u/Ok_Leading3456

Links to my original post and first update:

Original Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dykebreaking/s/VarrcIdhx8

Update #1: https://www.reddit.com/r/dykebreaking/s/G6H8v57Z5q

I went to my ex's place Saturday night and at first, neither of us brought up the conversation we had, we just (barely) watched a movie and talked about life, nothing out of the ordinary.

But a couple hours in, she said she wanted to have a "serious conversation." I actively listened as she stumbled through a mix of an apology and confession.

She repeated her apology from before, saying she "wasn't in the right head space." When I asked her what that meant, she confessed that talking again has caused feelings of curiosity that conflict with her lesbian identity.

She said she's always known she was lesbian, and still is, but she has always had this sexual curiosity in the back of her mind and after we started talking again, it brought it to the forefront of her mind.

I offered to leave and stop talking to her, but she said that's not what she wanted. I won't bore you with the rest of the details of our conversation, but it was honestly really deep and really good.

After our talk, I offered to help her with her "curiosity" and she said she needed to think about it more, especially since she's in a relationship and she felt doing anything would leave a lasting impact on her.

We did, however make out, I let her touch my crotch and even take it out and stroke it a bit. But we ended the night there. I didn't hear from her until Monday afternoon. We've been talking and she wants to take it further next time we hang out. I'll update you all after that.

A link to my first post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dykebreaking/s/VarrcIdhx8

Thought I'd give an update on how things are going with my ex and I.

Her and I have continued to chat and hang out, but things have taken a turn. We had another "lewd" conversation, similar to the ones I mentioned in my original post. But this time it went a little deeper and was a bit in flirtatious territory, even.

She apologized the next morning and said she felt she acted inappropriately and tried to explain she "wasn't in the right head space." But didn't elaborate what that meant.

We're hanging out tonight for the first time since having that conversation, her girlfriend will not be home, which isn't out of the ordinary, but this is the first time since a potential boundary has been crossed.

I'll update again with results of us hanging out at a later time.

I plan to take photos with this partner once she's successfully bred. Her husband is all about it and has heavily encouraged it. I'm doing my part to secure a WMAF future.

As the title reads, I (M29) recently reconnected with an ex girlfriend of mine who, a handful years after we broke up, came out as lesbian and is currently in a LTR with a woman. Her and I only dated for a couple months so we never really got the chance to do anything and according to her, she's never been with a man.

Our conversations started out innocent enough, kind of reliving our younger years, trading stories from then to now, current events, etc. But lately I've noticed our conversations turning a little more lewd, a lot of sexual "jokes," our respective sex lives, etc.

Maybe I'm looking a little too far into something innocent like increased comfort with one another, but I can't help shake the feeling in the back of my mind that there's something more to it.