u/Touched_By_SuperHans

I got together with Em when we were 23. It actually started great. She was fun and seriously hot (5'2' light brown hair, blue eyes, curvy but gym fit with the best ass I've ever had to this day).

We'd had the body count chat and I knew she'd been way with way more partners than me (30+) which made me pretty insecure. But we never got into specific names until one came up at a party.

A mutual friend joked with her about a guy called Mark and she blushed - I knew of him in my wider friendship group. He's a total dog and has been with a crazy amount of girls, including a lot of stunners. He's annoyingly good looking... tall, cheeky builder type with lots of tattoos. I took her to one side and asked if she'd slept with him, she said she had ages ago.

What annoyed me was I've met this guy on a few occasions with her there - shook his hand and chatted to him etc. Em never interacted with him in my presence and had never mentioned they'd had a fling. So I pressed her for more details back home.

She told me she used to really fancy him but he just used her as a booty call and would always hit her up when she ended things with another guy. It drove me mad thinking about him dropping a "Hey, you up?" text and her rushing over to be dicked down.

Couldn't stop thinking about how often he had her, what positions they did, where he came, how good he was in bed, whether he did her raw...

I couldn't drop the jealous feeling about this guy, even though she said they hadn't spoke for years. Every time I spoke to her, more details came out and it was clear they'd fucked on and off for years. I stalked his social media and he still liked all her pictures - unless I was in them!

Em usually kept a pretty tight grip on her phone, but one morning she showered and left it on charge. I quickly opened up her Instagram and went to her DMs. Mark was near the top, so it was obviously bullshit they never spoke. I didn't have long and found nothing incriminating but saw they reacted to all each other's stories and even sent reels and banter occasionally.

I had to bide my time but eventually got hold of her phone a second when she forgot to take it shopping one time. Sure enough, an archived WhatsApp chat with Mark. Unlike the Instagram chat, this was strictly business. Dates, times, and meeting places going all the way through our relationship. Looks like he'd been fucking her almost as much as I had.

To torture myself even more, I scrolled back to before our relationship. At this point they were fully chatting, messaging often. He'd send pics of his cock (yes, it was bigger than mine as I'm sure you'll want to know that) and she would send him lingerie pics. Lots of dirty chat and sexting, going back years. I was rock hard which made it all extra confusing.

I confronted her, and she cried and admitted it. Mark wasn't even the only one. Basically said she's a sex addict, couldn't help it etc... Sex was so much better and more special with me (lies anyway based on how much she came/gushed with Mark according to her messages). Obviously broke up with her. She's with another poor guy now - I wondered about warning him.

The most annoying thing is this experience essentially gave me a massive cuckold fetish. Don't know why but the idea of her cheating makes me insanely turned on. So not only did Mark literally cuckold me, it's his fault I'm close to getting my current girlfriend to do the same. Except at least I'd be involved this time.

We'd agreed to not discuss our pasts too much but curiosity got the better of me one day. We got together at 26. Turns out hers was 'around 25' (she says roughly, so clearly more!). They were all friends-with-benefits or short term boyfriends, so all fucked her multiple times.

I said damn that's a lot of sex... And she said yeah, I'm a highly sexual girl - which you enjoy! I thought yeah fair enough! I definitely swing from jealous to horny on it, depending on my mood.

Anyone else get an answer that surprised them a bit?

A chat about body count essentially kickstarted my cuckold fetish. Wondering how common that is.

My girlfriend and I decided not to discuss ex partners at the start of our relationship as it made us both a bit uncomfortable. We met at 26, so there was always going to be some past history on both sides.

But it always bugged me a bit so I plucked up the courage to ask. She reminded me she was a highly sexual person and asked if I was sure and I said yes, as my imagination was probably worse.

So... 25 at least was her guess. All more than once, some longer term. They were all friends with benefits at a minimum, no one night stands. Apparently shorter term guys all used condoms. But still, adds up to her having had a ton more sex with a lot more partners than me.

I got the typical male insecurities of wondering how many were bigger and better than me. Got kinda obsessed to the point it turned me on... Hotpast stories led to a desire to being cuckolded, now here we are!

Anyone in the same boat?

Was at a wedding abroad and learned a guy had been uninvited for fucking one of the groomsman's girlfriends. I knew this guy was a massive player so wasn't totally surprised.

What did surprise me was someone cracking a joke in my girlfriends direction and her going bright red. I asked her about it privately and she admitted she had slept with this guy back in the day. She said she was young and naive and really fancied him, but he led her on and didn't want to be in a relationship.

I felt kinda sick as he's really fucking good looking and I was always a bit jealous of the amount of fit girls he slept with - and those were just the ones I knew of. But later on horniness got the better of me and I asked her for more details.

Turns out it wasn't a one off. He was banging her for around two years. She knew she was one of a few but carried on sleeping with him as the sex was so good and she hoped he'd commit to her. She was a regular booty call for him and she admits they had a lot of sex in that period. She was on the pill and he always fucked her raw.

So humiliating that I shook this guys hand at the engagement party without knowing he'd cum in my girlfriend hundreds of times. Even worse, she was just an easy fuck for him among many, many hot girls. I also clocked that he likes all her Instagram posts - unless I'm in the photo!

Now I can't stop jerking to the thought of them together and beg her to tell me more during sex. Confusing feelings!

Was at a wedding abroad and learned a guy had been uninvited for fucking one of the groomsman's girlfriends. I knew this guy was a massive player so wasn't totally surprised.

What did surprise me was someone cracking a joke in my girlfriends direction and her going bright red. I asked her about it privately and she admitted she had slept with this guy back in the day. She said she was young and naive and really fancied him, but he led her on and didn't want to be in a relationship.

I felt kinda sick as he's really fucking good looking and I was always a bit jealous of the amount of fit girls he slept with - and those were just the ones I knew of. But later on horniness got the better of me and I asked her for more details.

Turns out it wasn't a one off. He was banging her for around two years. She knew she was one of a few but carried on sleeping with him as the sex was so good and she hoped he'd commit to her. She was a regular booty call for him and she admits they had a lot of sex in that period. She was on the pill and he always fucked her raw.

So humiliating that I shook this guys hand at the engagement party without knowing he'd cum in my girlfriend hundreds of times. Even worse, she was just an easy fuck for him among many, many hot girls. I also clocked that he likes all her Instagram posts - unless I'm in the photo!

Now I can't stop jerking to the thought of them together and beg her to tell me more during sex. Confusing feelings!

I recently learnt a guy in our wider friendship circle used to fuck my girlfriend. I've chatted to this guy before and met him a few times but never knew they had history.

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It slipped out from a mutual friend that they had history at a party. I asked her about it and she said she used to really like him when she was younger and they'd slept together one time.

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She thought I'd be annoyed and jealous as they still speak to this day. But obviously I just begged her for the details... Turns out he pretty much used her for easy sex without ever committing to a relationship with her. She used to blow him and fuck him in his car, and was a regular booty call whenever he was drunk.

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Apparently he'd lead her on into thinking there'd be more but it was always ended up just sex. So turns out he'd actually fucked her 50+ times at least and it was far from a one time thing like she initially said. Apparently he was a good lay and had a very thick cock. She was on the pill so he used to cum inside her.

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So yeah... shook this guys hand multiple times knowing my girlfriend was basically his willing sex toy.

My girlfriend was two years above me throughout school and college so I knew of her without us being close. She was crazy popular with guys as she was the rare combo of hot and (apparently) easy! We hooked up later in life so I've had the chance to ask her about some of the rumours from back then.

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The main one was that she had a reputation for giving blowjobs at parties. It was pretty well known among the older boys that if you wanted a BJ, your best bet was to get her alone at a house party.

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The other rumour that went around was that the guy she liked the most (and blew the most) would always give her an unwanted facial. It became something of a running joke and other guys would also pull out and cum on her face. There were supposedly pictures circulated too.

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I assumed it was all exaggerated but she confirmed it was more or less true. She said she did get drunk and horny at parties and was very liberal with blowjobs. And the guy she was most into did always cum on her face. She said she actually found it hot so let him do it anyway, but it only annoyed her if it hit her hair! Most of the other boys would cum in her mouth very quickly so she said they probably made the facials up to show off.

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The picture part was true also, with the guy she was hooking up with most. She said she actually went to his house to confront him. He apparently was apologetic and deleted it despite having already sent it to some mates. She had full sex with him for the first that day too, apparently they spent pretty much the whole rest of the weekend in his bed. But she still never tied him down as he didn't want a girlfriend. They had sex on and off quite a few times over the years though.

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I've actually met this guy and a few of his mates as we live in a relatively small place. They were always polite to me but I can't help think they possibly still have a picture of my girlfriends face covered in cum somewhere on their phones.

This might not be the most exciting story on here but that's because it's 100% true, so hopefully is still of interest!

Back in university I'd hooked up with a new girlfriend, Em. I'd been trying it with her for ages so was beyond buzzing to finally pull her and have the chat about being exclusive boyfriend and girlfriend. She was 5' 8" so quite tall, with dyed blonde hair and brown eyes. She was very sporty and on the netball and lacrosse teams, so had an amazing body. I got a lot of pats on the back from my mates for having pulled her and was feeling pretty pleased with myself. Being 19 we were fucking like rabbits and life was good!

Onto the cuckolding... One night she went clubbing with friends while I stayed in to smoke and chill. I woke up to a few missed calls from her and a text asking why I didn't answer, but I didn't think too much of it. I headed over to hers in the morning and she cried pretty much straight away and told me she'd slept with a mutual friend. I wasn't super close to him... Close enough for it to be shitty he fucked my girlfriend though. He was also a sporty guy and generally regarded as the best looking guy in our halls. He could have banged any single girl but obviously wanted mine more.

My first response was anger, so I stormed home from hers, leaving her crying. But then a weird thing happened and I felt myself getting hard the more I thought about it. I wanted to know how big his cock was, how long he'd fucked her for, and how many times they did it. I wanted to know what positions they did, where he came, and whether he used a condom or not. I was desperate to know how good he was and whether he made her cum - was he better in bed than me?

I called Em and forgave her that night. The truth was I was just absolutely desperate to fuck her though. She tried to stop me going down on her (which made me assume he'd probably fucked her bareback and came in her) but I did anyway. The thought of another man's cock being in her not even 24 hours earlier was enough to make me cum instantly when I eventually entered her.

She probably thought it was a bit weird how desperate I was to go down on her and taste her that night. And unless I'd had a few drinks I barely lasted a minute inside her for the rest of our relationship. Pretty weird I guess, but whenever we had sex I'd think about him fucking her and start to cum straight away myself. She never said anything, I guess out of guilt for the cheating, but I wonder if she made the connection.

We eventually broke up and haven't spoke for years. But I sometimes wonder if she or my mate who banged her have any idea they gave me a lifelong cuckold fetish. I actually thought about them as my current girlfriend let a guy enter her for the first time while I watched and was like damn... This is all downstream of their drunken teenage sex all those years ago.

I've long lost touch with my university girlfriend and the guy she cheated on me with. I sometimes wonder if they have any idea what they did to me! All these years later and I'm still obsessed with the idea of another man having sex with my girlfriend.

When we finally went through with it recently and my girl was riding another man, I thought back to that guy from uni and realised this was kinda all happening because he banged my girlfriend behind my back. Thanks buddy haha.

Wondering how many guys are in a similar boat? And do you ever think about how that initial cheating incident changed your life?

I see a lot of posts where guys have no idea how to approach the subject with their wife/girlfriend.

The worst thing to do is mention it too early and scare her off. Before the convo ever happens, she needs to feel sexy, secure, and non judged.

So sharing below what worked for us and led to 'the conversation.'

1. Toys. Introducing a dildo is a great starting point - one that sticks to a surface is best. Most girls appreciate an attempt to spice up the bedroom. Play in a few different ways that get her used to the idea of you finding watching her with another guy sexy - but don't actually bring up cuckolding yet. Get one a bit bigger than you if you're into size comparisons... But not some crazy sized one that will scare her off.

2. Hotpast. You'll have to pick the right time and place, but start getting her to tell you about hot experiences from her past. Ask for details about her exes and one night stands. Again, this plants the seed that you view her experiences with other men as sexy and not something to judge her for.

3. Couples kink quiz. Once you've had some positive experiences with toys and hotpast chats, she's probably warm to the idea of trying other stuff. Find an online quiz (there's loads) that asks you about kinks and shows what you match on. Reassure her that's its open and non judgy- you only see what you both match on.

I was so shocked mine matched on cuckolding! Led to a great chat about what we were ready to try right away and what would take some time. Even if you only match on threesome or something, it's a start and you can begin openly chatting about this stuff. Good luck!