u/Rundontwalk234

I know you all get used to seeing a similar type of post here, so I’m going to offer a different approach. I want all the things everyone else is looking for here, but with an emphasis on kink. If the thought of a BDSM style entanglement gives you butterflies, read on:

We all have a tendency to idealize what dynamics can be. It’s human nature, and after all, if kink isn’t fun and toe curling, then what is it? But that idealization can be problematic. As an old professor I once had used to say: expectations breed disappointment.

Well, not today. You should idealize. You should expect. And both you and I should expect to find the thing that we’re looking for. If you’re tired of looking for the type of dynamic that is encompassing, exhilarating, realistic, and dare I say, real, then here you are. The time is now.

I’m a 32 year old lawyer from the west coast of the US. I’m kind of a dom stereotype: high achieving, always in charge, and very much the type that gets his way. Being in charge is who I am, and professionally I’ve certainly done my time and worked hard that get where I am. I’m a few years out of school, and finally starting to see it pay off. Because of how much school and work have taken most of my free time across the years, I’m just now returning to the scene. I was involved for years, but never had the full time to commit to it. Now I’m here, and I’m ready to give a sub the attention and dedication she needs.

Personally, I love sports and follow many closely. I have a soft spot for art and have always loved a weekend in the art district or at shows. I read pretentious male literature. I’ve been enjoying more high end dining lately now that it’s in the budget, I may be a budding foodie. The qualifiers are that I’m a white male with dark hair and eyes, average height, dress well and take care of myself.

Regarding kinks, I will leave that discussion for later. Briefly, I enjoy all things sexual and orgasm control, elements of TPE, light pain and light hearted humiliation, and elements of voyeurism. I’m open to many, but if you’re looking primarily for things like age regression, fantasy role play, or things like needle/knife play, I’m probably not for you.

Who you are, what you look like, or what stage in life you’re at is much more fluid. Whether you’re a stressed out undergrad or graduate student needing an outlet while you pursue your goals (I have a soft spot for you given my history), an overworked professional needing a safe and secure place to explore, a stay at home mother who needs to turn her brain off now and again, or someone with more life experience who wants to try something new, you all might find it here. I’m not as concerned about what you look like, your measurables, your race/ethnicity, or (controversial, I know) your relationship status. I find beauty and value in all, and all are equal opportunity to me.

So in summary, if you are seeking something safe, sane, and stimulating, this might just be the place for you. I can promise full discretion, but can’t promise that you’ll come away from our time together the same in any way. If you want a dynamic that rewires your brain, curls your toes, and switches your world back to color, let me hear from you. Put an emoji at the beginning of your message. Introduce yourself, tell me a bit about you, and tell me why you think we’d be a good fit.

I’m still looking for that ideal set up, and maybe I’ll find it with you!

We all have a tendency to idealize what dynamics can be. It’s human nature, and after all, if kink isn’t fun and toe curling, then what is it? But that idealization can be problematic. As an old professor I once had used to say: expectations breed disappointment.

Well, not today. You should idealize. You should expect. And both you and I should expect to find the thing that we’re looking for. If you’re tired of looking for the type of dynamic that is encompassing, exhilarating, realistic, and dare I say, real, then here you are. The time is now.

I’m a 32 year old lawyer from the west coast of the US. I’m kind of a dom stereotype: high achieving, always in charge, and very much the type that gets his way. Being in charge is who I am, and professionally I’ve certainly done my time and worked hard that get where I am. I’m a few years out of school, and finally starting to see it pay off. Because of how much school and work have taken most of my free time across the years, I’m just now returning to the scene. I was involved for years, but never had the full time to commit to it. Now I’m here, and I’m ready to give a sub the attention and dedication she needs.

Personally, I love sports and follow many closely. I have a soft spot for art and have always loved a weekend in the art district or at shows. I read pretentious male literature. I’ve been enjoying more high end dining lately now that it’s in the budget, I may be a budding foodie. The qualifiers are that I’m a white male with dark hair and eyes, average height, dress well and take care of myself.

Regarding kinks, I will leave that discussion for later. Briefly, I enjoy all things sexual and orgasm control, elements of TPE, light pain and light hearted humiliation, and elements of voyeurism. I’m open to many, but if you’re looking primarily for things like age regression, fantasy role play, or things like needle/knife play, I’m probably not for you.

Who you are, what you look like, or what stage in life you’re at is much more fluid. Whether you’re a stressed out undergrad or graduate student needing an outlet while you pursue your goals (I have a soft spot for you given my history), an overworked professional needing a safe and secure place to explore, a stay at home mother who needs to turn her brain off now and again, or someone with more life experience who wants to try something new, you all might find it here. I’m not as concerned about what you look like, your measurables, your race/ethnicity, or (controversial, I know) your relationship status. I find beauty and value in all, and all are equal opportunity to me.

So in summary, if you are seeking something safe, sane, and stimulating, this might just be the place for you. I can promise full discretion, but can’t promise that you’ll come away from our time together the same in any way. If you want a dynamic that rewires your brain, curls your toes, and switches your world back to color, let me hear from you. Put an emoji at the beginning of your message. Introduce yourself, tell me a bit about you, and tell me why you think we’d be a good fit.

Happy Mothers Day to those who celebrate, and I hope the day is manageable for those for whom this is a hard day for whatever reason. Whether you’re a mother or not, I know you don’t want flowers, chocolates, or cards this year. You want to get on your knees and please a man who is worth doing so for. What gift could be better than that?

We all have a tendency to idealize what dynamics can be. It’s human nature, and after all, if kink isn’t fun and toe curling, then what is it? But that idealization can be problematic. As an old professor I once had used to say: expectations breed disappointment.

Well, not today. You should idealize. You should expect. And both you and I should expect to find the thing that we’re looking for. If you’re tired of looking for the type of dynamic that is encompassing, exhilarating, realistic, and dare I say, real, then here you are. The time is now.

I’m a 32 year old lawyer from the west coast of the US. I’m kind of a dom stereotype: high achieving, always in charge, and very much the type that gets his way. Being in charge is who I am, and professionally I’ve certainly done my time and worked hard that get where I am. I’m a few years out of school, and finally starting to see it pay off. Because of how much school and work have taken most of my free time across the years, I’m just now returning to the scene. I was involved for years, but never had the full time to commit to it. Now I’m here, and I’m ready to give a sub the attention and dedication she needs.

Personally, I love sports and follow many closely. I have a soft spot for art and have always loved a weekend in the art district or at shows. I read pretentious male literature. I’ve been enjoying more high end dining lately now that it’s in the budget, I may be a budding foodie. The qualifiers are that I’m a white male with dark hair and eyes, average height, dress well and take care of myself.

Regarding kinks, I will leave that discussion for later. Briefly, I enjoy all things sexual and orgasm control, elements of TPE, light pain and light hearted humiliation, and elements of voyeurism. I’m open to many, but if you’re looking primarily for things like age regression, fantasy role play, or things like needle/knife play, I’m probably not for you.

Who you are, what you look like, or what stage in life you’re at is much more fluid. Whether you’re a stressed out undergrad or graduate student needing an outlet while you pursue your goals (I have a soft spot for you given my history), an overworked professional needing a safe and secure place to explore, a stay at home mother who needs to turn her brain off now and again, or someone with more life experience who wants to try something new, you all might find it here. I’m not as concerned about what you look like, your measurables, your race/ethnicity, or (controversial, I know) your relationship status. I find beauty and value in all, and all are equal opportunity to me.

So in summary, if you are seeking something safe, sane, and stimulating, this might just be the place for you. I can promise full discretion, but can’t promise that you’ll come away from our time together the same in any way. If you want a dynamic that rewires your brain, curls your toes, and switches your world back to color, let me hear from you. Put an emoji at the beginning of your message. Introduce yourself, tell me a bit about you, and tell me why you think we’d be a good fit.

We all have a tendency to idealize what dynamics can be. It’s human nature, and after all, if kink isn’t fun and toe curling, then what is it? But that idealization can be problematic. As an old professor I once had used to say: expectations breed disappointment.

Well, not today. You should idealize. You should expect. And both you and I should expect to find the thing that we’re looking for. If you’re tired of playing games in this space, and are looking for the type of dynamic that is encompassing, exhilarating, realistic, and dare I say, real, then here you are. The time is now.

I’m a 32 year old lawyer from the west coast of the US. I’m kind of a dom stereotype: high achieving, always in charge, and very much the type that gets his way. Being in charge is who I am, and professionally I’ve certainly done my time and worked hard that get where I am. I’m a few years out of school, and finally starting to see it pay off. Because of how much school and work have taken most of my free time across the years, I’m just now returning to the scene. I was involved for years, but never had the full time to commit to it. Now I’m here, and I’m ready to give a sub the attention and dedication she needs.

Personally, I love sports and follow many closely. I have a soft spot for art and have always loved a weekend in the art district or at shows. I read pretentious male literature. I’ve been enjoying more high end dining lately now that it’s in the budget, I may be a budding foodie. The qualifiers are that I’m a white male with dark hair and eyes, average height, dress well and take care of myself.

Regarding kinks, I will leave that discussion for later. Briefly, I enjoy all things sexual and orgasm control, elements of TPE, light pain and light hearted humiliation, and elements of voyeurism. I’m open to many, but if you’re looking primarily for things like age regression, fantasy role play, or things like needle/knife play, I’m probably not for you.

Who you are, what you look like, or what stage in life you’re at is much more fluid. Whether you’re a stressed out undergrad or graduate student needing an outlet while you pursue your goals (I have a soft spot for you given my history), an overworked professional needing a safe and secure place to explore, a devoted mother who needs to turn her brain off now and again, or someone with more life experience who wants to try something new, you all might find it here. I’m not as concerned about what you look like, your measurables, your race/ethnicity, or (controversial, I know) your relationship status. I find beauty and value in all, and all are equal opportunity to me.

So in summary, if you are seeking something safe, sane, and stimulating, this might just be the place for you. I can promise full discretion, but can’t promise that you’ll come away from our time together the same in any way. If you want a dynamic that rewires your brain, curls your toes, and switches your world back to color, let me hear from you. Put an emoji at the beginning of your message. Introduce yourself, tell me a bit about you, and tell me why you think we’d be a good fit.

We all have a tendency to idealize what dynamics can be. It’s human nature, and after all, if kink isn’t fun and toe curling, then what is it? But that idealization can be problematic. As an old professor I once had used to say: expectations breed disappointment.

Well, not today. You should idealize. You should expect. And both you and I should expect to find the thing that we’re looking for. If you’re tired of looking for the type of dynamic that is encompassing, exhilarating, realistic, and dare I say, real, then here you are. The time is now.

I’m a 32 year old lawyer from the west coast of the US. I’m kind of a dom stereotype: high achieving, always in charge, and very much the type that gets his way. Being in charge is who I am, and professionally I’ve certainly done my time and worked hard that get where I am. I’m a few years out of school, and finally starting to see it pay off. Because of how much school and work have taken most of my free time across the years, I’m just now returning to the scene. I was involved for years, but never had the full time to commit to it. Now I’m here, and I’m ready to give a sub the attention and dedication she needs.

Personally, I love sports and follow many closely. I have a soft spot for art and have always loved a weekend in the art district or at shows. I read pretentious male literature. I’ve been enjoying more high end dining lately now that it’s in the budget, I may be a budding foodie. The qualifiers are that I’m a white male with dark hair and eyes, average height, dress well and take care of myself.

Regarding kinks, I will leave that discussion for later. Briefly, I enjoy all things sexual and orgasm control, elements of TPE, light pain and light hearted humiliation, and elements of voyeurism. I’m open to many, but if you’re looking primarily for things like age regression, fantasy role play, or things like needle/knife play, I’m probably not for you.

Who you are, what you look like, or what stage in life you’re at is much more fluid. Whether you’re a stressed out undergrad or graduate student needing an outlet while you pursue your goals (I have a soft spot for you given my history), an overworked professional needing a safe and secure place to explore, a stay at home mother who needs to turn her brain off now and again, or someone with more life experience who wants to try something new, you all might find it here. I’m not as concerned about what you look like, your measurables, your race/ethnicity, or (controversial, I know) your relationship status. I find beauty and value in all, and all are equal opportunity to me.

So in summary, if you are seeking something safe, sane, and stimulating, this might just be the place for you. I can promise full discretion, but can’t promise that you’ll come away from our time together the same in any way. If you want a dynamic that rewires your brain, curls your toes, and switches your world back to color, let me hear from you. Put an emoji at the beginning of your message. Introduce yourself, tell me a bit about you, and tell me why you think we’d be a good fit.