u/ProperCombination640

I have been on Reddit for two three months. Every once in a while; I see a post where people are commenting that all stories posted in confession subreddits are false and made up. My this post is to put things in prespective.

I don’t know on what basis people confidently claim that most stories about dating, affairs, or casual encounters are false. As a man, I’ve had experiences that sounded so unlikely that even my closest friends assumed I was exaggerating. In a few cases, they only believed me when they witnessed parts of those interactions themselves.

The dating and mating game has always been about confidence, timing, and the willingness to take chances. People often underestimate how much being bold, socially active, and willing to initiate conversations can change outcomes. Many opportunities are missed not because they don’t exist, but because people convince themselves that success is impossible before they even try.

Look around any school, college, workplace, or social circle. There are always a few men and women who seem to attract attention effortlessly, build connections quickly, and have active dating lives. At the same time, there are others who go through years with little or no romantic success. The difference in outcomes does not automatically mean that the successful people are lying. Human experiences vary dramatically.

The rise of dating apps has only amplified this reality. Platforms like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and many niche dating communities have created opportunities that simply did not exist a generation ago. Some people use them for serious relationships, some for casual dating, and others for discreet connections outside their marriages. Whether one approves of it or not, apps have made it easier than ever for people to explore desires, seek validation, or pursue excitement beyond their everyday lives.

I’ve personally seen situations that many would dismiss as fiction. I’ve found and fucked girls right from school and college. Then when I came to big city like Delhi, I bloosomed into a sex maniac. Over the years, net has made things a lot easier. I have found and fucked girls from Yahoo Messenger to Orkut and then from matrimonial websites, office, college, to now Hinge, Tinder, Bumble and then forums like Quora and Reddit. 

I am sure that I succeeded simply because I am fearless in starting conversations. Also, I don't mind rejections. In fact, I leave conversations which are not going anywhere, either not leading to fucking or some good online fun like mutual exchange of stories, porn and things like that. 

My own experiences have taught me that reality is often stranger than the stories people tell online. Some encounters happen because of luck. Others happen because someone takes initiative while everyone else hesitates. Often, what outsiders perceive as fantasy is simply the result of persistence combined with opportunity.

Of course, exaggeration exists. People boast, embellish details, and sometimes reshape events to make themselves look better. That has always been true. But jumping from “some stories are exaggerated” to “all stories are fake” is irrational. Human relationships are messy, unpredictable, and diverse. The fact that an experience seems unbelievable to one person does not mean it never happened to someone else.