u/VogueColossus

I don't mean for this story to be a dunk on women or anything but I've read so many stories in other subs about women kicking men out after he gets his orgasm and leaves her unfinished.

Years ago when I was studying for my boards, I invited a girl over to my place to blow off some steam. Her and I saw eachother regularly but it was usually me going over to her place.

She comes over and we have a light dinner because we both knew how much we wanted to get busy and then we got to it. She was always a bit of a princess and would complain about my size so we always did a fair amount of foreplay before we actually got it on. We got those formalities out of the way and went at eachother.

At about the 10 minute mark, she came. Full body contracting, and immediately turned into a noodle afterwards. Now I'm excited because we got her orgasm, and now we can work on mine. I gave her a little bit of time to recharge and asked if we could get things going again. She told me "no", straight up.

She told me that it "hit different today" and she was out of commission. I pleaded with her about getting my nut, as it was only fair for her to reciprocate. She told me she did not care to do so but would happily watch me masturbate. At that point I just asked her to leave. I felt hurt, insulted, and used. She was shocked, but I doubled down on it. She blamed me and said if my dick wasn't what it was, maybe she'd have been able to handle more, but it just "hit too differently" that day.

So she went home and I had to work myself over. Next day she texted me saying that no man had ever sexually humiliated her like this before. I told her she was being really sexually selfish that night and it wasn't cool.

All in all, it was a surreal feeling being on the other side of a situation like that.

I'd like to think I'm decently endowed. With that being said, I'm painfully aware that there were much larger members out there in the world, as a woman who deeply resented me made it a point to remind me on a regular basis.

In my senior year of college I started talking to a sophomore during winter break and things progressed quickly. She went to school 5 states away so we put a pause on things. She came back for the summer and we were basically together all the time. Sex was amazing, I had former roommates that actually had to meet up with eachother to decide how to tell me I needed to relax with "whatever [I] was doing to her". She would grunt and make all kinds of sounds. Lavish me with compliments about my member, but Ive always felt like that's just post-sex lip-service.

Eventually she asked to be my gf. I told her no, because she was only in the same state as me for only 3 months of the year, LDRs are unappealing, and that neither of us would really know what the other was up to. I proposed that we keep seeing eachother during the breaks and be transparent with each other if either of us started seriously dating or developed feelings for other people. She agreed.

What I didn't realize was that she was deeply angry with me for this proposition, but felt that she couldn't say no without risking me breaking things off with her. By the time she moved back to my state after college she absolutely resented me, unbeknownst to me.

Almost immediately she began regaling me about this man she had a torrid tryst with that ended with her school year, how she cried over him, and how he had the most massive dick she had ever experienced. She regularly laid it in on me about how thick he was, how nervous she was that he permanently stretched her out, how much she needed to use oil and lube to fit all of him in there.

This went on for months. I caught on to what she was doing and I stomached it for months because I knew she felt like she needed to exact her revenge for how she felt I wronged her. Then one day I just snapped at her. I called her out for all of it and she began crying. I asked her why she did all of it and she said, "your dick is something you're very confident about so I felt like I needed to take that away from you".

Needless to say that situation didn't end well. But the point Im trying to drive home here is that yeah, we're all packin in this sub, but there's always someone bigger which is why we should all be humble about what we're working with. It's fine to be confident but once it crosses over into hubris, it could become a target.