u/VogueColossus

I'd like to think I'm decently endowed. With that being said, I'm painfully aware that there were much larger members out there in the world, as a woman who deeply resented me made it a point to remind me on a regular basis.

In my senior year of college I started talking to a sophomore during winter break and things progressed quickly. She went to school 5 states away so we put a pause on things. She came back for the summer and we were basically together all the time. Sex was amazing, I had former roommates that actually had to meet up with eachother to decide how to tell me I needed to relax with "whatever [I] was doing to her". She would grunt and make all kinds of sounds. Lavish me with compliments about my member, but Ive always felt like that's just post-sex lip-service.

Eventually she asked to be my gf. I told her no, because she was only in the same state as me for only 3 months of the year, LDRs are unappealing, and that neither of us would really know what the other was up to. I proposed that we keep seeing eachother during the breaks and be transparent with each other if either of us started seriously dating or developed feelings for other people. She agreed.

What I didn't realize was that she was deeply angry with me for this proposition, but felt that she couldn't say no without risking me breaking things off with her. By the time she moved back to my state after college she absolutely resented me, unbeknownst to me.

Almost immediately she began regaling me about this man she had a torrid tryst with that ended with her school year, how she cried over him, and how he had the most massive dick she had ever experienced. She regularly laid it in on me about how thick he was, how nervous she was that he permanently stretched her out, how much she needed to use oil and lube to fit all of him in there.

This went on for months. I caught on to what she was doing and I stomached it for months because I knew she felt like she needed to exact her revenge for how she felt I wronged her. Then one day I just snapped at her. I called her out for all of it and she began crying. I asked her why she did all of it and she said, "your dick is something you're very confident about so I felt like I needed to take that away from you".

Needless to say that situation didn't end well. But the point Im trying to drive home here is that yeah, we're all packin in this sub, but there's always someone bigger which is why we should all be humble about what we're working with. It's fine to be confident but once it crosses over into hubris, it could become a target.