u/No-Video-3450

I’m 21 and just really started noticing my buddies feet. It’s just their feet, I’ll just see them when we’re hanging at the house and can’t stop staring. Never thought I was gay before and it’s not with girls feet either. There’s something about the size of them (my fraternity brothers have huge feet). Is it weird to just be gay for feet?

I’ve tried going out to the eagle and a few other places in town. They’re usually not super busy with the guys inside skewing older. I’m 21, so would like to find similar guys at these places. I see guys in NYC going to the eagle and bathhouses all the time and having fun. Is it just a different scene in LA?

My current therapist (a straight woman) is leaving the practice, so I need to look for a new therapist to see regularly.

Any recommendations for a gay male therapist in LA? Particularly one familiar with … gay male issues… haha.

I’m thinking video editor, accounts manager, reviewer for websites, etc!

Pool parties, cookouts, etc

Private gatherings not ticketed/bar parties :)

Any online spaces where everyone gathers? What apps? Particularly LA-area, younger generation (not uninterested, I know older generations are easier to meet at the Eagle and more present on apps).