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Long post ahead, so apologies in advance.

I’m looking for something specific, and I’ll be honest, I’m not sure I’ll find it. Still, I’m hopeful I might be proven wrong.

I’m currently in a relationship that on the surface looks good but is missing some important parts. I’m lacking a deeper emotional, intellectual, and physical connection, and if I’m being honest, a kink connection too that I deeply miss exploring. These needs aren’t being met, which is why I’m here. This search is open and honest to who I am and what I would like to find. I miss having someone to hold, to be close to, and that feeling that comes from a strong emotional bond and real physical attraction. I miss having someone I can truly confide in and share experiences with that are personal and provide that feeling of euphoria. I also believe that anything that happens should happen naturally, and nothing should feel forced.

I’m open to this being in person or online. I do prefer in person since that's the only way to have the physical part, even though I know geography limits in person. I’m open to traveling, or if you happen to come to my area for work or other reasons, that could work too, though I know being in Iowa makes that less likely.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who is either in a similar situation or someone who understands where I’m coming from and is open to building a real connection. Emotional and intellectual chemistry are just as important to me as physical attraction.

I value intelligence, a sense of humor, goals, and a good personality. I don’t have a strict age range. Physically, I don’t have strong preferences. Chemistry matters more. That said, the part of the female body I’ve always found sexiest is legs. I don’t know why, I just always have. Especially with heels, skirts, or shorts. Height or build doesn’t really matter to me. Smooth is my preference.

As for kink, it’s something I would really enjoy having, but I don’t want it to sound like a requirement. I would prefer to meet someone who has some interest or curiosity. I enjoy domination, though not all the time, and usually in private. I like bondage, especially rope, spankings, roleplay, teasing, and consensual power dynamics. My limits are no blood, bodily fluids, cutting, animals, or extreme pain beyond a good spanking. I’d say my tastes are fairly mainstream. I’d enjoy hearing about your interests and experiences if you’re comfortable sharing.

A bit about me. I’m 44 (45 this summer), about 6'1", with an average build. Not a bodybuilder, but not out of shape either. If it helps, I’d say more of a football player type build. I have dark hair with some gray mixed in. I’d describe myself as the guy next door type. Pretty unassuming, but not bad looking. I’m educated and work in financial advising. I enjoy reading, podcasts, and movies, mostly action, comedy, and horror. I don’t watch much TV, but when I do it’s usually documentaries or science-related shows. I love travel and wish I could do it more often. I also really enjoy being outdoors and getting away from society when I can.

That probably sums it up. I’m keeping my expectations realistic, but I do have some hope the right woman might come across this and reach out. If that happens, I’d really enjoy getting to know you. And if you do message me, tell me what stood out to you. I’d honestly love to know.

Long post ahead, so apologies in advance.

I’m looking for something specific, and I’ll be honest, I’m not sure I’ll find it. Still, I’m hopeful I might be proven wrong.

I’m currently in a relationship that on the surface looks good but is missing some important parts. I’m lacking a deeper emotional, intellectual, and physical connection, and if I’m being honest, a kink connection too that I deeply miss exploring. These needs aren’t being met, which is why I’m here. This search is open and honest to who I am and what I would like to find. I miss having someone to hold, to be close to, and that feeling that comes from a strong emotional bond and real physical attraction. I miss having someone I can truly confide in and share experiences with that are personal and provide that feeling of euphoria. I also believe that anything that happens should happen naturally, and nothing should feel forced.

I’m open to this being in person or online. I do prefer in person since that's the only way to have the physical part, even though I know geography limits in person. I’m open to traveling, or if you happen to come to my area for work or other reasons, that could work too, though I know being in Iowa makes that less likely.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who is either in a similar situation or someone who understands where I’m coming from and is open to building a real connection. Emotional and intellectual chemistry are just as important to me as physical attraction.

I value intelligence, a sense of humor, goals, and a good personality. I don’t have a strict age range. Physically, I don’t have strong preferences. Chemistry matters more. That said, the part of the female body I’ve always found sexiest is legs. I don’t know why, I just always have. Especially with heels, skirts, or shorts. Height or build doesn’t really matter to me. Smooth is my preference.

As for kink, it’s something I would really enjoy having, but I don’t want it to sound like a requirement. I would prefer to meet someone who has some interest or curiosity. I enjoy domination, though not all the time, and usually in private. I like bondage, especially rope, spankings, roleplay, teasing, and consensual power dynamics. My limits are no blood, bodily fluids, cutting, animals, or extreme pain beyond a good spanking. I’d say my tastes are fairly mainstream. I’d enjoy hearing about your interests and experiences if you’re comfortable sharing.

A bit about me. I’m 44 (45 this summer), about 6'1", with an average build. Not a bodybuilder, but not out of shape either. If it helps, I’d say more of a football player type build. I have dark hair with some gray mixed in. I’d describe myself as the guy next door type. Pretty unassuming, but not bad looking. I’m educated and work in financial advising. I enjoy reading, podcasts, and movies, mostly action, comedy, and horror. I don’t watch much TV, but when I do it’s usually documentaries or science-related shows. I love travel and wish I could do it more often. I also really enjoy being outdoors and getting away from society when I can.

That probably sums it up. I’m keeping my expectations realistic, but I do have some hope the right woman might come across this and reach out. If that happens, I’d really enjoy getting to know you. And if you do message me, tell me what stood out to you. I’d honestly love to know.

Long post ahead, so apologies in advance.

I’m looking for something specific, and I’ll be honest, I’m not sure I’ll find it. Still, I’m hopeful I might be proven wrong.

I’m currently in a relationship that on the surface looks good but is missing some important parts. I’m lacking a deeper emotional, intellectual, and physical connection, and if I’m being honest, a kink connection too that I deeply miss exploring. These needs aren’t being met, which is why I’m here. This search is open and honest to who I am and what I would like to find. I miss having someone to hold, to be close to, and that feeling that comes from a strong emotional bond and real physical attraction. I miss having someone I can truly confide in and share experiences with that are personal and provide that feeling of euphoria. I also believe that anything that happens should happen naturally, and nothing should feel forced.

I’m open to this being in person or online. I do prefer in person since that's the only way to have the physical part, even though I know geography limits in person. I’m open to traveling, or if you happen to come to my area for work or other reasons, that could work too, though I know being in Iowa makes that less likely.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who is either in a similar situation or someone who understands where I’m coming from and is open to building a real connection. Emotional and intellectual chemistry are just as important to me as physical attraction.

I value intelligence, a sense of humor, goals, and a good personality. I don’t have a strict age range. Physically, I don’t have strong preferences. Chemistry matters more. That said, the part of the female body I’ve always found sexiest is legs. I don’t know why, I just always have. Especially with heels, skirts, or shorts. Height or build doesn’t really matter to me. Smooth is my preference.

As for kink, it’s something I would really enjoy having, but I don’t want it to sound like a requirement. I would prefer to meet someone who has some interest or curiosity. I enjoy domination, though not all the time, and usually in private. I like bondage, especially rope, spankings, roleplay, teasing, and consensual power dynamics. My limits are no blood, bodily fluids, cutting, animals, or extreme pain beyond a good spanking. I’d say my tastes are fairly mainstream. I’d enjoy hearing about your interests and experiences if you’re comfortable sharing.

A bit about me. I’m 44 (45 this summer), about 6'1", with an average build. Not a bodybuilder, but not out of shape either. If it helps, I’d say more of a football player type build. I have dark hair with some gray mixed in. I’d describe myself as the guy next door type. Pretty unassuming, but not bad looking. I’m educated and work in financial advising. I enjoy reading, podcasts, and movies, mostly action, comedy, and horror. I don’t watch much TV, but when I do it’s usually documentaries or science-related shows. I love travel and wish I could do it more often. I also really enjoy being outdoors and getting away from society when I can.

That probably sums it up. I’m keeping my expectations realistic, but I do have some hope the right woman might come across this and reach out. If that happens, I’d really enjoy getting to know you. And if you do message me, tell me what stood out to you. I’d honestly love to know.