u/PanDom2727

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27 [M4F] #NYC - Looking For Submissive (or Switch) Fwb

Heyo, I've been a dom for the last four years. I've met some people at events that later became my sub. I'm trying out reddit now. I'm looking for someone who likes degredation, praise, and bondage. I'd like text for a bit and then plan to grab a coffee if there's chemistry. I'm able to host and travel. I've got some bdsm gear that I haven't gotten to use in a while. Maybe I have something that you might want to try.

I'm Hispanic, light-skinned/tan, a little shorter but I lowkey like taller women too. I'm slim/average rn. My shoulders and triceps grow when I'm disciplined with a gym routine tho. I work a boring office job and I'm just looking to find a fun person who likes being belittled as much as they like being called a Good Girl in the bedroom.

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u/PanDom2727 — 1 day ago

27 [M4FtM] #NYC - Looking For A Cute Pup To Breed

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Breeding is one of the most primitive instincts inside us all. A cocktail of hormones overwhelms your body, fogging your mind and rationality. There's a need inside you that builds up. And each gif you see of a cock throbbing and releasing warm white seed into a pink hole makes you desperate for your turn. Your legs and crotch get all warm, angsty, and needy for a man's pound of flesh to stuff you.

I'm here to satisfy that craving. It's not your fault that you're struggling with this urge, this hunger inside you. It's not something you can satisfy on your own and that's why you're reading this. You want to feel what it's like to be a coveted little fleshlight. To feel some perverts hands on you, to be pushed down into the bed when a man thrusts his cock, and to feel full with a man's precious warm seed. You just have to get on your knees and get work this shaft until it's erect. Think you can do that?

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u/PanDom2727 — 2 days ago

27 [M4F] #NYC - Looking For Submissive (or Switch) Fwb,

Heyo, I've been a dom for about 4 years. I started by going to local events. I made some friends and learned about proper kink/bdsm etiquette with some partners I experimented with. I'm trying rying out reddit now. I'm looking for someone who likes degredation, praise, spanking, and bondage. I'm into more than that but those are my top kinks and they're pretty standard. I'd host at my place or get a room where it's convenient.

I'm Hispanic, light-skinned/tan, a little shorter but I lowkey like taller women too. I'm slim/average rn. My shoulders and triceps grow when I'm disciplined with a gym routine tho. I work a boring office job and I'm just looking to find a fun person who likes being belittled and being called a good girl. I'm very verbal and I like lowkey playing with people's heads, switching between soft and sadistic personalities.

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u/PanDom2727 — 2 days ago
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27/19 [MF4F] #NYC - Looking For A Third

We are looking for a female third to join us. We like to make sure there's some chemistry. This means talking and meeting in person at least once. She's new to bdsm and kink while I've been experimenting the last four years. I like to degrade and praise. She'd like to find someone closer to her age but is open to someone close to mines.

Not sure what else to add but reach out!

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u/PanDom2727 — 2 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Pervert Looking For His Degradee

You look up and stare at the floor numbers blink on and off as the elevator changes floors. You eye our floor number, watching it get closer. A small pit of nervousness, shyness, excitement, and apprehension washes over you before a break in your attention. My hands are on your hips now. It startled you and you look around, worried that someone will see. No one else is there. "Are you nervous?" I ask you, pulling you against me.

"You can tell me to stop if you're nervous. You don't have to take a step outside of this elevator. You can put your head and walk away. But you're so close now, so close to what you want. You know what you came here for, when you messaged me."

You feel my hands carelessly grope and and squeeze you. My crotch pressed up against you, your body against mines with my perverted hands caressing my new little plaything. "Sorry, I just can't help myself. You had this lovely dress and.... and well you know what's going to happen when we get into that room. There's no point in acting civil and innocent here. In a few minutes, you're going to be on your knees with this stranger's cock stuffing your pretty little mouth"

I give your back a soft spank and squeeze. "It's what you want right? Having a perverted man's cock to suck on, to pleasure, to kiss and drool on. You want me to see what a good girl you are, a good perverted little slut who acts innocent in public...."

The elevator lights change. It's our floor. This is your last chance to back out. The elevator slows and stops. I take a small step back and pull my hands off from you softly like nothing happened. Do you hit the lobby floor button or do you take a step off.

"Here," I take one of the room passes and hand it to you. "Take it. I want you to find the room. I'll follow behind you. I want to appreciate your dress before it comes off"

Sooooo do you take that step?

Send me a message if you're brave enough to take that step. I'm 27, from Yonkers, can host, and I'm looking for a sub for something consistent. I'm into a lot, nothing extreme. I have some bdsm toys. Hope to hear from you!

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u/PanDom2727 — 3 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Looking For A Sub With An Agegap Kink

Hi! I'm looking for someone else into agagaps. I met someone on here last year (on a throwaway) who was 18 and I'm hoping I can find another person into older guys or someone inexperienced.

I never thought something would come of it last year but a college freshman reached out to me. She liked my personal and we pretty much clicked right away. We both bonded over shows like Doctor Who and made plans to meet for coffee. Leading up to our first date, we became very flirty and we both decided that day would also be her last day as a virgin. When we met for coffee, I'm pretty sure all we did was look at the clock to see if we could check into our room. We ended our dynamic last winter and I'm back now, looking for a sub again. Hopefully this lasts a little longer tho.

I'm into art, used to do graphic design and stagecraft in college. I mainly spend time now between the gym, work, and being outside. At home, I like to watch tv and like following different production projects. I'm also a bit of latin history buff and like rock. I've been listening to more Spanish music of late. I'm also 420 friendly and like to knock out some errands or go out after smoking a bit. There's the movie I Love Boosters that I intend on lighting up and watching today.

I like to enjoy my life but I'm also responsible. I was the first in my family to go to college and I got mine on a full-ride. I grew up in a small, struggling household and I thrived when my parents pushed responsibilities and duties on to me. I feel like this background usually resonates with girls from traditional households. My previous exes were both ex-church members lol. Send a message if you're interested and tell me a little bit about yourself.

I'm into a lot of kinks. I'm very verbal with degredation, praise, anal, and orgasm-control being my favorite kinks.

Limits: anything involving scat, blood, knives, needles

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u/PanDom2727 — 3 days ago

27 [M4F] #NYC/CT/Online - Looking For A Sub With An Agegap Kink

Hi! I'm looking for someone else into agagaps. I met someone on here last year (on a throwaway) who was 18 and I'm hoping I can find another person into older guys or someone inexperienced.

I never thought something would come of it last year but a college freshman reached out to me. She liked my personal and we pretty much clicked right away. We both bonded over shows like Doctor Who and made plans to meet for coffee. Leading up to our first date, we became very flirty and we both decided that day would also be her last day as a virgin. When we met for coffee, I'm pretty sure all we did was look at the clock to see if we could check into our room. We ended our dynamic last winter and I'm back now, looking for a sub again. Hopefully this lasts a little longer tho.

I'm into art, used to do graphic design and stagecraft in college. I mainly spend time now between the gym, work, and being outside. At home, I like to watch tv and like following different production projects. I'm also a bit of latin history buff and like rock. I've been listening to more Spanish music of late. I'm also 420 friendly and like to knock out some errands or go out after smoking a bit. There's the movie I Love Boosters that I intend on lighting up and watching today.

I like to enjoy my life but I'm also responsible. I was the first in my family to go to college and I got mine on a full-ride. I grew up in a small, struggling household and I thrived when my parents pushed responsibilities and duties on to me. I feel like this background usually resonates with girls from traditional households. My previous exes were both ex-church members lol. Send a message if you're interested and tell me a little bit about yourself.

I'm into a lot of kinks. I'm very verbal with degredation, praise, anal, and orgasm-control being my favorite kinks.

Limits: anything involving scat, blood, knives, needles

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u/PanDom2727 — 4 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Looking For Masochist Sub To Serve Me

I'm looking for a sub that enjoys degradation, rough-play, oral, and has a higher drive. I'm a very verbal dom. I like to announce and talk through everything I do with shy and inexperienced girls. I also enjoy degradation and praise, switching between them. I like acting as if I'm some online perv (technically true) when there's an agegap, like it's some NTR situation.

I'm still young and exploring. I had 3 long-term subs and I'm back in a spot to explore again. I want to learn a few more knots so I could use a playmate that wants to serve as rope practice. Outside of kinks, I'm a pretty normal guy, just navigating the corporate world. I like tv, thrift, read, keep up with the news, and do some art on the side. From my previous relationships, I think I bond easier with people with similar backgrounds. I grew up in a struggling household and I just happened to thrive in it. I had two exes that came from religious, traditional households and we sorta bonded over how different we turned out. It helped me understand why they grew up and were submissive, letting me really play with the mental spaces in a scene.

I'm comfortable respecting any hard boundaries you have. While I'm looking for a masochist, I do think it's important to open communication. Just send a hello and let's get to know each other.

Limits: Scat, Blood, Knives, Needles, Staples, and other things that are unsanitary/unsafe

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u/PanDom2727 — 5 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Talk You Through Your First Time

I'm a dom from Yonkers and I'm looking for someone who in need of a safe partner for their first time.

This next bit isn't relevant to what I'm seeking or the kinks I'm into. But this is relevant to you so you know who you're speaking to.

I'm was raised in a busy, struggling household. A lot of responsibility got pushed onto me and I just got well at handling pressure. I was an AP honors kid then was pretty average at my uni. I got into ddlg and it just clicked. I'm the eldest sibling so some of those caretaker qualities were something I already had. If you didn't know that I was into kinks, you'd say I'm calm, carefree, and I always have some random bit of info relevant to the convo.

I am a big fan of degredation and agegaps. Don't yuk my yum lol, it's just what I'm into. Your first time is a big ask and an important moment. If you reach out, I'm going to assume it's what you're seeking out. If it were anyone else that I knew, I'd probably tell them to wait for a special person to come their way. But again, for at least two others, they wanted a dom with experience that would talk them through their first time. Someone who wouldn't be shy to manhandle and be rough with them. Someone that was communicative and went through limits with them. Someone that met them in person for a coffee and would check-in with them during the moment. Send me a message if you're this type of girl. Tell me about yourself too and anything your passionate about.

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u/PanDom2727 — 5 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Looking For A Cute Sub

I'm a semi-experienced dom just looking for a casual partner on here. I know starting out is nerve wrecking since I was new at one point. Around four years ago, I attended my first munches and play parties. I've had some partners and dynamics since then. I want to get to know someone first, see if we have chemistry, and plan some nights together.

I enjoy roleplay, degredation, praise, spanking, and cnc. I think those are my top kinks but have others. Right now, I'm doing some online classes so I can apply to better jobs and that stress is getting to me. It'd be nice to find a cute sub to distract myself with.

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u/PanDom2727 — 8 days ago

27 [M4F] #NYC - Daddy Looking For A Lost Little Bunny

I'm looking to find someone that's lost, in need of guidance and structure.

So for context, I grew up in a busy, struggling household. A lot of responsibility got thrown at me since I was the oldest. I simply learned how to step up and take the lead in new things. I keep to myself but that changes if I know you.

I grew a need in me to help others, fix problems, find solutions, or get the info you needed. I eventually found ddlg and it heavily fed that need. I met people that had traumatic pasts, came from strict households, or had behavioral issues. Somewhere along the way, this became my type. I enjoy feeling needed and putting effort into people. It's almost definitely an ego thing, feeling responsible for someone's growth.

My kinks directly contrast that urge to support and build-up a person. I enjoy stripping someone down in the bedroom. Not just clothes, I mean belittling and objectification. I'm pretty sure this is coming from an undeveloped superiority complex. It wasn't until college until I met others who were as competent, capable, and motivated as I was or more. So I don't think I'm the best thing since Sliced Bread but I know there is aomeone here looking for me. A dom that will invest in you, not just in the "I want to mold you into my perfect little fleshlight," type of way. I want to build you up, give you purpose, and eventually confidence in yourself. This type of relationship is what will make our intimacy intense. I'll know you intimately, your weaknesses, insecurities, and aspirations. I will know how to praise you just right. My degredation and sadistic treatment won't feel abusive when you know I'll still cuddle you and be there at your side.

I'm into agegaps, ddlg, oral, anal, bondage, spanking, breathplay and so much more. Just say hello, tell me your name and why you think we're a good fit. I want to get to know you already.

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u/PanDom2727 — 9 days ago

27 [M4F] #NYC - Daddy Looking For A Lost Little Bunny

I'm looking to find someone that's lost, in need of guidance and structure.

So for context, I grew up in a busy, struggling household. A lot of responsibility got thrown at me since I was the oldest. I simply learned how to step up and take the lead in new things. I keep to myself but that changes if I know you.

I grew a need in me to help others, fix problems, find solutions, or get the info you needed. I eventually found ddlg and it heavily fed that need. I met people that had traumatic pasts, came from strict households, or had behavioral issues. Somewhere along the way, this became my type. I enjoy feeling needed and putting effort into people. It's almost definitely an ego thing, feeling responsible for someone's growth.

My kinks directly contrast that urge to support and build-up a person. I enjoy stripping someone down in the bedroom. Not just clothes, I mean belittling and objectification. I'm pretty sure this is coming from an undeveloped superiority complex. It wasn't until college until I met others who were as competent, capable, and motivated as I was or more. So I don't think I'm the best thing since Sliced Bread but I know there is aomeone here looking for me. A dom that will invest in you, not just in the "I want to mold you into my perfect little fleshlight," type of way. I want to build you up, give you purpose, and eventually confidence in yourself. This type of relationship is what will make our intimacy intense. I'll know you intimately, your weaknesses, insecurities, and aspirations. I will know how to praise you just right. My degredation and sadistic treatment won't feel abusive when you know I'll still cuddle you and be there at your side.

I'm into agegaps, ddlg, oral, anal, bondage, spanking, breathplay and so much more. Just say hello, tell me your name and why you think we're a good fit. I want to get to know you already.

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u/PanDom2727 — 9 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Friendly Dom Looking For A Sub

I've been a dom for the last ~4 years and I'm looking for a sub. I met two subs on here before so I'm trying this again. I have a new job and more time to look again. I'm into ddlg, degredation, praise, cnc, bondage, and agegaps. We'll get along if you're into those but I'm also into other stuff.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself around and have regular conversations with. That said, if I like you and we're constantly flirting then we're not going to spend much time talking. I'm able to host and I already have a small collection of bdsm toys that I'd like to grow.

Don't be discouraged if you're new or there's an agegap. Both of my exes were in college and one of them was new entirely to kink. They pretty much liked that I was a family man. I'm the oldest of my siblings and it's not hard to tell. I was pretty much all of their babysitters and am now guiding them into college at their own pace.

A lot of responsibility got pushed on me growing up but it's made me comfortable under pressure, being direct, and ordering others around. I used to be a tutor and that lowkey helps me deal with some troublesome coworkers. No one has noticed yet that I'll talk to them like a student, slowly nudging their behavior a bit. I spent a lot of time ropeplaying before and I'm very verbal. I like getting to know my subs so I know what sort of praise or degradation works best on them.

Before attending my first munch or play-party, I would have online subs. I know how to control my voice, when to be quite and soft or loud and intimidating. The more I know about you, the easier it is for me to know what sort of praise fills you with accomplishment or what demeaning words excite you without actually hurting you.

Not sure what else to add but just say hello and tell me a little bit about yourself. Do you think your background has shaped your kink interests?

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u/PanDom2727 — 9 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Friendly Dom Looking For A Sub To Teach

I've been a dom for the last ~4 years and I'm looking for a sub. I met two subs on here before so I'm trying this again. I have a new job and more time to look again. I'm into ddlg, degredation, praise, cnc, bondage, and agegaps. We'll get along if you're into those but I'm also into other stuff.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself around and have regular conversations with. That said, if I like you and we're constantly flirting then we're not going to spend much time talking. I'm able to host and I already have a small collection of bdsm toys that I'd like to grow.

Don't be discouraged if you're new or there's an agegap. Both of my exes were in college and one of them was new entirely to kink. They pretty much liked that I was a family man. I'm the oldest of my siblings and it's not hard to tell. I was pretty much all of their babysitters and am now guiding them into college at their own pace.

A lot of responsibility got pushed on me growing up but it's made me comfortable under pressure, being direct, and ordering others around. I used to be a tutor and that lowkey helps me deal with some troublesome coworkers. No one has noticed yet that I'll talk to them like a student, slowly nudging their behavior a bit. I spent a lot of time ropeplaying before and I'm very verbal. I like getting to know my subs so I know what sort of praise or degradation works best on them.

Before attending my first munch or play-party, I would have online subs. I know how to control my voice, when to be quite and soft or loud and intimidating. The more I know about you, the easier it is for me to know what sort of praise fills you with accomplishment or what demeaning words excite you without actually hurting you.

Not sure what else to add but just say hello and tell me a little bit about yourself. Do you think your background has shaped your kink interests?

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u/PanDom2727 — 9 days ago

27 [M4F] #NYC - Friendly Dom Looking For A Sub To Explore With Or Teach

I've been a dom for the last ~4 years and I'm looking for a sub. I met two subs on here before so I'm trying this again. I have a new job and more time to look again. I'm into ddlg, degredation, praise, cnc, bondage, and agegaps. We'll get along if you're into those but I'm also into other stuff.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself around and have regular conversations with. That said, if I like you and we're constantly flirting then we're not going to spend much time talking. I'm able to host and I already have a small collection of bdsm toys that I'd like to grow.

Don't be discouraged if you're new or there's an agegap. Both of my exes were in college and one of them was new entirely to kink. They pretty much liked that I was a family man. I'm the oldest of my siblings and it's not hard to tell. I was pretty much all of their babysitters and am now guiding them into college at their own pace.

A lot of responsibility got pushed on me growing up but it's made me comfortable under pressure, being direct, and ordering others around. I used to be a tutor and that lowkey helps me deal with some troublesome coworkers. No one has noticed yet that I'll talk to them like a student, slowly nudging their behavior a bit. I spent a lot of time ropeplaying before and I'm very verbal. I like getting to know my subs so I know what sort of praise or degradation works best on them.

Before attending my first munch or play-party, I would have online subs. I know how to control my voice, when to be quite and soft or loud and intimidating. The more I know about you, the easier it is for me to know what sort of praise fills you with accomplishment or what demeaning words excite you without actually hurting you.

Not sure what else to add but just say hello and tell me a little bit about yourself. Do you think your background has shaped your kink interests?

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u/PanDom2727 — 10 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Friendly Dom Looking For A Sub To Explore With Or Teach

I've been a dom for the last ~4 years and I'm looking for a sub. I met two subs on here before so I'm trying this again. I have a new job and more time to look again. I'm into ddlg, degredation, praise, cnc, bondage, and agegaps. We'll get along if you're into those but I'm also into other stuff.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself around and have regular conversations with. That said, if I like you and we're constantly flirting then we're not going to spend much time talking. I'm able to host and I already have a small collection of bdsm toys that I'd like to grow.

Don't be discouraged if you're new or there's an agegap. Both of my exes were in college and one of them was new entirely to kink. They pretty much liked that I was a family man. I'm the oldest of my siblings and it's not hard to tell. I was pretty much all of their babysitters and am now guiding them into college at their own pace.

A lot of responsibility got pushed on me growing up but it's made me comfortable under pressure, being direct, and ordering others around. I used to be a tutor and that lowkey helps me deal with some troublesome coworkers. No one has noticed yet that I'll talk to them like a student, slowly nudging their behavior a bit. I spent a lot of time ropeplaying before and I'm very verbal. I like getting to know my subs so I know what sort of praise or degradation works best on them.

Before attending my first munch or play-party, I would have online subs. I know how to control my voice, when to be quite and soft or loud and intimidating. The more I know about you, the easier it is for me to know what sort of praise fills you with accomplishment or what demeaning words excite you without actually hurting you.

Not sure what else to add but just say hello and tell me a little bit about yourself. Do you think your background has shaped your kink interests?

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u/PanDom2727 — 10 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Dom Looking For A Loser To Save

I'm looking for a lost cause, someone I can take in and build into something better than what I started with.

Yes I'm serious. I'm someone who grew up in a household where a lot of responsibility fell on me and I stepped up each time. I'm usually indifferent towards strangers but that changes once I know you.

I have a persistent need to fix problems, aid, and sorta fix people. The earliest kink I got into was ddlg which fed that need like crazy. I met people that had traumatic pasts, came from strict households, or had behavioral issues. Somewhere along the way, this became my type. I enjoy feeling needed and putting effort into people. It's almost definitely an ego thing, feeling responsible for someone's growth.

This is a bit of a contrast to my kink interests. I like agegaps, ddlg, cnc, anal, bondage, discipline, and degredation. I guess kink in general is considered taboo but I like stripping someone down in the bedroom. I don't mean clothes btw. I enjoy belittling someone down and making them feel less than. I'm not quite sure why but I suspect it's some undeveloped superiority complex. It was only until I got to college when I felt average, being surrounded by so many bright and motivated people. Since graduating, I feel lucky to have the station I hold but it's hard to ignore that a lot of people are struggling out there. I'm hoping someone out here thinks they'd enjoy a d/s relationship with someone like me.

Message me with you name, age, and a brief little intro about yourself if interested.

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u/PanDom2727 — 10 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Dom Looking For A Useless Sub To Train

I'm looking for a lost cause, someone I can take in and build into something better than what I started with.

Yes I'm serious. I'm someone who grew up in a household where a lot of responsibility fell on me and I stepped up each time. I'm usually indifferent towards strangers but that changes once I know you.

I have a persistent need to fix problems, aid, and sorta fix people. The earliest kink I got into was ddlg which fed that need like crazy. I met people that had traumatic pasts, came from strict households, or had behavioral issues. Somewhere along the way, this became my type. I enjoy feeling needed and putting effort into people. It's almost definitely an ego thing, feeling responsible for someone's growth.

This is a bit of a contrast to my kink interests. I like agegaps, ddlg, cnc, anal, bondage, discipline, and degredation. I guess kink in general is considered taboo but I like stripping someone down in the bedroom. I don't mean clothes btw. I enjoy belittling someone down and making them feel less than. I'm not quite sure why but I suspect it's some undeveloped superiority complex. It was only until I got to college when I felt average, being surrounded by so many bright and motivated people. Since graduating, I feel lucky to have the station I hold but it's hard to ignore that a lot of people are struggling out there. I'm hoping someone out here thinks they'd enjoy a d/s relationship with someone like me.

If this is what you're looking for, say hello and tell me a little introduction about yourself

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u/PanDom2727 — 10 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - New Owner Looking For A Puppy/Kitten

I'm new to petplay but I've been a dom for around 3 years now. My previous partners were never into petplay and I never got to explore that kink. I'm looking to change that so I went out and got a collar and leash already (it's pink). I'm looking for the pup, or kitten, that it belongs to.

I'm a young professional navigating the corporate world but I have a double life. My coworkers see me as composed, calm, and respectful. My friends and family place their trust in me. And I think all of them would be surprised to know how I spent my last summer. I spent it degrading a college freshman, taking her first time, and cumming inside her without a second thought.

If you want to know more about me, you're going to have to say hello and introduce yourself

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u/PanDom2727 — 11 days ago
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27 [M4F] #NYC - Novice Friendly Dom Looking For A Mentee

I'm a semi-experienced dom just looking for a casual partner on here. I know starting out is nerve wrecking since I was new at one point. Around four years ago, I attended my first munches and play parties. I've had some partners and dynamics since then. I want to get to know someone first, see if we have chemistry, and plan some nights together.

I enjoy roleplay, degredation, praise, spanking, and cnc. I think those are my top kinks but have others. Right now, I'm doing some online classes so I can apply to better jobs and that stress is getting to me. It'd be nice to find a cute sub to distract myself with.

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u/PanDom2727 — 11 days ago