u/Trick_Garbage4842

I was a fairly vanilla woman and was not much into kinks. My husband has femdom and chastity humiliation kinks. When he first said it, I was not into it. But two years back, for his sake, we did lock his cock and I was holding the key. I used to give his key back whenever he asked and except for mild dominance, I did not indulge in the fantasy very much.

But, he used to pester me and tell me how I should be strict and should indulge in this more. This became a point of argument more than a few times and he used to say stuff like we are not sexually compatible and how it is important for a happy marriage.

So, we tried again, and this time I was more strict and did not give the keys whenever he asked until he gave me a minimum 10 orgasms. I was also enjoying face slapping him and punishing him. By now, I started enjoying this dynamic. After all, I get massages and orgasms whenever I want.

Recently, I just discovered that my husband is orgasming without my permission using my magic wand. I noticed that my magic wand was in a different place in the house and many times with less charge. One day, at night, I woke up from sleep and saw he was not there. The bathroom was locked from outside in that bedroom. So, I went looking for him and when I went to the upstairs room, I saw the bathroom was locked inside and could hear my magic wand. I confronted him when he came out and he admitted that he was using a magic wand to orgasm through the chastity cage. He also admitted he has been doing this for quite a while since I became strict.

I am super pissed off about this. He is the one who pestered me for chastity, and even made me feel like a bad wife for not indulging in it. But, when I started indulging in it, he was doing this behind my back.

I love my husband, and he loves me too. But, I have made it clear to him that our relationship is going to be an out and out a femdom relationship going forward. So far, we were doing only his femdom and chastity fantasy. Going forward, I will ensure to indulge in his humiliation fantasy as well, but it will happen in my terms.

I have four of my girl friends with whom I discuss kinky stuff, but I have never told them about my husband being in chastity. My husband has told me previosuly that being dominated and humiliated by a group of women would be exciting for him. I did not take it seriously back then. But, I will now ensure this happens.

I am looking for some really extreme humiliating tasks. It can also involve my four girl friends. Also, I am looking for ideas to create a humiliation ritual/routine where he does a humiliating task everyday that will remind him his place.

I was a fairly vanilla woman and was not much into kinks. My husband has femdom and chastity humiliation kinks. When he first said it, I was not into it. But two years back, for his sake, we did lock his cock and I was holding the key. I used to give his key back whenever he asked and except for mild dominance, I did not indulge in the fantasy very much.

But, he used to pester me and tell me how I should be strict and should indulge in this more. This became a point of argument more than a few times and he used to say stuff like we are not sexually compatible and how it is important for a happy marriage.

So, we tried again, and this time I was more strict and did not give the keys whenever he asked until he gave me a minimum 10 orgasms. I was also enjoying face slapping him and punishing him. By now, I started enjoying this dynamic. After all, I get massages and orgasms whenever I want.

Recently, I just discovered that my husband is orgasming without my permission using my magic wand. I noticed that my magic wand was in a different place in the house and many times with less charge. One day, at night, I woke up from sleep and saw he was not there. The bathroom was locked from outside in that bedroom. So, I went looking for him and when I went to the upstairs room, I saw the bathroom was locked inside and could hear my magic wand. I confronted him when he came out and he admitted that he was using a magic wand to orgasm through the chastity cage. He also admitted he has been doing this for quite a while since I became strict.

I am super pissed off about this. He is the one who pestered me for chastity, and even made me feel like a bad wife for not indulging in it. But, when I started indulging in it, he was doing this behind my back.

I love my husband, and he loves me too. But, I have made it clear to him that our relationship is going to be an out and out a femdom relationship going forward. So far, we were doing only his femdom and chastity fantasy. Going forward, I will ensure to indulge in his humiliation fantasy as well, but it will happen in my terms.

I have four of my girl friends with whom I discuss kinky stuff, but I have never told them about my husband being in chastity. My husband has told me previosuly that being dominated and humiliated by a group of women would be exciting for him. I did not take it seriously back then. But, I will now ensure this happens.

I am looking for some really extreme humiliating tasks. It can also involve my four girl friends. Also, I am looking for ideas to create a humiliation ritual/routine where he does a humiliating task everyday that will remind him his place.

To give you the background:

My husband introduced me to Chastity one and half years back. I was not initially interested in it because it felt odd to lock my husband's penis. But, he used to keep bringing that up often and say things like we are not sexually compatible, etc.

So, I started indulging in it for his sake. I used to keep him locked up for a day or two and whenever he asks to release, I would release him. This went on for quite sometime. Once he gets his orgasm, then after sometime he would say how I should be a bit more strict and not release him if he wants, which is what real chastity is.

Some 3-4 months back, I must say I started enjoying keeping him in Chastity. I got him to massage me and lick me whenever I wanted. I also realised releasing him often makes him less submissive. He was anyway pestering me to be strict. So, I became quite strict and told him that he will get to have an orgasm only for every 5 orgasms I have. It was really great to see him trying to please me get me to orgasm.

But, I just realised recently that he has been orgasming using my magic wand without my permission. There were a few instances where the magic wand was not in the exact place I usually keep. He also was acting less submissive than he used to. One night assuming I was asleep, he took the magic wand and went to the toilet in the upstairs of our home. When he came out of the toilet with the magic wand, I confronted him and he admitted that he has been using the wand to get off for quite some time since he has been so horny.

My husband and I have previously talked about all our fetishes, and he has admitted that he has humiliation fetish and being humiliated in front of others is a recurring fantasy for him. I have four of my girlfriends who regularly visit my house. I have never told them about chastity but have discussed about various kinks and I know they would be fine about indulging in our fantasies.

I just want to fulfill his humiliation fantasies. I would like suggestions on some extreme humiliating punishment (not funishment). Also, I wonder if humiliation has been used as a tool of chastity training by other key holders here.