u/bison648

I figured I’d give this a try, and put the real me (warts and all) in the title. So if you clicked and are still reading this (big if, I know) here’s the real me.

I’m a 36 year old attorney and father of two who lost basically all connection, physical and emotional, with my wife years ago. Despite our differences, I care very much about my wife, kids, and career, and do not want to lose any of it (it’s already in jeopardy by just being here) if possible, so as everyone says, discretion is key.

I have spent a lot of time trying to working through my overthinking and people pleasing in therapy, and I realize that I have a lot to give as a partner. I’m looking for someone who appreciates those things about me (could I be any more vague) and is excited to speak with me about a multitude of things, and I am the same about them…whether it’s random texts throughout the day, calls, FaceTimes, or meet ups if we get there. Someone who makes me excited to check my phone during the day to see if they’ve texted.

I hope to hear from you if any of this resonated you! ✌️

I figured I’d give this a try another time, and put the real me (warts and all) in the title. So if you clicked and are still reading this (big if, I know) here’s the real me.

I’m a 36 year old attorney and father of two who lost basically all connection, physical and emotional, with my wife years ago. Despite our differences, I care very much about my wife, kids, and career, and do not want to lose any of it (it’s already in jeopardy by just being here) if possible, so as everyone says, discretion is key.

I have spent a lot of time trying to working through my overthinking and people pleasing in therapy, and I realize that I have a lot to give as a partner. I’m looking for someone who appreciates those things about me (could I be any more vague) and is excited to speak with me about a multitude of things, and I am the same about them…whether it’s random texts throughout the day, calls, FaceTimes, or meet ups if we get there.

I hope to hear from you if any of this resonated you! ✌️

I deleted my previous post because I don’t think I did it correctly. I also think there’s a stigma that men posting are just looking for more sex, but please read what I’ve written.

Hi, this is my first time here so I’m hoping I’m doing this right. I am 6’2”, 270, married with kids (hopefully I’m not sharing too much) and a stressful white collar job. The spark in my marriage seems to have disappeared and we act more like roommates and not a married couple. I am not looking to blow up my life (like I assume most people on here aren’t), I love my wife as a person and think she is wonderful, there’s just the last piece missing. Discretion is paramount, but I am looking to get a little excitement back in my life…from texting about our days, making each other feel seen, sexting, and the physical part of a relationship. I probably needed ChatGPT to refine this rambling mess for me, but then our AI overlords would probably judge me, but after all of this rambling, if you think we could be a good match, please message me. I look forward to it.

EDIT (I told you I’m new at this), title should say: 36 [M4F]

Hi, this is my first time here so I’m hoping I’m doing this right. I am 6’2”, 270, little heavier man, married with kids (hopefully I’m not sharing too much) and a stressful job. The spark in my marriage seems to have disappeared and we act more like roommates and not a married couple. I am not looking to blow up my life (like I assume most people on here aren’t) so discretion is paramount, but I am looking to get a little excitement back in my life…from texting about our days, making each other feel seen, sexting, and the physical part of a relationship. I want to be able to explore my fantasies and for you to do the same with me. I probably needed ChatGPT to refine this rambling mess for me, but then our AI overlords would probably judge me, but after all of this, if you think we could be a good match, feel free to reach out!