33 [M4F] #Online - Passionate Tinkerer, Eloquent Erotica Writer, Hobbyist Cook/Baker and TV Connoisseur looking for Longterm Connection
If this post is still online, I'm still looking! Feel free to message me!
Hello! A lot of posts on reddit are outright sexual, and that is okay, but that is not really for me. I am looking for a balanced connection that involves getting to know someone first, conversations, phone calls, and eventually, if the chemistry is right, advancing into a more sexual territory. Nothing directly or solely about kink. If this resonates with you, please continue reading!
A bit about myself: I am 33 years old, and from Germany (though I am flexible in timezones). I have a normal build, with short dark hair, and a trimmed beard. Warm and soft looking eyes, yet equally driven. I love fixing things, and building things. My hobbies range from simple walks and cooking and baking, to DIY and electronics design and repair. I also watch a lot of TV shows and am always open to new recommendations. Other than that, I am very passionate about the things I do. I love asking questions and learning new things!
I'm very direct in terms of getting to know someone and have no issues showing my face early on and verifying myself, and I want you to be equally comfortable getting to that point. I want someone to get to know me, as me, and not text messages, and I prefer having an accurate idea of whom it is I am conversing with also!
I like to write erotica as I have mentioned, feel free to take a look at the things I have written and posted, including stories on my profile and comments on specific subreddits. I have an open mind about things including sex and if our dynamic gets there, I am happy to talk and explore more in a respectful manner. I prefer not to get into things in too much detail until we have gotten to know each other and want to go further. But I also understand that a brief overview is important to estimate compatibility in that area. I think I can say that I am originally mostly of the softer, but still dominant kind? I'm into pleasing, creating enticing mental imagery, affirmation, dirty talk, and I am very vocal. However, I have been feeling submissive lately on rare occasions and would love to explore this also, though that is not required! Furthermore, I would love to explore the hotpast kink I have. I love the thought of hearing about your previous sexual experiences. Knowing and accepting that you are incredibly desirable and a sexual being. Embracing and celebrating your sexuality, knowing how much you enjoyed yourself with other people when you took charge of your urges and owned up to them, or if you haven't had many experiences, the fantasies that shapes who you are as a sexual person! I find this form of sharing incredibly arousing and I don't understand why someone's sexuality or especially their sexual past is shamed in society.
That said, mere kinks are much less important to me than the connection and trust and intimacy that leads to safely explore them. Sexuality for me is very primal, yet deeply intimate. It's a way to let go of who and what we are as a person, the roles we fulfill in society, the responsibilities we have, and to just be our completely vulnerable selves, surrendering to our most primal urges in the safety of our connection.
If you're interested, please introduce yourself, the more you like to share the better!
A short description of where you are from, how old you are, and what you look like. Feel free to share your interests as well!
What has drawn you to message me.
Something intimate: If pineapple is an acceptable pizza topping or not
I am willing to switch away from reddit as soon as possible if we hit it off, especially with how wonky this app is. I don't have an age preference as long as you are older than 25. A lot of my friends in real life are significantly older than me, so if you are and this post appeals to you, don't hesitate to reach out!
Vocaroo voice messages are really appreciated and I will send one back!
Thank you for taking your time to read this! I am looking forward to your message! π