u/Travelsizedsub

I’m looking to connect with more people in the UK Femdom scene, particularly Dommes and genuinely submissive people who enjoy the dynamic beyond just exchanging a couple of messages.
I also run The Domme Exchange, a free community for Dommes and subs to chat, share experiences, discuss dynamics and get to know like-minded people around the UK.
We’re still a small group at the moment, with 2 Dommes and 8 subs already in, which I actually think is a nice stage to join because everyone can properly get involved rather than disappearing into a huge group.
It isn’t a paid group and there’s no selling involved — the aim is simply to build a decent community where Dommes can meet genuine subs and subs can actually learn, contribute and connect.
I’m Manchester based, but the group is UK-wide and both online connections and people interested in eventually meeting locally are welcome.
If you’re a Domme who fancies having a look, or a sub who thinks you’d genuinely add something to the community, feel free to message me and I’ll send you the details.

I run The Outer Circle — a Telegram channel for submissive men and sissies who enjoy following, watching and doing as they’re told.
This is not a group chat.
You don’t join to spam messages, send unsolicited pictures or compete for attention. You join to watch, follow instructions, take part when invited and prove you know how to behave in a Domme-led space.
Adults only. UK focused. Subs and sissies welcome.
If that sounds like exactly the kind of place you belong,

Telegram search - The Outer Circle 🖤

I’ve just started The Sissy Exchange, a private 18+ Telegram group for sissies, subs, tops and Dommes.
It’s brand new, so I’m looking for the first people who actually want to get involved rather than just lurk.
There are separate spaces for introductions, pics, fantasies, general chat and finding people nearby.
Sissies — come show yourselves off and meet people who actually appreciate you 😏
Tops & Dommes — come introduce yourselves and see if your perfect little sissy is waiting in there.
It’s free, private and join requests are approved manually.
DM me if you want the invite 💕

Trying to understand the difference between a man you’d enjoy teasing occasionally and one you’d actually want to keep around. Confidence? Obedience? Sense of humour? Knowing when to shut up? 😏

Trying to understand the difference between a man you’d enjoy teasing occasionally and one you’d actually want to keep around. Confidence? Obedience? Sense of humour? Knowing when to shut up? 😏

I’m curious about this from the other side.
As someone who genuinely enjoys SPH, I obviously understand why I get something out of the humiliation — but I’ve started wondering what the appeal is for the bigger guys doing the teasing.
Is it the obvious size difference? The feeling of superiority? Seeing how embarrassed or submissive the smaller guy becomes? Or is it simply knowing that he actively enjoys being reminded that he can’t compete with you in that department?
Would genuinely like to hear from hung guys who enjoy SPH rather than just getting one-word answers.
What part of humiliating a small-cocked guy is the most enjoyable for you?