u/RegularAssumption206

I realize this title isn’t the best (I hope it doesn’t come off as too fetishy) but I’m hoping I can combine my love of kink and spirituality (astrology/tarot/rituals). Maybe this is ridiculous but I would like to find something that can become a relationship or least more than just kink. I love kink but I would like something that has an emotional element and if possible somebody who’s witchy/goth (though I understand this might be limiting so it’s not a dealbreaker if other things align).

Me:

39, white, bi, tattooed, dark hair, moustache, west end, single/no kids.

Into:

\-body worship, massaging, pegging, bondage, roleplay, passionate makeouts, and open to more but not into humiliation/hard pain.

\-Horror/foreign/arthouse/campy/weird films.

\-Shoegaze, post-punk, jazz, hip hop, house, RnB/Funk, Metal

\-Tarot + astrology (I will ask about your chart).

\-Psychology (training to be a therapist).

\-Intentional psychedelics.

\-Leftist politics.

\-Emotional maturity, clear communication, genuine effort.

If this resonates, send:

\-your big 3 signs or the last film that haunted you

I’m a mixed bag of fun, have a sharp wit with a dash of sarcasm, love deep conversations that go well into the night, curious to learn new things but already have a vast bank of useless culture facts, passionate about leftist politics/music/film/books, spiritually & philosophically minded, have travelled a decent amount but always down for random adventures throughout the city, I have introvert qualities but with the right people I’m very animated and passionate.

I would love to find a connection that is built on reciprocal energy, collaboration and respect. Ideally something consistent and future-oriented, but understand not everyone is running into long-term relationships.

I’m a switch and value adaptability, creativity, and emotional connection. I’ve had more experience being assertive and taking the lead, but I also enjoy being in service of someone. Above all, I love when both people feel safe, vulnerable, and inspired by each other.

I enjoy bold women that can speak their mind and aren’t afraid to communicate their wants. I love teasing and bratty energy but don’t love when things get into mean or shaming territory. I consider myself a pretty emotionally intelligent person with strong communication skills and get along best with those who see themselves similar. Those with a deep love of music, film & books, especially with weirder/darker/more obscure taste, are always exciting. Open to all that can match with the energies laid out above but switch-dommes will get me the most excited.

I will say my life can get busy, so a bit of independence is important. But I always make the effort to fit the people I care about into my schedule and put effort into keeping the connection fresh.

If interested please message me with a little bit about yourself and what resonated with you from my post. I promise to be a fun chat

Hard to find a title that’s catchy and covers everything but would love to find somebody in Toronto who’s spiritual (tarot, astrology, moon ceremonies), enjoys the benefits of psychedelics and is open for something consistent/reliable (whether a FWB or a real relationship).

About me:

-quick wit, part sarcastic, part dark humour

-have a deep love of music (everything from My Bloody Valentine to Erykah Badu to Pink Floyd to Thursday to Miles Davis to LCD Soundsystem), film (everything from campy 60s b-movies to arthouse to 80s slasher to 90s erotic thrillers), books (Baldwin, hooks, Dostoyevsky, Roth, Franzen).

-very spiritual but not preachy, enjoy dissecting birth charts, mediation, discussing synchronicities of the universe, etc

-great communication skills, not only direct, honest and intentional but also flirty, stream of consciousness and funny

-39, white, fit build, tattoos, dark hair, moustache, STI-free, clean, single/child-free, live in the west end.

Hi!

I will start off by saying my ideal is dating a domme/domme-leaning switch to form something hot but not just about that dynamic. I find this dynamic is hottest when there is an emotional connection, so even if it’s not a full blown relationship, it’s gotta be more than just a detached casual thing.

I am a naturally curious person who will dive earnest deep conversations that go well into the night but also has a sharp wit and sarcastic streak that will keep things interesting. I have a deep passionate and curiosity for learning/sharing music, film, books, spirituality, psychology, philosophy, and leftist politics. But have a good enough sense of humour to not take very so serious and can just talk shit too.

I have travelled a decent amount but less since COVID, so I try to get my fill by always being down for random adventures throughout the city.

I would love to find a connection that is built on reciprocal energy, adaptability, creativity/collaboration, accountability/forgiveness and emotional awareness. I’ve had more experience being assertive and taking the lead, but I also enjoy being in service of someone. Above all, I love a connection when both people feel safe, can be vulnerable, and inspired by to be our best selves.

I enjoy bold women that aren’t afraid to communicate their wants or speak their mind. Those with a deep love of music, film & books, especially with weirder/darker/more obscure taste, are my ideal. Open to all that can match with the energies laid out above but those who are curvy, switches or domme-leaning will get me the most excited. I’m 39, white, fit build, dark hair, moustache and tattoos.

Everyone’s life can get busy, so a bit of independence is important. But I make the effort to fit the people I care about into my schedule and put effort into keeping the connection fresh. You should be somebody who can do the same (please nobody still getting over somebody or just not in a mental place to give this a fair shot)

If interested please message me with a little bit about yourself and what resonated with.

Hi!

I will start off by saying my ideal is dating a domme/domme-leaning switch to form something hot but not just about that dynamic. I find this dynamic is hottest when there is an emotional connection, so even if it’s not a full blown relationship, it’s gotta be more than just a detached casual thing.

I am a naturally curious person who will dive earnest deep conversations that go well into the night but also has a sharp wit and sarcastic streak that will keep things interesting. I have a deep passionate and curiosity for learning/sharing music, film, books, spirituality, psychology, philosophy, and leftist politics. But have a good enough sense of humour to not take very so serious and can just talk shit too.

I have travelled a decent amount but less since COVID, so I try to get my fill by always being down for random adventures throughout the city.

I would love to find a connection that is built on reciprocal energy, adaptability, creativity/collaboration, accountability/forgiveness and emotional awareness. I’ve had more experience being assertive and taking the lead, but I also enjoy being in service of someone. Above all, I love a connection when both people feel safe, can be vulnerable, and inspired by to be our best selves.

I enjoy bold women that aren’t afraid to communicate their wants or speak their mind. Those with a deep love of music, film & books, especially with weirder/darker/more obscure taste, are my ideal. Open to all that can match with the energies laid out above but those who are curvy, switches or domme-leaning will get me the most excited. I’m 39, white, fit build, dark hair, moustache and tattoos.

Everyone’s life can get busy, so a bit of independence is important. But I make the effort to fit the people I care about into my schedule and put effort into keeping the connection fresh. You should be somebody who can do the same (please nobody still getting over somebody or just not in a mental place to give this a fair shot)

If interested please message me with a little bit about yourself and what resonated with.