u/Thick-Firefighter750

I am 54 top and generally prefer younger bottoms 18-25. I have nothing against guys my age but when simply looking for a hookup and presented with options, I typically go with the younger dude. It is just my preference as they usually are more fit and attractive to me. I know it works the other way around as well because many younger bottoms I know are exclusively into older/daddies. Before fully coming out in my mid 40s I was repulsed by the idea of seeing an older man with a younger woman, however now exploring men it has become almost the norm for me.

In your experience how common do you have sexual encounters with significant age gaps?

Older (50s) top here. Ever since my divorce, I've predominantly been hooking up with men and have had the urge to fill as many holes as possible. Maybe it's the accessibility from hookup apps or Prep that's made bareback raw sex possible but whenever I leave my routine surroundings I get the urge to see who is around to breed. Not only am I looking for bottoms but I'm looking for submissive bottoms half my age in their 20s. It's almost my primal instinct to search them out and it's not hard thanks to the daddy fetish many of them have.

I'm looking for a younger submissive houseboy who can take care of my sexual and domestic needs. The problem is I don't know where to find them or how to advertise it. I've had one sub recently who stayed with me for a period of time and it made me really appreciate having one around. Ideally I want a boy 18-25 who is a twinkish, smooth, and a total bottom. I love to fuck rough, bondage, watersports, chastity, and boys that like to be controlled all around and even whored out time to time. My house is near a college and I have an 500sqft ADU that I typically rent out to students but had the idea of having a houseboy move in and reducing some or all the rent in return for their favors. I am very easy going and flexible with arrangements as I do have other regular subs I meet with frequently.

I'm currently looking for more ideas of things I can have my sub do. For example I like my balls played with so whenever we can his face is in between my thighs lapping up my nuts whether I'm working from home or watching TV. It's a subtle way of reinforcing my dominance by keeping my sperm warm.

My son has this friend he's known since they were teenagers. I always had the feeling he had a crush on me so when he would come over I'd try to be shirtless or freeball and try to catch his glimpse. He played sports with my son and always came across very masculine and fit. He was always great shape and actually got my son into fitness. Long story short, during their senior year in hs he dropped my son off after a party and we hit it off downstairs. One thing led to another and he reached for my bulge and pulled down my pj pants. He blew me and told me he was cleaned out but didn't get any action that night. He had recently turned 18 and I was 51 then. I can easily say that was one of the hottest sexual experiences of my life. We fucked anther time shortly after that but that was it.

When my son went away to college their friendship sort of fizzled out so I didn't see him much. Recently though I ran into him at the gym and we've been hooking up with him for about a month now. He's 21 and a personal trainer there, go figure. His body is incredibly fit and smooth with a perfectly round ass and muscular thighs and quads. The contrast between his smooth muscle body against my hairy 54yo body is such a turn on for me.

I've been trying to reunite him and my son because despite all that we've been doing they were actually friends that were good for each other. I still fuck around with plenty 18-19 year olds now for fun but he's my favorite.

I own a college sub currently who is going to be on summer break soon and I have been seeing other Doms advertise that they host "camps/retreats" for subs. I have spoken to one about the camp that he host and it seems like a good idea. I have a work trip coming up so this will be a great place to send him while I'm gone. My only concern is if this is a scam and I'm just letting some other Dom fuck my sub for a week. He seems like a legit Dom and promised more obedience from my sub. I sent him the kinks and limits my sub has and said he can work with them. Thoughts?

Long story short I have a younger sub living with me and he wants to incorporate more cnc play in our relationship and says he wants it to "feel real." We have a pretty big age gap (19 & 54) so we do a lot of pervy dad/son role play. He likes being passed around to some of my buddies and randos too. We created a system where he puts a magnet on the fridge that says "clean" to signal he's preped for anal play. Any ideas?

I'm a relatively experienced Dom in the bdsm arena but I'm looking specifically for muscle/himbo related ideas for my live in house boy. He's recently 20 and has been getting into amateur bodybuilding lately. We are both very into fitness and our goal is for him to build an even more impressive physique while also becoming a total mindless obedient bottom muscle slut when home. I've owned several subs throughout but I'm lacking on ideas that cater specifically to his interests.

So far I've done things such as adding some of my piss to his pre workout and protein shakes, oiling him up or tanning him while he works on his posing routine in front of me, curating his gym attire, and punishing for failed PRs at the gym. He is also quite a pain/endurance pig so we've done things like flogging his abs and ass, crunches and pushups til failure, and hosting long pump n dumps until he tires out. During much of our sex too, I keep him bound with straps, cuffs, rope, chain, etc. to remind him no matter how much muscle he packs on his body is under my authority.

I know this is probably a niche topic so I'm looking to hear creative ideas and from Doms or himbo subs with this experience. And before people begin mentioning obvious tasks, yes he is in chastity and does many of the typical house boy chores already.