u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699

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30 [M4F] Day 7 of Posting Until I Find a Match

I know someone here has been waiting to see this day 7 post! I won‘ lie. I contemplated continuing because sometimes it doesn‘t feel worth it. However, I will do a few more just in case it’s like that meme where the diamond is just one more swing of the pickaxe away!

I am a chill and fun 30 year old dad who can chat with anyone about most anything. Grew up in TN and have the accent to prove it. Would like to find someone to do this long term with and have a good slow burn and best friend. Maybe it’s unrealistic? Maybe it’s just magic waiting to happen!

*notabot

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 23 hours ago

30 [M4F] Day 6 of Posting Until I Find a Match

Wow , Summer set in overnight. I went from enjoying a cool evening to feeling like I’m going to have a heat stroke this afternoon.

Welcome to my post and thanks for stopping by. I actually feel like my quality had regressed so putting in a little extra effort today in hopes for a good return! I’m a dad who enjoys life and wants to find someone to help enhance and yeah fill a few gaps. Maybe we’re all just selfish bastards here who want it all and that’s just unrealistic, but if what I’m chasing is legit and I do think it can be bc I’ve had a couple of great matches in the past then I want to find it again!

Ideally I click best with moms who have time to spare and want to feel in someone making them feel like they matter. Also when you’re confident enough to think you’re cute and fun that’s always a bonus.
I’m in the EST and hope today is the day I find someone great! :)

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 3 days ago

30 [M4F] Day 5 of Posting Until I Find a Match

After a long weekend, it's kind of nice to get back into the office where it's a little less hectic. Today's tasks will be easy, and one of those days where I remind myself I get paid hourly, and the deadlines aren't until the end of the week. Does that make me sound lazy? I choose to think it makes me a time management expert.

Also, still waiting on a new window to be put in beside my desk. Plywood is nice and all, but the outside scenery is way nicer! I'm a dad of one, and I wouldn't say I'm miserable in my marriage, but it is lacking the excitement that fades when years of real life hit you. So let's make each other's days a little less "a lot" and just enjoy something simple and blissful.

Where should we have lunch to start this new journey?

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 5 days ago

30 [M4F] Day 4 of Posting Until I Find a Match

Happy Saturday everyone! Had to finish all of my Saturday chores before I could get around to staying consistent here.

I live in TN and it’s a beautiful day out! So I’ve enjoyed my time outside mowing, fixing some landscaping things, walking the dogs, and now just sitting out on the patio enjoying a nice breeze on a sunny day! Too dehydrated for a beer bc I’m the kind of guy who doesn’t stop to eat or drink once I start doing things…don’t ask why it’s just a weird and probably potentially dangerous habit 😅

So if you’d like to join this married dad in some relaxation I’ll be around!

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 7 days ago

30 [M4F] #OnlineOnly Save me from boredom!

It's a mundane Tuesday that I would love to turn into a Tuesday I won't soon forget. Work is slow and I'm trying to find some way to get the day to go by faster. Married, but like many others...dead bedroom. I'm a pretty cute guy that has an unexpected naughty side. Let's see what kind of fun we can have with no pressure to make this anything serious. Hope we can talk soon 😄 ~

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 11 days ago

Good morning! Looks like I'll be sitting at the window watching it rain most of the day and wouldn't mind someone to pass the time with. No pressure on making this a life altering conversation, then again who knows what will happen these days, but talking about our days and what's on our minds could be fun! I'm down to talk with you about whatever: life, entertainment, hobbies, food, sex, whatever flows is all I'm after for today.

I'm a married dad of 1 who enjoys being out and about. In the est. This may seem low effort, but I'm just aiming more for low pressure. Hope we can chat soon!

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 17 days ago

Maybe I'm too bitter to be posting today, but damn it'd be nice to have someone to chat with that understands. After over a week of talking and we both swore we hate ghosting and we are adults who know how to communicate so if we decide things aren't going to work out we will say so, but to swap pics and the immediate deleting of the account on one platform and blocking me here. That's shitty. I know I'm not everyone's type. I'm confident in being a solid 7.5. Anyways. If any of you ladies are down for some chill chats or also need to vent over the ghosting epidemic I'll be around 😅

Oh and for the sake of the sub...I am a married guy in the est.

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u/Virtual-Seaweed-4699 — 19 days ago