u/Whole_Sir3922

Have spoken with a few of you as a potential SD.

In the past - this would, I take care fo you and we meet up, stay in touch, and continue to have fun along the way.

And yet, now a days I speak to a few SB on here and am told

1. Its just online (wtf? If its online, might as well simply follow someone on OF). Or

2. I will 'only meet several months down the line IF I feel comfortable (well if you are uncomfortable, maybe decline that paycheck each month or reconsider being on this sub).

As a professional wanting to let off some steam on the side, not only am I worried about your safety, am also responsible for discretion and my own safety.

Anyway, rant over. Have a great week ahead.

I have had private conversations with many of you. One of which converted but didnt give consent to be posted (hence the lack of it).

But.. I am not looking to convert you. If you are smart and can make a compelling case for feminism, I am all ears.

And if you cant... well you are welcome to my camp.

I’m in my late 30s and work in healthcare, which basically means I’m a professional "serious person" during the day. I’m 5'9", athletic, and have an Ivy League degree that I mostly use to win arguments and pick good investments.

I’m searching for a sweet, high-energy girl (18-23) who wants a man capable of leading the way (and paying for the better coffee). If you’re bubbly and looking for someone to show you how the world works, let's talk.

Pros: No food allergies, knows about cars, can explain the economy.

Cons: Will definitely want to talk about soccer at some point.

As much as you think otherwise, sharing your trauma and walking through it and describing how it felt and how it feels now and being honest about it is exactly the cornerstone of most therapy.

And while I am not a therapist, having had therapy myself (not as a SA victim btw but was dealing with other stuff).

So if you ever want to talk about it and establish a long term bond where I listen and understand, you are always welcome to dm me.

If you do message me, I prefer you are in a similar time zone (mst, cst, est ok). And you will of course need to be over 18.

Mention 'banana' in the first sentence so I know you read it