u/ThrowawayTinkerbell

Hey! I'm Ellie, 31F, currently living in Bournemouth. I've fairly recently gone through a breakup and am taking time out from dating to focus on myself and my goals and dreams, but, well, I've realised a girl still has certain ... needs. That's where (hopefully) you come in.

Above anything else, I'm looking to create a strong friendship with someone I genuinely get along with and can trust – any benefits would be exactly that: the cherry on top of a lovely little cake. And honestly, even if it is just friendship and no benefits with likeminded people, I'm happy with that as well.

So, a bit about me: I'm 5ft4. I'm a long-haired brunette with brown eyes, white, slightly overweight but actively in the gym and working on it, and plenty of tattoos and piercings. My hobbies include curling up with a good romance novel and a glass of wine, wandering around historical sites for hours on end, a love/hate relationship with running, and more recently I've started enjoying reformer pilates. I'm self-employed and my work takes up a lot of my time.

In the bedroom, I'm pretty much 100% a submissive, and I have a voracious sex drive. I have a wide range of kinks including humiliation/degradation, spanking, CNC, bondage, fisting, watersports, pet play ... the list goes on.

I'm looking for someone single, fairly local, preferably in their thirties/early forties, intelligent, and with a great sense of humour. You're dominant as hell in the bedroom, and you know what you want and how to get it. You'll ideally have your own fulfilling life and hobbies/interests, but also time to build a good friendship as a foundation to anything further.

You must be able to host.

I want to be really clear upfront that while I am open to things moving beyond friendship and into a relationship in future, I'm not at that point currently. I'm also planning on moving to Edinburgh next autumn, so this will likely have a shelf life.

Anyway, thank you for taking the time to read this essay! If you think we could be a good match, please send me a thoughtful summary about you. I look forward to hearing from you!

Hey! I'm Ellie, 31F, currently living in Bournemouth. I've fairly recently gone through a breakup and am taking time out from dating to focus on myself and my goals and dreams, but, well, I've realised a girl still has certain ... needs. That's where (hopefully) you come in.

Above anything else, I'm looking to create a strong friendship with someone I genuinely get along with and can trust – any benefits would be exactly that: the cherry on top of a lovely little cake. And honestly, even if it is just friendship and no benefits with likeminded people, I'm happy with that as well.

So, a bit about me: I'm 5ft4. I'm a long-haired brunette with brown eyes, white, slightly overweight but actively in the gym and working on it, and plenty of tattoos and piercings. My hobbies include curling up with a good romance novel and a glass of wine, wandering around historical sites for hours on end, a love/hate relationship with running, and more recently I've started enjoying reformer pilates. I'm self-employed and my work takes up a lot of my time.

In the bedroom, I'm pretty much 100% a submissive, and I have a voracious sex drive. I have a wide range of kinks including humiliation/degradation, spanking, CNC, bondage, fisting, watersports, pet play ... the list goes on.

I'm looking for someone single, fairly local, preferably in their thirties/early forties, intelligent, and with a great sense of humour. You're dominant as hell in the bedroom, and you know what you want and how to get it. You'll ideally have your own fulfilling life and hobbies/interests, but also time to build a good friendship as a foundation to anything further.

You must be able to host.

I want to be really clear upfront that while I am open to things moving beyond friendship and into a relationship in future, I'm not at that point currently. I'm also planning on moving to Edinburgh next autumn, so this will likely have a shelf life.

Anyway, thank you for taking the time to read this essay! If you think we could be a good match, please send me a thoughtful summary about you. I look forward to hearing from you!

Hey! I'm Ellie, 31F, currently living in Bournemouth. I've fairly recently gone through a breakup and am taking time out from dating to focus on myself and my goals and dreams, but, well, I've realised a girl still has certain ... needs. That's where (hopefully) you come in.

Above anything else, I'm looking to create a strong friendship with someone I genuinely get along with and can trust – any benefits would be exactly that: the cherry on top of a lovely little cake. And honestly, even if it is just friendship and no benefits with likeminded people, I'm happy with that as well.

So, a bit about me: I'm 5ft4. I'm a long-haired brunette with brown eyes, white, slightly overweight but actively in the gym and working on it, and plenty of tattoos and piercings. My hobbies include curling up with a good romance novel and a glass of wine, wandering around historical sites for hours on end, a love/hate relationship with running, and more recently I've started enjoying reformer pilates. I'm self-employed and my work takes up a lot of my time.

In the bedroom, I'm pretty much 100% a submissive, and I have a voracious sex drive. I have a wide range of kinks including humiliation/degradation, spanking, CNC, bondage, fisting, watersports, pet play ... the list goes on.

I'm looking for someone single, fairly local, preferably in their thirties/early forties, intelligent, and with a great sense of humour. You're dominant as hell in the bedroom, and you know what you want and how to get it. You'll ideally have your own fulfilling life and hobbies/interests, but also time to build a good friendship as a foundation to anything further.

You must be able to host.

I want to be really clear upfront that while I am open to things moving beyond friendship and into a relationship in future, I'm not at that point currently. I'm also planning on moving to Edinburgh next autumn, so this will likely have a shelf life.

Anyway, thank you for taking the time to read this essay! If you think we could be a good match, please send me a thoughtful summary about you. I look forward to hearing from you!