u/PaleontologistSea640

32 [M4F] #Europe, looking for a (sub) partner.

I am a 32 year old man living in Central Europe.

When it comes to my looks I am around a 170cm, with a good voice and good looks, appearance.

Personalitywise I would say that I am a healthy blend of an introverted and an extroverted person (ENFJ) who has a lot of emotional intelligence. I also love to look after people, and based on what they say about me, I am accomodating and easy to talk to.

Establishing a deep connection within and outside of kinks is really important for me.

I am a romantic person who is an experienced daddy dom and has many other kinks as well, ABDL is something I find special. The way how I define it is something intimate and gentle that adds another layer to a relationship. It deepens trust, chemistry and connection (I don’t just look at it from a fetish perspective). Boundaries are also important and I prefer to get to know the other person, before we get into deeply kink related conversations.

A bit more about my daddy dom personality/experience: I am a gentle daddy dom who loves to look after and satisfy his partner, consent and comfort mean everything to me.

More about me, my interests and hobbies: I love art, poetry (I write poems as a hobby and make minimalistic drawings as well), learning about foreign languages and cultures is something that fascinates me. Psychology, reading, deep-stimulating conversations are also something I really enjoy, besides these interests, I like tapletop gaming, video games, hiking, dogwalking and checking out restaurants.

What I value in a potential significant other: I value genuinity, altruism, kindness, emotional intelligence, quick witted-ness, good humor and generosity. Someone who is knowledgeable, well mannered and knows how to keep up conversation. I find intelligence to be one of the most attractive attributes, besieds that intrinsic attributes in general matter the most to me, everything else is secondary.

Who I am ideally looking for: Someone with whom I can share my life with, intimate moments, I can look after, we can rely on each other, a person who enjoys kink life and is open to trying out new things, however kinks don’t define her personality 24/7. A person who can engage in deep, silly and stimulating conversations as well as flirtatious ones.

I am open to long distance as long as there is an intention in closing the distance.

Please note that personality matters the most, as that is what I am attracted to and fall in love with, also establishing a mutual and deep connection is paramount for me, so let us take our time to get to know each other.

If you feel that my message resonates with you, then feel free to reach out to me 😊.

Thank you for taking the time and reading my post!

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u/PaleontologistSea640 — 8 days ago

I am a 32 year old man living in Central Europe around a 170cm, with a good voice and good looks.
Personalitywise I am an extroverted ENFJ person who has a lot of emotional intelligence and is really accomodating, I love to look after people. Establishing a deep connection within and outside of kinks is really important for me.
I am a romantic person who has many other kinks as well, femdom/mommydom is something I find special and intimate in a relationship, that adds extra layers to it. I want to experience my submissive side with a gentle, understanding and appreciating partner with whom I can be vulnerable.

(In the past I identified as a daddy dom so I am experienced in (gentle) domination, however a couple of years ago I started identifying as a switch, for this reason I am ideally looking for a partner who is a switch, however everything is up for discussion as I also love to please and look after, satisfy the other person.

More about me and my interests, hobbies: I love art, poetry (I write poems as a hobby), I love learning about new languages and cultures, politics. Psychology, reading, deep-stimulating conversations are also something I really enjoy, besides these interests, I like tapletop gaming, video games, hiking, dogwalking and checking out restaurants.

What I value in a potential significant other: I value genuinity, altruism, kindness, emotional intelligence, quick witted-ness, good humor and generosity. Intrinsic attributes matter the most to me, everything else is secondary.

What I am not looking for: findoms, fake doms, harsh doms, racism, conservativism, someone who doesn’t know when to stop or what is right in certain settings.

 

Who I am ideally looking for: Someone with whom I can share intimate moments, rely on each other, a person who enjoys kink life and is open to trying out new things, however kinks don’t define her personality 24/7. I am looking for deep, stimulating conversations as well as fliratious ones.
Consent and comfort means everything to me. I also want a person with whom I can have a deeply affection long relationship and ideally closing the distance, for the time being, I am open for long distance. I am not looking for a professional, I am only looking for someone who has interest in this kink that she wants to pursue and grow in it, lets grow together.

Please note that personality matters the most, as that is what I am attracted to and fall in love with, also establishing a mutual and deep connection is paramount for me, so please let us take our time to get to know each other.

Messages, such as a simple „hey” are not something I am looking for, by all means please reach out, however be engaging, and let us talk about other things besides kink as well, preferably as a start. (We can talk about everything else after).

If you feel that my message resonates with you, then feel free to reach out to me 😊.

Thank you for taking the time and reading my post!

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u/PaleontologistSea640 — 18 days ago

I am a 32 year old man living in Central Europe around a 170cm, with a good voice and good looks.
Personalitywise I am an extroverted ENFJ person who has a lot of emotional intelligence and is really accomodating, I love to look after people. Establishing a deep connection within and outside of kinks is really important for me.
I am a romantic person who has many other kinks as well, femdom/mommydom is something I find special and intimate in a relationship, that adds extra layers to it. I want to experience my submissive side with a gentle, understanding and appreciating partner with whom I can be vulnerable.

(In the past I identified as a daddy dom so I am experienced in (gentle) domination, however a couple of years ago I started identifying as a switch, for this reason I am ideally looking for a partner who is a switch, however everything is up for discussion as I also love to please and look after, satisfy the other person.

More about me and my interests, hobbies: I love art, poetry (I write poems as a hobby), I love learning about new languages and cultures, politics. Psychology, reading, deep-stimulating conversations are also something I really enjoy, besides these interests, I like tapletop gaming, video games, hiking, dogwalking and checking out restaurants.

What I value in a potential significant other: I value genuinity, altruism, kindness, emotional intelligence, quick witted-ness, good humor and generosity. Intrinsic attributes matter the most to me, everything else is secondary.

What I am not looking for: findoms, fake doms, harsh doms, racism, conservativism, someone who doesn’t know when to stop or what is right in certain settings.

 

Who I am ideally looking for: Someone with whom I can share intimate moments, rely on each other, a person who enjoys kink life and is open to trying out new things, however kinks don’t define her personality 24/7. I am looking for deep, stimulating conversations as well as fliratious ones.
Consent and comfort means everything to me. I also want a person with whom I can have a deeply affection long relationship and ideally closing the distance, for the time being, I am open for long distance. I am not looking for a professional, I am only looking for someone who has interest in this kink that she wants to pursue and grow in it, lets grow together.

Please note that personality matters the most, as that is what I am attracted to and fall in love with, also establishing a mutual and deep connection is paramount for me, so please let us take our time to get to know each other.

Messages, such as a simple „hey” are not something I am looking for, by all means please reach out, however be engaging, and let us talk about other things besides kink as well, preferably as a start. (We can talk about everything else after).

If you feel that my message resonates with you, then feel free to reach out to me 😊.

Thank you for taking the time and reading my post!

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u/PaleontologistSea640 — 18 days ago

I am a 32 year old man living in Central Europe around a 170cm, with a good voice and good looks.

Personalitywise I am an extroverted ENFJ person who has a lot of emotional intelligence and is really accomodating, I love to look after people. Establishing a deep connection within and outside of kinks is really important for me.

I am a romantic person who is an experienced daddy dom and has many other kinks as well, ABDL is something I find special and intimate in a relationship, that adds extra layers to it.

More about me and my interests, hobbies: I love art, poetry (I write poems as a hobby), I love learning about new languages and cultures. Psychology, reading, deep-stimulating conversations are also something I really enjoy, besides these interests, I like tapletop gaming, video games, hiking, dogwalking and checking out restaurants.

What I value in a potential significant other: I value genuinity, altruism, kindness, emotional intelligence, quick witted-ness, good humor and generosity. Intrinsic attributes matter the most to me, everything else is secondary.

Who I am ideally looking for: Someone with whom I can share intimate moments, I can look after, we can rely on each other, a person who enjoys kink life and is open to trying out new things, however kinks don’t define her personality 24/7. I am looking for deep, stimulating conversations as well as fliratious ones.

I am a gentle daddy dom and I love to satisfy, consent and comfort mean everything to me.

Please note that personality matters the most, as that is what I am attracted to and fall in love with, also establishing a mutual and deep connection is paramount for me, so please let us take our time to get to know each other.

If you feel that my message resonates with you, then feel free to reach out to me 😊.

Thank you for taking the time and reading my post!

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u/PaleontologistSea640 — 18 days ago

I am a 32 year old man living in Central Europe around a 170cm, with a good voice and good looks.
Personalitywise I am an extroverted ENFJ person who has a lot of emotional intelligence and is really accomodating, I love to look after people. Establishing a deep connection within and outside of kinks is really important for me.
I am a romantic person who has many other kinks as well, femdom/mommydom is something I find special and intimate in a relationship, that adds extra layers to it. I want to experience my submissive side with a gentle, understanding and appreciating partner with whom I can be vulnerable.

(In the past I identified as a daddy dom so I am experienced in (gentle) domination, however a couple of years ago I started identifying as a switch, for this reason I am ideally looking for a partner who is a switch, however everything is up for discussion as I also love to please and look after, satisfy the other person.

More about me and my interests, hobbies: I love art, poetry (I write poems as a hobby), I love learning about new languages and cultures, politics. Psychology, reading, deep-stimulating conversations are also something I really enjoy, besides these interests, I like tapletop gaming, video games, hiking, dogwalking and checking out restaurants.

What I value in a potential significant other: I value genuinity, altruism, kindness, emotional intelligence, quick witted-ness, good humor and generosity. Intrinsic attributes matter the most to me, everything else is secondary.

What I am not looking for: findoms, fake doms, harsh doms, racism, conservativism, someone who doesn’t know when to stop or what is right in certain settings.

 

Who I am ideally looking for: Someone with whom I can share intimate moments, rely on each other, a person who enjoys kink life and is open to trying out new things, however kinks don’t define her personality 24/7. I am looking for deep, stimulating conversations as well as fliratious ones.
Consent and comfort means everything to me. I also want a person with whom I can have a deeply affection long relationship and ideally closing the distance, for the time being, I am open for long distance. I am not looking for a professional, I am only looking for someone who has interest in this kink that she wants to pursue and grow in it, lets grow together.

Please note that personality matters the most, as that is what I am attracted to and fall in love with, also establishing a mutual and deep connection is paramount for me, so please let us take our time to get to know each other.

Messages, such as a simple „hey” are not something I am looking for, by all means please reach out, however be engaging, and let us talk about other things besides kink as well, preferably as a start. (We can talk about everything else after).

If you feel that my message resonates with you, then feel free to reach out to me 😊.

Thank you for taking the time and reading my post!

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u/PaleontologistSea640 — 28 days ago