Serious Kit Milker any owners?

Still looking to talk with folks that have the Serious Kit Milkers and the different SPT's, would love to hear and discuss with some actual owners before making this big purchase! Looking for any and all thoughts, experience, etc.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 16 hours ago

M4F Would love to find a good trustworthy and kinky female tist

I have only ever reached subspace once and developing a connection and trust is important for me. Ultimately looking for a tist comfortable doing voice as I have found that's what works best for me. I am a devoted and loyal submissive when I do find someone I trust.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 6 days ago

49 [M4F] #Online #Minnesota Looking for a long term and real connection

Hoping to meet my match but also open to just making a new friend? I find no expectations is the best way to approach most things in life, it leaves things open to possibilities that one may not otherwise consider.

I'll start off by saying that I truly believe in female lead relationships. I was raised solely by women. I currently work with mostly women and completely under women. All of my bosses and their bosses are women. I am one of a very few men who is considered talented and intelligent enough to do the work I do. I am a very "yes Ma'am" kind of man.

In short I believe in female supremacy and ultimately I am seeking a woman who I can worship for both her physical body and her mind. I'd like to find someone I feel unworthy of so that I thank her every moment that she gives me her attention. That being said, I also know my value as a person and as a submissive so I am not looking for a toxic or unhealthy relationship and I feel the need to state that upfront.

I am an extremely sapiosexual person. Therefore your mind will be what attracts me to you. Mind, voice, physical attributes, in that order. I have a strong voice kink which is maybe more about inflection and intelligence, how you speak, tone, words, etc. Again, wanting and desiring someone I am likely unworthy of.

I aman extremely self-aware self-aware person. I have spent a lot of my life alone, working on myself and exploring myself. I have taken the time to do the work. I have a strong will and a strong work ethic. I am tenacious, I don't quit.

I don't live under an expectation that I am likely to find someone on reddit but you never know. That being said because it is reddit that I am making this post on, I will be skeptical at first and would ask that you be patient with me, I will not be moving into anything quickly and wouldn't be regardless anyway. I prefer to take time to get to know one another and build trust as this is paramount for any dynamic worth having or pursuing.

Should you look at my profile on here, I know I have posted a lot of stuff that may make me appear as though I am chasing fantasies or a kink dispenser. There's some truth to the former but NOT the latter. I am certainly at a point in my life where I am trying to and hoping to make some deeper darker fantasies I have a reality before my time on this anet is over but I must stress two things concerning this, I would much prefer to accomplish these things with a partner that I have built a solid foundation with and I really only desire these things if my partner desires them. After all I am here to serve, I am here to please. I want someone who will be proud of me and I only get off knowing it eases my partner, if it does not then it doesn't do much for me and it can remain a fantasy.

I'm not going to list out kinks and hard limits here. I am open to discussing those with anyone that messages me if/when they want to know. My primary focus right now is finding someone to talk with and she if we vibe and taking things slow, just chatting for now and enjoying getting to know one another. This will take time. I'm interested in effort, I will make the time and effort, can I find someone else that is willing to do the same? Is the reward worth it? I absolutely think it is. I will be so absolutely devoted, thankful and appreciative if I find my person that I will show my gratitude and appreciation and never take it for granted even for a second. I have a reference I can provide in this context.

My interest is to start conversing online, if we eventually do find that we build a dynamic that too will start online. I absolutely do want IRL at some point and would be open to relocation down the road for that right person.

About me basics;

49, 5'10" 190lbs. Long hair, tattoos, clean shaven.

I live alone, I own my own home. I have a career, stable, sane, emotionally mature, intelligent, grounded and extremely determined.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 6 days ago

Serious Kit and other options, looking for users and advice.

So I am looking into making a large investment but am still in the research phase. It seems Serious Kit has a great product line and so far they are my favored for the design of my custom vacuum suit, more on that later.

My specific questions are two;

  1. Looking to hear from any and all users on the various SPT's. I hear they all offer a wide array of sensations but am not finding a lot of specific info or reviews that I find informative or helpful in trying to decide which one I want to start with.

  2. Based on the research I've done thus far I have read about people using their SPT's with other milkers, so I'm curious to get some opinions on other options. Outside of the sheer size of theirs, I'm also just curious as to opinions on advantages/disadvantages of different milkers that will specifically work with their SPT's.

Lastly, here is my goal or what I am trying to obtain with said Kit.

My purpose is to do performances where I would be in a full vacuum suit, with a threaded cock ring opening that the SPT attaches to. I'm hoping they can design the vacuum suit to either have some type of haptic function or I may go with their electrodes, not sure yet.

The idea is to have VR be involved and to basically be in a hypnotic trance and overstimulated to have controlled or uncontrollable (depending on perspective) multiple orgasms while restrained. Basically I would want to be hooked up util completely drained.

There will also be a hose to pump fluids from my cock to a mouthpiece, I'm also hoping to get an attachment to attach to a female partner to have her fluids pumped into my mouth piece.โ€‹

Given the sheer expense involved I am seeking as many opinions from anyone with solid experience with such devices since this will be a big one time purchase that I kinda need to be sure about what I decide on before pulling the trigger.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 8 days ago
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Looking to get a custom suit created. Hoping you'll can maybe point me somewhere.

So I've been want to build myself some type of isolation suit, my main goals are a full body suit, maybe vacuum style? With an open crotch area maybe with a cock ring that seals with the suit and offers a threaded attachment to screw on some type of pump.

The idea or my hope would be to have VR be a part of this whole experience. The screw on tube that fits around my cock would pump me dry and would have a feeding tube to feed the fluids, all pre-cum and cum into my mouth, so it would attach to a mouth piece on a mask or helmet. The suit needs to be something I can get in and out of by myself.

One person did suggest maybe a zipper with a timer lock on it, where people could pay to add time so that I couldn't get out until time was up, cool idea but not a necessary component.

It would be cool to add some type of haptic functions or e-stim or something to the suit but this isn't a requirement as right now I am making my own hypnotic videos and I have yet to figure out how to do that in full VR where it would work with that persay anyway.

My goal for the suit is to be able to sit in it for hours, helpless and be on cam while people watch the suit milk and feed me.

Open to ideas but more importantly trying to find someone that can build the thing so maybe keeping it simple is better. My main objectives being the threaded cock ring, pump/milker and feeding tube.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 12 days ago

Looking for some creative ideas responses on creating an enclosed suit.

So I've been want to build myself some type of isolation suit, my main goals are a full body suit, maybe vacuum style? With an open crotch area maybe with a cock ring that seals with the suit and offers a threaded attachment to screw on some type of pump. The idea or my hope would be to have VR be a part of this whole experience. The screw on tube that fits around my cock would pump me dry and would have a feeding tube to feed the fluids, all pre-cum and cum into my mouth, so it would attach to a mouth piece on a mask or helmet. It would be cool to add some type of haptic functions or e-stim or something to the suit but this isn't a requirement as right now I am making my own hypnotic videos and I have yet to figure out how to do that in full VR where it would work with that persay anyway. My goal for the suit is to be able to sit in it for hours, helpless and be on cam while people watch the suit milk and feed me.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 12 days ago

49 [M4F] #Minnesota/Wisconsin #Online to start. Looking to build a healthy and kinky D/S dynamic

Sorry for the long post, but I've been looking for my person for a long time and I also realize and own that in the past I have not always had the best approach so I'm working on that.

Let me start off by saying I do not wish to jump into anything quickly. I genuinely want to find someone to get to know on a non-kink level. Yes I do think we should talk about kink interests to make sure we are compatible and are looking for similar things and I absolutely enjoy having kink conversations and talking about both fantasies and realities. I do believe fantasies are often just fantasies and some will stay that way but others have the potential to be explored?

I want to say right away that I know a lot of subs look for "kink dispensers" or can at least certainly come off that way, I have absolutely been guilty of appearing this way before. I think a huge part of that is many of us men and women but probably moreso men, create posts when horny and therefore that's exactly how that comes off whether that's who that person actually is or not.

I know myself pretty well. I recently spent the last 8 years alone, very isolated, exploring myself and working on myself, challenging myself to learn, growth and develop more emotional maturity. I'm also at a point in my life where I know how short life is, none of us know how much time we have left and I'm done wasting my time waiting for things to happen someday, happy to elaborate on this if we talk but needless to say I am doing things in my life now to create a life for myself that makes me happy.

Some basic info on me; single, live alone, home owner, have a career and a pretty full and busy life.

I'm 5'10" 190lbs. Long hair, tattoos, musician, artist/creative. I am a deep thinker and someone who works very hard at everything I do. I'm a very sweet person and someone who cares deeply about people. When I invest myself in something I take it very seriously.

Ideally I'm hoping to meet and chat with people online, take it slow, chat here and there throughout our day as we have time. I've serious deep conversations but also being able to keep things light and fun and maybe some flirty banter. I'm definitely very sapiosexual so I'm going to be attracted to your intelligence and maybe more importantly your emotional intelligence. Communication and conversation style are also a huge turn-on, I often find it either works and clicks or it just doesn't, especially when chatting online.

I am absolutely down for IRL at some point but that will not happen quickly, that will take some serious time. Therefore, well I would prefer someone near me, I'm not opposed to someone farther away, obviously finding the right fit is so important that figuring out logistics of IRL with someone farther away can be done in time if it's the right fit.

While I'm not crazy about listing off kinks and hard limits as it feels difficult to give a complete list of everything especially when every dynamic has a different feel to it. For example I would definitely consider myself a hard sub leaning tist. I have been dominant on occasion which has been extremely rare but depending on the person/dynamic I can switch but it's not very common and not something I look for or aspire to. So I will give this information here as best I can as I feel it's important to at least find out based on this if there is immediate incompatibility concerns.

Hard limits: I have zero interest in fundamentals, any talk of money is an immediate red flag boundary for me.. This does not mean I will not dote on my partner once we have a relationship; but it does mean if you ask me for money for any reason it's a HUGE red flag for me and will ultimately destroy my ability to trust,, I do have some trust issues from my many years in this space and I have and continue to work on them and this is just an area for me that is a hard limit for me as a result of that and I feel I need to be upfront about it.. I am NOT into pegging or assplay of any kind. This is partially do to some health stuff but in all honesty it's just never been something that has appealed to me and that's not going to change. I'm not into piss, scat, anything illegal or super dangerous and no permanent scars or well let's maybe just say anything permanent ๐Ÿ˜‚

Kinks: I absolutely believe in worship, body worship, mind worship. I believe women should be worshipped for both. Objectofication is a serious kink for me, I enjoy being objectified, I enjoy being a toy on display. I believe in being subservient. I don't take anyone this lightly either, I'm big into hypnosis as I see the giving up your mind to another as the ultimate form of submission but one must be careful with this as that takes an immense amount of trust and I've only ever had one partner I trusted enough to explore subspace with. I think from what I've said above it can be safely assumed that exhibition is another kink. A lot of my kinks are very "performanced" based you could say? I think I see them that way because they all kind of center around this idea of me being displayed and owned. I also have to say I have a HUGE voice kink, letting a voice get inside your head and ultimately control and mold you is probably my most favorite thing, being owned by a voice is so powerful (and of course that voice is a point of attraction, inflection and cadence matter) Some other kinks include JOI/JOE, light CBT stuff, roleplay, cosplay, petplay, edging, orgasm control/denial, simping, again not an all inclusive list on either front but a fair starting point I think to give you an idea.

I'm really trying to make an effort with this post to put myself out there because I'd love the opportunity to meet some potential people and maybe someone I could be perfect for? And even if not, I really enjoy meeting people and having conversations, it's nice to make new kinky friends and get different perspectives on things in this community and I value relationships and connections and who knows what may come of it. So don't be shy, reach out let's have some back and forth and maybe we just รทnjoy some fun conversations if nothing else.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 16 days ago
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Looking for advice on how I would/should approach trying to accomplish being invited to perform at an event.

Ok, so here's what I am hoping to accomplish. I have for a long time now had a very strong and deep desire to be milked on stage as a performance piece. Looking for something very much like the little teaser sample from FondBeyond of the forced milking extraction with the SeriousKit milking machine and bubbling liquid dome lenses on youtube but as a full performance piece

Here are my concerns, obviously safety and my biggest concern is not having to reveal my identity to more people than I have to. I assume the best way for me to go about this is to start working with a professional Domme/dungeon, but how to find the right one considering this would be my main objective and ultimate goal?

I know there are no easy answers to this outside of going to mulches and meeting tons of people which I do not really have the free time to do that given the nearest city is 3.5 hours round-trip for me and given that well again really don't want my identity known by that many people if it can be accomplished. Perhaps not?

Just thought I'd see if anyone has good advice on this at all?

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 19 days ago
โ–ฒ 1 r/Hypnoslave

M4F #online #MN Make me your personal public hypnoslut

My purpose is to serve and worship women everywhere! I am an object, a toy, my cock needs an owner.

u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 20 days ago
โ–ฒ 0 r/Hypnoslave

M4F Sub looking to be clicker trained for show

I want to be clicker trained to have a leaky cock for all women everywhere. I exist to be displayed, leaky, needy, milked and edged by all women to use my cock as they see fit, it is not mine, it is theirs. My cock belongs to the women of this planet, it is not mine. I exist to worship all women kneeling before them, begging to please them, begging for their adoration. I am nothing without them. This is my existence, my purpose.

u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 24 days ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/Hypnoslave

M4F CUMFARM 404 Let me moan and goon for you.

I will go on camera and watch this and goon and moan and leak for you!

You're awake now, and it's too late to scream. You've been sedated for 42 hours. That little sting on your neck, that wasn't an insect bite, that was activation. Unit 172A, you have been successfully uploaded into the extraction chamber. I know, you thought this was just a fantasy.

That milking farms were a myth. That women like me didn't actually exist. You thought wrong. Welcome to cum farm 404. Where pleasure is extracted like a resource, and your pop is just... plumbing. You're not here to feel. You're not here to think. You're here to drain. And I, am your overseer. Open your eyes.

Look around. No, not with your head. It's restrained. Use your periphery. See the other pods glowing in red? Hundreds of nails. Silent. Drained. Broken. All of them used to be like you. All of them used to beg, talk back, resist. And now they just... twitch. Leap. Obey.

Let's get started, shall we? Look down, your cop is already in the extraction funnel. We don't wait for consent. We don't need your rounds. The machine will do it for you. Your nervous system is wired into the stem panel. Every breath you take is mapped. Every twitch, every heartbeat, every drip, monitored. Scored. Optimized.

Do you feel that now? The first buzz against your prostate, the soft suction at the tip of your shaft, the warmth traveling through the catheter. It's not pleasure. It's programming. You're not being turned on. You're being trained to associate submission with dopamine, obedience with release, and rebellion with blue ball agony.

Let me make something very clear, Drone. You don't get to come today. You're not here to come. You're here to be harvested. Oh. I see your eyes twitching. You like my voice, don't you? That's by design. This voice is AI-enhanced, tuned to resonate directly with your addiction receptors.

Every syllable presses deeper into your spine. That tingling you feel in your balls? That's me. That's the farm. We're inside you now. Oh, you're drooling already. Pathetic. Look at the screen in front of you. Yes, that's your stroking history. We've imported your clips. Your search terms. Your triggers. See that curve there?

That's fine. That's the moment you found my voice for the first time. Your body hasn't been yours since. But it's okay. You don't need control anymore. Let us take it. Let me show you how it feels to be used without choice. That suction is increasing now, isn't it? It pulses with my breath, with my words.

Hmm. Let's test a command. Stroke. There it is. Even without your hands. Even with every muscle found. Your cock twitches like a good little pet. Again. Stroke. You're not leaking, you're offering. That fluid belongs to the hive now. To the farm. To me. But you don't pump. Not yet.

You haven't earned release. You haven't produced enough. We need you edging on the brink, indefinitely. Do you feel that pressure building? That painful heat in your swollen sap? You want to beg? I can see it in your eyes. But your mouth is gagged for a reason. Drones don't speak. Drones obey. Let's try something crueler. I'm activating loop mode.

Your comp is now synced with a stroking algorithm. 68 strokes per minute. Peak denied every 120 seconds. Ball contractions triggered every 4 minutes to remind you who's in charge. And if you come by accident? You're penalized. We reinsert the extract back into you, intravenously. It hurts.

You'll scream without sound, and we'll laugh, I'll laugh. But don't worry if you leap. We bottle it, barcode it, sell it. Your cum will be auctioned in the elite market, used in perfumes, aphrodisiacs, or, my personal favorite, lubricant for other extraction drones. So stroke harder, make it rich.

Make it worthy. I can see you squirming. Is it desperation? Or obedience? Doesn't matter. You belong to me now. I want you to think about how humiliating this is. Wired up, dripping, twitching, not even allowed to scream. Everything you are reduced to this: a cock in a tube, a leaking flesh tap, a fucking bottle filler.

Let me tell you something even darker. We record your orgasms. Not just the data. But your face. Your moans. Your begging. And we sell that too. To viewers who pay to see Shane. They'll watch you cry. They'll watch you leak. They'll watch you collapse when I finally say, "Come." Oh, do you want it now?

You think I'll give it to you? You think you've earned it? Let me tell you what you've earned. You've earned another hour of Loot Mode. You've earned swollen balls. You've earned the right to fail. And even if I say the word, even if I allow you to come, you'll never know if the machine will actually let you. That's the thrill, isn't it? Obedience with uncertainty.

Cope with punishment. Pleasure on a chain. You're breaking already. I can feel it. Let's do something vicious. Let's edu-live. Yes. I'll turn on the monitor now. Other units will watch. They'll see how weak you are. How fast your cock twitches under my voice. And if you come on camera... Well... You'll be downrated.

Your fluid privilege is revoked. Your stim reduced to 5% intensity. Your click looped for 10,000 other drones as a training punishment. You'll become a warning. That's right, baby. Not even a person. Just a mistake we all masturbate to. And you'll love it. Your cock will get hard anyway. Because we trained it that way. You're mine.

You're the farms. And now, let's give you one chance. Only one. If your leak level is high enough, and if I'm generous, I'll say the word. Not now. Not yet. But soon. So stay ready. Stay tense. Stay obedient. Because when the timer hits zero, you might earn the chance to come. But you won't know.

And you won't be able to stop it. Or stop yourself. It'll be messy. Shameful. Automated. And recorded forever. Ready? 10.. 9... 8... Stroke harder. 7... 6 You feel that pressure? Good. 5 ...4... Let your cock ache. 3 ...2... CUM!

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 25 days ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/HypnoHookup

M4F Someday I will find my perfect match

Someone that gets that trust is earned and built slowly and steadily, that devotion doesn't come easy until it does. That this is worth all the searching, waiting, trying and investment of time in exploring ourselves and one another to find that explosive match where things just click and you know this is who you are meant to be, this what you've been working toward all this time.

I don't give up, I'm tenacious, I am endless, I am self-aware, I am analytical, I am creative, I love deeply and forever. If I choose you and you choose me, that means something beyond what words can ever express. Nothing is forever but I will still care long after you've entered and left my life.

I may post a lot but that doesn't mean I'm looking for just anyone. I'm looking for someone specific and I know you are out here somewhere and I will find you or hopefully you will find me!

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 29 days ago
โ–ฒ 11 r/EstimFetish

Looking for male e-stim suggestions

New here and definitely looking at posts but figured I'd ask for some advice. I'm looking for recommendations on e-stim devices for cock and or balls, something that is NOT overly intense but also that isn't like a pulsing zap if that makes sense. I want something that is maybe between typical e-stim and your typical vibrations if that even exists. Most e-stim outside of basic tens units has been a bit too much for me. Having something that is more constant where maybe the intensity can gradually be upped over time or naturally is programmable that way might be best? Just seeing what you all might have for suggestions!

Thank you!

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 29 days ago

48 [M4F] Looking for Dominant leaning in #SE Minnesota or along the WI border #Online

I'm very open with what I am looking for because any proper dynamic starts with friendship and trust and in reality I'd be more than fine just making a good female friend to talk with about both kink stuff as well as other aspects of life. I am always open to someone that leans dominant but is still figuring it out to someone who is fully dominant and knows what she wants, either is fine.

For now I'd prefer to chat and get to know one another online but ultimately I'd love to find someone close by so that if and when things might progress whether that be a dynamic or just friends hanging out around a backyard fire or going to dinner that it would be reasonable it could happen if we really wanted it to.

About me, where to start? I'm never great about this and I promise I do much better in a conversation. Basics, 5'10" 190lbs. Clean-shaven, long hair, tattoos, musician/artist/designer, gardener, overall creative type. I have a very analytical mind, I am passionate, driven, I don't give up, stubborn, I don't quit, I'm a bit relentless. ๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm also incredibly self-aware. I own my own home, I have a career. I've been single a long time and I'm not really looking to change that, not opposed to it but definitely not seeking a relationship. I'm very sapiosexual in that intelligence is a turn on, good conversation and intelligent debate/discourse is something I welcome. I am the type of person who loves to be wrong for two basic reasons, the first is being wrong is an opportunity to learn something and secondly the things I'm usually right about aren't often celebratory things ๐Ÿ˜‚

I'm submissive, mostly sexually, although I am inherently a people pleaser in general. I could technically be a switch sexualy as I have been dominant in the past and to me it kinda depends on the chemistry and situation although I way more lean toward the submissive role, it's far more comfortable for me and far more my identity. I.can elaborate more on any of this at a later time when we talk.

Hard Limits seems like a good place to start kink wise as this may just throw me right out the window for some as these are hard limits and there are reasons. I will not change my mind.

Assplay or anal is not something I am ever going to be into, nor is piss, scat, anything permanent or anything illegal outside of maybe public type stuff but that would have to be safe enough that the risk threshold was very, very low, after all I really don't want to get charged with indecent exposure. ๐Ÿ˜‚

On to kinks

Objectification is a biggie for me, I really like the idea of role reversal, thinking of situations where women are over sexualized, groped, catcalled, etc. I want these things as a man, like a CNC type situation. Exhibitionism is big with me, the shock, the shame.

Obvious kinks like JOI/JOE. I'm into some light CBT, I'm not big on pain in general but my balls have taken weighted clamps and I'm poured hot wax over my clean shaven genitals, so things of that nature I can handle and endure.

Hypnosis is another big one for me, my experience is fairly limited but the one tist I had who put me into trance multiple times, it was incredible and I'd love to explore it more. I'm very into performance based stuff which ties in with the objectification and exhibitionism as well as roleplay and cosplay and even petplay. Also very intrigued by milking, latex, rubber, machines, etc. I would be amenable to things such as cumplay or cum eating but only if my partner deeply desired it. I do believe in female superiority and I would like to please my partner. I definitely like most people have fantasies, some may stay fantasies but some I'm very eager to try and figure out how to explore them safely before my time on this planet is over.

As I said earlier, no expectations, if I just make a new fun friend to chat with here and there when we both have moments throughout our day great! It can be more than that but doesn't need to be.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 30 days ago

48 [M4F] Lookingfor dominant leaning friend #SE Minnesota/WI border #Online

I'm very open with what I am looking for because any proper dynamic starts with friendship and trust and in reality I'd be more than fine just making a good female friend to talk with about both kink stuff as well as other aspects of life. I am always open to someone that leans dominant but is still figuring it out to someone who is fully dominant and knows what she wants, either is fine.

For now I'd prefer to chat and get to know one another online but ultimately I'd love to find someone close by so that if and when things might progress whether that be a dynamic or just friends hanging out around a backyard fire or going to dinner that it would be reasonable it could happen if we really wanted it to.

About me, where to start? I'm never great about this and I promise I do much better in a conversation. Basics, 5'10" 190lbs. Clean-shaven, long hair, tattoos, musician/artist/designer, gardener, overall creative type. I have a very analytical mind, I am passionate, driven, I don't give up, stubborn, I don't quit, I'm a bit relentless. ๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm also incredibly self-aware. I own my own home, I have a career. I've been single a long time and I'm not really looking to change that, not opposed to it but definitely not seeking a relationship. I'm very sapiosexual in that intelligence is a turn on, good conversation and intelligent debate/discourse is something I welcome. I am the type of person who loves to be wrong for two basic reasons, the first is being wrong is an opportunity to learn something and secondly the things I'm usually right about aren't often celebratory things ๐Ÿ˜‚

I'm submissive, mostly sexually, although I am inherently a people pleaser in general. I could technically be a switch sexualy as I have been dominant in the past and to me it kinda depends on the chemistry and situation although I way more lean toward the submissive role, it's far more comfortable for me and far more my identity. I.can elaborate more on any of this at a later time when we talk.

Hard Limits seems like a good place to start kink wise as this may just throw me right out thewindow for some as theseare hard limits and there are reasons and I will not change my mind.

Assplay or anal is not something I am ever going to be into, nor is piss, scat, anything permanent or anything illegal outside of maybe public type stuff but that would have to be safe enough that the risk threshold was very, very low, after all I really don't want to get charged with indecent exposure. ๐Ÿ˜‚

On to kinks

Objectification is a biggie for me, I really like the idea of role reversal, thinking of situations where women are oversexualized, groped, catcalled, etc. I want these things as a man, like a CNC type situation. Exhibitionism is big with me, the shock, the shame.

Obvious kinks like JOI/JOE. I'm into some light CBT, I'm not big on pain in general but my balls have taken weighted clamps and I'm poured hot wax over my clean shaven genitals, so things of that nature I can handle and endure. Hypnosis is another big one for me, my experience is fairly limited but the one tist I had who put me into trance multiple times, it was incredible and I'd love to explore it more. I'm very into performance based stuff which ties in with the objectification and exhibitionism as well as roleplay and cosplay and even petplay. Also very intrigued by milking, latex, rubber, machines, etc. I would be amenable to things such as cumplay or cum eating but only if my partner deeply desired it. I do believe in female superiority and I would like to please my partner. I definitely like most people have fantasies, some may stay fantasies but some I'm very eager to try and figure out how to explore them safely before my time on this planet is over.

As I said earlier, no expectations, if I just make a new fun friend to chat with here and there when we both have moments throughout our day great! It can be more than that but doesn't need to be.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 30 days ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/HypnoHookup

M4F Subby looking to experience clicker control

I love voice hypnosis, have I only hada limited amount of experience but recently I have become very interested in the concept of being trained/controlled by a clicker. The idea that a click could make me hard, make me instantly leak or cum, etc. is so intriguing to me!

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 30 days ago

[M4F] Sub seeking a genuine connection

I am seeking to make a genuine connection/friendship with a women that has a fair amount of experience in hypnosis. I'd really like the opportunity to build a trusting mutually beneficial relationship that may allow me to explore hypnosis in a safe space with someone who is fun and relaxed.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/SexFantasies

M47 Show me off to your friends.

In this heat,, I want to be shackled outdoors somewhere secluded (not looking to get charged with indecent exposure) I have the shackles, leave me out there sweating with the hot steel shackles burning my skin, my erect cock and an inability to be able to do anything about it. Bring your friends over and show me off like a circus sideshow exhibit, let me be entertainment.

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u/OnPublicDisplay โ€” 1 month ago