or having them stand in the bath a pee there pants

I hate doing these there always so hard to to
ATM I’m sick so it makes it harder I sware so bullet points it is
- dom who’s not always sexual
-knows that they don’t get respect they earn it
-I like there voice to be deep
-to be able to go on walks and adventures
-to understand that I need help and rules and strucher
-I’m a brat sometimes
-I wana do more pet play
- my kinks are , chocking,spanking,fingering ,tied up
Denial mm there’s more
-limets, deep throatin , public , anything to do with work or family, illegal
-have the awareness and confidence to say it’s not for them instead of ghosting

I have my life together some what a flat a car a job so I’m not interested if you live at home (there are some ok reasons to be at home )

So if you got this far please make sure it’s an interesting message that IS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX

I find this so hard being sick with no dom coz I still want to keep going and carry on but I know it’s not good to I need somone to be like no you don’t do anything

Hey idk where else to put this but I read a story of

A girl who fell into a chair cage and then it ended up
Making her cum till it was done with her
So like a macanicl body chair it was all done remot to so there was no one else and it had dilldos and stuff

Anyone know what I’m on about or anything similar to read or watch tbh

Right now I’m struggling with Nerly everything
Eating work just being tbh not having a dom is hard but not having anyone to help with direct is harder