u/Practical_Role367

Still new to the whole chastity thing and made my own homemade "cage". Everytime I even think about putting it on I get instantly hard. I'm like 3.5" hard so the cage is on the small side but it's impossible to fit in when hard. Any advice on how to stay soft until I can put the cage on?

When I first started there were several rules we agreed upon but as time went on and she got more comfortable with one of her bulls the rules got thrown out. No making out, no cumming inside, no going out on dates. Basically one of my early cuckold relationships ended with her leaving with the bull beacause they got too close. Idk about how you manage with your own rules.

When I'm around male friends I notice the huge difference between me and them bulge wise and I was wondering if there is a way to solve it? Tight pants literally expose me easily and loose pants still show my head a little. Especially after sports or the beach when the shorts get wet and tight it exposes all my "cock". So yeah... anyone has a solution?