u/Tasting-Wellness

Sorry if its a little long, just want to give context.

We have been talking for a couple months now.

We both met online and both live in different states. We have had long calls, gaming together and have exchanged photos too. To me, it seems like we click pretty good.

During the calls and gaming we explored the idea of seeing each other and being together, it seemed very mutual. With her being on Summer break from College soon, I asked if she wanted me to come and see her for a few days. With me asking that, it was like a switch was turned. She just said no and wanted to switch topics.

I asked that over a week ago, gave myself some time to think about it all. Maybe she just wants an online thing and nothing more. Or, I moved too fast and she got scared? Maybe she is seeing someone?

Recently she messaged me again saying she misses me and our connection. She is Sorry, and wants to talk soon.

The question is, do I still pursue? I do like her, i would want to be with her but it's very mixed Signals from her.