u/No_Application_2705

Hello!

I am a submissive seeking a dominant. I am 29F, blue eyes, blonde hair, buxom, short, feisty, dry (humoured). Looks wise ppl find me either super gorgeous or super ugly typically. I look like this if I had to describe it in emojis: 🔵👄🔵 so looking for somebody I can look at you like 💙🫦💙.

For me kink and romance are fundamentally intertwined. I am a masochist, who enjoys both serving and giving some attitude depending on my moods and my needs. I am seeking a sadist who is understanding, patient, but can give as good as he gets. I’m looking to listen to NIN and deftones making out having his nails drag across my ribs and telling me I’m soooo pretty but in soooo much trouble. I want to be chased with tea towels and whipped while I giggle in the kitchen. I want to wear your baggy t shirts while I cook you good food. I want you to take me to the zoo and watch me freak out then buy me a stuffed animal after and douse it in your aftershave so I can snuggle something that smells like you in case you’re unavailable saving the world / playing ice hockey / working to pay for my champagne lifestyle / going to get coffee on a Sunday morning. I’m looking for somebody who enjoys phone calls and quality time together. I have a stressful job that makes me work long hours and I don’t always wanna text. I like to fall asleep on the phone with somebody if he can’t be with me. Also if you fall asleep after me to make sure I get off to sleep I’ll love you forever. Let me yap to you about articles and books I read. Be a bit stoic but inside excited.

My main kinks include but are not limited to:

\\\* primal play

\\\* objectification

\\\* praise

\\\* breeding

\\\* whatever kink “grinding on his boot wearing nothing but pearls while he strokes my hair” falls under

\\\* whatever kink “every single sarcastic comment I said under my breath that I thought he didn’t hear being shouted back at me while I’m at his mercy”

\\+ more! But not everything I wanna post on here. Have to leave some mystery.

As well as being depraved menaces together, I would like to have cute dates. I want to put on a nice dress and go out. I want to make memories. Have holidays. Do normally coupley things. I miss cooking for / with somebody. I miss hugs after long days. Please be able to provide both a firm smack on the arse and humour my reality tv obsession. I also make the best passenger princess and promise to always bring haribo and wear a mini skirt. As a treat, he can have a drive in my car sometime (put your seatbelt on and ignore that squeaky noise).

I will not submit to you till we have met and had some dates. I do not do online dynamics. I am highly picky with my submission. I value consistent communication. If you’re busy, fine, we all get busy, but tell me that. I’m tired of being an afterthought to people.

I am quite independent in my daily life. My hobbies are reading, writing, belly dancing, gym, swimming, gardening. My free time is spent in coffee / book / vinyl shops. I like people watching and walking with my dog and then going for a caramel latte / pup cup after. I enjoy puzzles and it’s one of my favourite bonding activities to do together.

I am seeking a dominant who has a level of intelligence and isn’t afraid to challenge me and have conversations. I would like somebody who can do DIY things and teach me how to do them too. I like learning stuff and appreciate a partner who can complement me. Please be between 30-45. Chest hair preferred. Dry sense of humour.

I value consistent communications - texting, phone calls, then meeting up. Not interested in online or non-monogamy. I am looking for dating and hoping for marriage one day. Please don’t just block or delete your profile out of the blue. My heart can’t handle it anymore.

So why not reach out? It could be the best or worst decision of your life!

Feel free to reach out to connect or ask any other questions.

Mwah,

Your new favourite worst nightmare

xoxo

Been talking to and dating a prospective dom. I was upset Tuesday evening after a bad day at work and stuff and I was in his city for work anyway but he paid for me to go down a few days earlier and stay with him.

I’ve genuinely never been with a dom so mindful and caring. He’s taken care of me, been thoughtful, so kind. I’ve been his footstool and done stuff I’ve never done before because I felt so comfortable.

Genuinely dating has been a nightmare for me but I realised these few days what it should be… what I deserve.

I’m just so happy. I loved been back in subspace in a safe place. I just felt so safe, able to let go, just be. As somebody who’s hyper independent and gets afraid of abandonment it really was so refreshing.

I love talking to him and listening to him. He makes me laugh like nobody else.

I feel just so seen and safe. It’s unheard of and unfamiliar. It was impulsive of me but I’m glad I did it. It’s been like being on holiday. I’m just so happy. I never thought I’d post something like this.

If you’re like me who’s cynical of dating and dynamics, hang in there.