u/Nocturnalsirenn

Submissiveness is more than sexual and is a lifestyle---seems like you...? Then you are in the right place!!! (Dont just skim through and take your time to read it)

Tired of planning every instance of life? Want to dedicate your waking hours to someone completely? Want someone to have a full leash on your life and decisions? Someone to tell you what to do and what not to do in every moment of your life? Or perhaps you want someone to remind you of your place as the lowest piece of shit out there?

Your puppetmaster would be just me! So give up your strings and perhaps we can have some shows for a while ;) \[terms and conditions applied!\]

What I expect:

• Should be of the age range 22 to 26

• Chemistry! Chemistry! Chemistry!

• Well mannered, emotionally available and doesnt have commitment issues

• The place you are from doesn't matter as long as you can manage the time difference

• Someone willing to blindly obey me.

• Willing to give up control of each and every aspect of life.

• Should be active on reddit as i won't be giving my other socials unless i feel so

• Not a switch

• Should be willing to grow out hair so i can imagine grabbing it (not that long just till the shoulder)

• Is okay with the extremest of the extremes

• Has down bad humiliation kink (please don't get offended easily)

• Clingy

• Can cook

• Can keep up a conversation

• Willing to send me photos and videos

• Willing to commit long term (might as well follow you to old age home if we vibe enough)

• You should earn my time and attention \[wag that tail like the good boy you are :)\]

• Shouldn't be pushy \[if i say no or not interested or anything along those lines more than 2 times, then its a no\]

Preferences (not strict)

• Funny

• Bratty

• Watches anime (so we can discuss something)

• Looks dominating

• Willing to send photos with face

• Should have a personality

• Have cats (we can exchange pussy pics hehe) or pets in general or atleast likes them

• Okay with getting beaten up

• Has a life where you are in control or in leadership positions but wants to give it away in private

Who shouldn't message me:

• People with fwbs, is/was married, situationships, relationships, any kind of commitment to other human beings as i am looking for something monogamous \[you guys already have something on your plate, let the guys who have nothing eat :) \]

• Busy people (don't commit if you will be busy with somethings like exams, promotions, travels, etc really soon). I am impatient and I expect quick replies. You will be excused to be free if you have such commitments a bit later into the relationship after we form a connection.

• People with tattoos, and piercings except on ears and nose

• People with kids (I am childfree and is planning to continue that, but may try to get you preg ;))

• Religious people who preaches (don't preach in my dms, i already hear enough from the church)

About me:

• I am 24

• Indian

• 5'5

• Brown, black curly hair, black eyes

• Interests include movies, anime and digital art

• Just graduated

• Unemployed currently so lots of time in my hands

• Looking for something long term and monogamous

• Loves to sleep (?)

• Kinks unlocked: CEI, JOI, degradation, pet play, getting worshipped, cum play, ass play (yours btw), really light feminization, maid training, (i am relatively new, so lets explore more together)

• I am also into point based system where you earn points by doing tasks and use that to touch yourself

• Limits: anything illegal, blood, toilet plays, scat, cuckolding (I am not generous in sharing my properties nor do I want to be shared)

• That's all I think...

• Also funny :)

How to message:

• Write a long long introduction with your age \[if you include dob, i will wish you :)\],

• Your experiences (include everything remotely sexual in nature, let me enjoy some smut)

• Totally okay even if you are inexperienced too

• What you do in life etc

• And a photo of yourself

• If I see some AI slop, you will be blocked immediately! (Guys, please don't waste water for your pervertness)

• Write takemeasyourpersonalslut instead of hi or hello

• Dont call me mommy. Last time i checked, i haven't given birth to anyone.

We wont be diving directly into this unless we make a connection. We will start of as being friends, having friendly talks, with maybe some flirting here and there. We are gonna take this really slow so if you don't have the patience then please don't message me. If you ask for anything before that, we won't talk further more.

I don't mind to keeping it just flr or converting it to dating with marriage in mind (👉👈). Afterall its better to find a life partner who are dedicated for the same passion, right?

My dms might be flooded so if I feel like you are not my cup of tea, I won't be replying at all (I apologize in advance). Either save the post or remember this since I don't want to keep reminding you of what I wrote.

If this resonates with you, my dm is wide open. Even if it doesn't fully resonates, mention that parts too.

See ya :)

Submissiveness is more than sexual and is a lifestyle---seems like you...? Then you are in the right place!!! (Dont just skim through and take your time to read it)

Tired of planning every instance of life? Want to dedicate your waking hours to someone completely? Want someone to have a full leash on your life and decisions? Someone to tell you what to do and what not to do in every moment of your life? Or perhaps you want someone to remind you of your place as the lowest piece of shit out there?

Your puppetmaster would be just me! So give up your strings and perhaps we can have some shows for a while ;) \[terms and conditions applied!\]

What I expect:

• Should be of the age range 22 to 26

• Chemistry! Chemistry! Chemistry!

• Well mannered, emotionally available and doesnt have commitment issues

• The place you are from doesn't matter as long as you can manage the time difference

• Someone willing to blindly obey me.

• Willing to give up control of each and every aspect of life.

• Should be active on reddit as i won't be giving my other socials unless i feel so

• Not a switch

• Should be willing to grow out hair so i can imagine grabbing it (not that long just till the shoulder)

• Is okay with the extremest of the extremes

• Has down bad humiliation kink (please don't get offended easily)

• Clingy

• Can cook

• Can keep up a conversation

• Willing to send me photos and videos

• Willing to commit long term (might as well follow you to old age home if we vibe enough)

• You should earn my time and attention \[wag that tail like the good boy you are :)\]

• Shouldn't be pushy \[if i say no or not interested or anything along those lines more than 2 times, then its a no\]

Preferences (not strict)

• Funny

• Bratty

• Watches anime (so we can discuss something)

• Looks dominating

• Willing to send photos with face

• Should have a personality

• Have cats (we can exchange pussy pics hehe) or pets in general or atleast likes them

• Okay with getting beaten up

• Has a life where you are in control or in leadership positions but wants to give it away in private

Who shouldn't message me:

• People with fwbs, is/was married, situationships, relationships, any kind of commitment to other human beings as i am looking for something monogamous \[you guys already have something on your plate, let the guys who have nothing eat :) \]

• Busy people (don't commit if you will be busy with somethings like exams, promotions, travels, etc really soon). I am impatient and I expect quick replies. You will be excused to be free if you have such commitments a bit later into the relationship after we form a connection.

• People with tattoos, and piercings except on ears and nose

• People with kids (I am childfree and is planning to continue that, but may try to get you preg ;))

• Religious people who preaches (don't preach in my dms, i already hear enough from the church)

About me:

• I am 24

• Indian

• 5'5

• Brown, black curly hair, black eyes

• Interests include movies, anime and digital art

• Just graduated

• Unemployed currently so lots of time in my hands

• Looking for something long term and monogamous

• Loves to sleep (?)

• Kinks unlocked: CEI, JOI, degradation, pet play, getting worshipped, cum play, ass play (yours btw), really light feminization, maid training, (i am relatively new, so lets explore more together)

• I am also into point based system where you earn points by doing tasks and use that to touch yourself

• Limits: anything illegal, blood, toilet plays, scat, cuckolding (I am not generous in sharing my properties nor do I want to be shared)

• That's all I think...

• Also funny :)

How to message:

• Write a long long introduction with your age \[if you include dob, i will wish you :)\],

• Your experiences (include everything remotely sexual in nature, let me enjoy some smut)

• Totally okay even if you are inexperienced too

• What you do in life etc

• And a photo of yourself

• If I see some AI slop, you will be blocked immediately! (Guys, please don't waste water for your pervertness)

• Write takemeasyourpersonalslut instead of hi or hello

• Dont call me mommy. Last time i checked, i haven't given birth to anyone.

We wont be diving directly into this unless we make a connection. We will start of as being friends, having friendly talks, with maybe some flirting here and there. We are gonna take this really slow so if you don't have the patience then please don't message me. If you ask for anything before that, we won't talk further more.

I don't mind to keeping it just flr or converting it to dating with marriage in mind (👉👈). Afterall its better to find a life partner who are dedicated for the same passion, right?

My dms might be flooded so if I feel like you are not my cup of tea, I won't be replying at all (I apologize in advance). Either save the post or remember this since I don't want to keep reminding you of what I wrote.

If this resonates with you, my dm is wide open. Even if it doesn't fully resonates, mention that parts too.

See ya :)

For context, I posted that i m looking for a subby and I found one who resonates with me in terms of kink. We also talk about other things than kink. It was going well. But recently he has been so busy that we are barely having a conversation daily.

I did or atleast i think i did communicate that I need quick replies and that I am really impatient and that i value proper communication, etc. He did ask me to make it official a while back when there was atleast some conversation happening but i said i will think about it since i wasn't even satisfied with that much level of communication.

I m really hating this. Its like I can neither have a proper convo with him and since we were almost official nor can i have a proper communication with someone else since I am infactuated with him. Idk whether I love him or its just frenzy and couldn't care about that aspect either since I think I can cut it off anytime even tho it will hurt for a while. Nobody else resonated with me ever like him tho in terms of kinks. That's why i think i m being a tiny bit patient with him.

Another embarrassing thing which i hate to admit is that I actually turn to be so immature when he doesn't talk one whole day and i feel ignored. Usually i would have mature conversations with them saying, 'it would've been better if you could've taken your time to say you were busy' or maybe 'its understandable that you were busy since everybody have their own life right'. But, again its embarrassing to admit, i behaved like an entitled brat.

Actually I am actively thinking of cutting it out since I feel like i might like him romantically or maybe i already do but is in denial due to a number of reasons amd also since I need someone active. I am confused with whether wanting this is selfish or am i asking too much? Considering we arent 'exclusive' yet either. I m pretty new to bdsm too so I am not really sure. Also another option is that he is gonna quit his job soon so the new job might not be as busy and tiring as this one. So I can wait for now and break up if this shit continues. Or should i just break it off now?