u/Siccofu

no im not going to suck your dick.

Being a newbie, i’ve had regulars try and ask me what we’re doing outside the club. i’m not going to meet you outside the club. this is my JOB and you know better. idc what other girls are doing with you, idc if you’re giving them $200 to suck your dick. i get $200 off a 30 minute VIP room to dance and talk to you. that’s ALL you’re getting. just cuz i’m new dont mean i don’t know any better 🫩 give me my money and kick rocks, DISrespectfully lol.

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u/Siccofu — 3 days ago

Best choice i’ve made for myself career/finance wise

So far i’ve only worked 4 shifts but i absolutely love it. i’m sure i sound naive to the vets but this is perfect for me. the club i work at is very safe and tight knit!!! i didn’t realize how much i loved showing off!!!!!!! the money is rlly good, i love talking to all kinds of people!!! ahhh im so happy!

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u/Siccofu — 4 days ago

boundaries in relationships

I’m curious, how do you guys juggle relationships while dancing? what boundaries do you have set in place between you and your partners? i’m
trying to figure this out for a potential relationship in the very near future. the guy i’m into is 100% okay with me stripping and was excited for me to start because I! was excited to start. he’s not a jealous man at all, but i still wanna be as respectful as i can be IF we do decide to get into a relationship.

just lettin the mind wander!

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u/Siccofu — 5 days ago

should i audition for another club?

posting this here because i need advice from veterans!!!

I just got a job at a club for the first time today, woohoo!
but i have another audition lined up for thursday that i scheduled before i got this job. it’s at another club a bit closer to me, and it’s a bit more.. well, it’s bigger and more upscale. right now i’ve been working for 5 hours and made 9 bucks… 😭god bless me with somethin PLEASE. first shift and i might be leaving in the negatives! which is very bad for me because im coming up in here with barely nothing to my name, which is why i took the leap in the first place! i neeeed the money. is this a bad sign?!

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u/Siccofu — 11 days ago

Should i audition for another club?

I just got a job at a club for the first time today, woohoo!
but i have another audition lined up for thursday that i scheduled before i got this job. it’s at another club a bit closer to me, and it’s a bit more.. well, it’s bigger and more upscale. right now i’ve been working for 5 hours and made 9 bucks… 😭god bless me with somethin PLEASE. first shift and i might be leaving in the negatives! which is very bad for me because im coming up in here with barely nothing to my name, which is why i took the leap in the first place! i neeeed the money. is this a bad sign?!

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u/Siccofu — 11 days ago

silly beginner question

I have my first ever audition tomorrow and i am sooo nervous. i have a few questions

ahem!

- what rules should i go over with the manager/house mom? what are important things for me to know?

-when i get up on stage, do i wipe the pole down first? should i wipe anything else down? do i need a bottle of alcohol and a rag to do this, that’s what i did in my pole classes

-should i buy pole grip?

-i have a few moves down but they want me to do a 3 song stage set… be honest, how did that go for yall??

-what generally happens after a stage set?

-any music recs? i’m very alternative, so i don’t really have many songs that are slow and sexy that.. aren’t alternative.

my songs that i have are

Eyes on fire- blue foundation
bang bang (he shot me down- nancy sinatra
whisky- marian hill

i genuinely don’t know if those songs are good picks or not so PLEASE be brutally honest and give me recommendations for this 😭😭i’m completely new, never stepped foot in a strip club (except the one time i almost became a server lol)

if im forgetting any small details just add them in the comments!! treat me like an idiot, because i’m going into this clueless (not really, i’ve done TONS of research but i just need the finer details made clear lol)

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u/Siccofu — 12 days ago

outfit choice?

yall.. i ordered a xs/s from angel candy shop and holy shit i didn’t know they ran this small. i usually run xs/s in swimsuits so i figured id do the same for the bikini fit but dayum ts is barely covering my nipple! does it look stupid? should i just wear a bikini??

u/Siccofu — 14 days ago

My right thigh and left arm have scars from previous self harm. Will this affect where i’m hired? i can try make up to cover it but they’re kinda… bubbly? idk how to explain it. i have a photo for reference. also another question; do i have an okay body type for a gentlemen’s club? i’m pretty sure if i tried an urban club, id sink rather than swim. pretty booty, but not big. perky boobs- but not big. flat stomach and i think i have a pretty face!

I’m very excited for it, super nervous and think I’ll do good because im a very talkative and extroverted person. always laughing and smiling! i have minimal pole experience, but ive been working on floor work a lot. I’m 20 years old and have been debating whether or not to take the leap for about a year now ever since money has gotten really tight. my goal is to save up enough to travel and pay my bills and eventually move out. i haven’t had any luck finding a job that i enjoy and that will give me enough money. i’m just tired of working for minimum wage. i know the clubs are slow right now, but im willing to give it my all!!

i’m fine topless but not sure if i’m ready to commit and go full nude yet. kinda nerve wracking, but it’s called “stripping” for a reason!

I’m based in baltimore MD. also if anyone has any club recs plz let me know!

u/Siccofu — 24 days ago

Hi! I’m based in baltimore and wanna start stripping. i’m auditioning at golds club soon, just ordered my fits and about to order my pleasers. has anyone worked here? is it hard landing a spot, pole skill heavy, make good money, etc? if i don’t land the spot i was thinking about auditioning at desire as well.

my body type is athletic. i’m 5’4 and around 110-115 lbs.

u/Siccofu — 24 days ago