u/PapaQ86

39 [M4F] #Durham #NC I want someone I obsess over

I really do care for my family, but I miss being a lover and feeling truly in sync with someone erotically, where we share chemistry, similar kinks, and a connection that just grows with every conversation and shared orgasm.

I’d love to explore a secret relationship if this resonates with you. We can keep things light and just have fun and enjoy each other’s company. At the same time, deep down I hope to fall for someone. Would start online but would be open to meeting eventually.

I’m Hispanic and white mixed, with thick dark brown hair that I love and kind hazel eyes. I have a stockier build, but I also workout and I’m working towards goals of being in better shape. I’m somewhat more reserved until I feel comfortable with someone, have a big heart, and I’m definitely an overthinker. I like to say I’m a compassionate grump. People suck, but I also believe that love (in all its forms) and pleasure are what make life worth it. I’m a hopeless romantic who still wants to find my person, even if I’m married.

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u/PapaQ86 — 4 days ago

39 [M4F] #Durham, NC - missing that spark and connection

I’m a married man, I realize this isn’t for everyone. I deeply care for my family, but I haven’t been in lust or in love for a very long time. I’m a very passionate and erotic man, and I both miss that part of me and feeling the chemistry and connection with someone that unlocks who I am as lover and a horny, kinky man.

I’d love to find someone who I might build a discreet, long term connection with. I want to get to know you and feel safe with you, and find all sorts of ways to sexually play and make each other feel good. I want chemistry where even just sexting can feel like erotic worship, love making, or that deep intoxication that feels addicting. I’m also open to meeting some day, if it feels right.

Physically, I’m half white and Hispanic, Spanish features with longer dark brown hair and kind hazelnut eyes, a shortly trimmed beared. I am a bit chubby but I do workout and work to be fitter. I’m 5’8.

I hope to find someone who connects with this post. Talk soon. Xx

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u/PapaQ86 — 8 days ago
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39[M4F] NC or Online - craving lust and erotic love

I’m a married man, I realize this isn’t for everyone. I deeply care for my family, but I haven’t been in lust or in love for a very long time. I’m a very passionate and erotic man, and I both miss that part of me and feeling the chemistry and connection with someone that unlocks who I am as lover and a horny, kinky man.

I’d love to find someone who I might build a discreet, long term connection with. I want to get to know you and feel safe with you, and find all sorts of ways to sexually play and make each other feel good. I want chemistry where even just sexting can feel like erotic worship, love making, or that deep intoxication that feels addicting. I’m also open to meeting some day, if it feels right.

Physically, I’m half white and Hispanic, Spanish features with longer dark brown hair and kind hazelnut eyes, a shortly trimmed beared. I am a bit chubby but I do workout and work to be fitter. I’m 5’8.

I hope to find someone who connects with this post. Talk soon. Xx

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u/PapaQ86 — 8 days ago
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39 [M4F] #nc or #online wanting more than just sex

I’m a married man who deeply cares for my family but also feel disconnected romantically and erotically for who I am and what I truly need. I don’t want to blow up my life, and so I am seeking a friendship with someone who I also feel that chemistry and erotic compatibility with.

I am sensual, fairly kinky, and value authenticity in sexual play and love making as much as any other part of life. I’d love to become friends and then also share a sexual dynamic with someone as well. I want someone who I respect and feel safe with and who I also feel crazy attracted to. I’d love to at least start online, and in open to meeting if it feels right and works for both of us.

Physically I’m Hispanic and white, with Spanish facial features. I’m a bit chubby but I workout. Definitely and exhibitionist and would love to find someone who is as well.

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u/PapaQ86 — 11 days ago