u/dacaptin79

47 [M4F] #kansascity - married dad looking for a woman that actually enjoys it.

Honestly, what I miss most is feeling desired.

My wife and I have had open conversations, and she’s told me I’m free to find something she simply doesn’t enjoy giving. So I’m looking for a one-time connection with a woman who genuinely enjoys pleasing a man and likes the feeling of making someone feel wanted.

This isn’t about trying to change my life or yours. I just miss the intimacy, enthusiasm, teasing, attention, and connection that comes from being with someone who actually wants to be there and enjoys every second of it.

I’m respectful, discreet, clean, easygoing, and looking for someone who’s confident, playful, and interested in sharing a fun escape from reality for a night.

If that sounds like something you’d enjoy too, send me a message.
White male, 6,2 chubby/dad bod, salt and pepper goatee, blue eyes, shaved head.

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u/dacaptin79 — 4 hours ago

[m47] my wife’s younger sister is breastfeeding and all I can think about is sucking them

She’s 25 and just had her first baby, she’s never really been the modest type, but she has her tits out all the time, those big brown nipples, and I just want to lay in her lap and suck them….

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u/dacaptin79 — 14 hours ago

M46 [M4F] Built a good life… just miss the spark sometimes…

I’ve been married a long time, built a solid life, handled the responsibilities, careers, house projects, routines — all the things that come with adulthood and long-term relationships. I’m not looking to walk away from any of that.
What I do miss though is energy. Playfulness. Curiosity. Feeling genuinely excited to talk to someone again.
I’ve noticed I tend to connect better with younger women — not because I’m chasing drama or trying to relive my 20s, but because I enjoy the different perspective, spontaneity, humor, and lighter energy that often comes with it. I like conversations that feel effortless and engaging instead of transactional and exhausted.
About me:
Married 10+ years
Midwestern guy
Funny in a sarcastic/dark humor kind of way
Into DIY projects, late-night conversations, random topics, and people with personality
Stable, emotionally intelligent, and not looking to create chaos in anyone’s life
Not looking to immediately jump into anything intense. Honestly just hoping to find someone who enjoys talking, flirting a little, sharing thoughts throughout the day, and building a connection naturally.
If you like older married guys who can hold a conversation and make you laugh, feel free to message me.

*notabot

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u/dacaptin79 — 19 hours ago

47 [M4F] white married dad looking for Latina play thing

Looking for a younger Latina to be my plaything, I’m tired of sticking my cock in white pussy, and want to feel the warmth of a Hispanic woman submitting beneath me

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u/dacaptin79 — 11 days ago

47 [M4F] #kansascity - Confession: I Can’t Remember My Last Great Blowjob

There’s something incredibly addictive about making someone feel wanted… watching a man completely melt because of your attention, your lips, your confidence. I miss that kind of connection more than I can explain.

I’m married, discreet, respectful, and honestly deprived of real intimacy and oral affection. I’m not looking to complicate lives — just hoping to find a woman who genuinely enjoys the thrill of teasing, pleasing, and leaving a man weak from anticipation alone.

I love flirting, building tension, compliments, and making a woman feel desired too. If you enjoy being appreciated for your skills, your energy, and your ability to drive a man crazy with just a look and a smile, I’d love to talk.

Sometimes the hottest thing is being the reason someone can’t stop thinking about you afterward.

6’2 white male, shaved head, blue eyes, dad bod

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u/dacaptin79 — 12 days ago

White guy that’s never been with a brown girl…

Me? I’m 6’2 white shaved head, construction worker, big hands, blue eyes, thing is, I’ve always wondered about a petite brown girl, tiny small, is she better? Does she suck better? Does she like my white cock and dominate type?

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u/dacaptin79 — 13 days ago

47 [M4F] Married but missing excitement — looking for a younger woman who gets it

I work construction, stay pretty busy, and can’t always reply instantly, but I enjoy having someone to talk to throughout the day when time allows. I like playful banter, genuine connection, humor, and a little tension too.
About me: 6’2, blue eyes, dark hair, shaved head, hardworking, sarcastic at times, and told I’m easy to talk to. I’m not looking for drama or pressure — just someone who enjoys the excitement of getting to know each other.
If you like confident men with rough hands and a soft spot for good conversation, send me a message.

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u/dacaptin79 — 13 days ago

Been married a long time, got married too young, was the good Christian boy that believed sex before marriage was bad, I missed so much, I’m not that good anymore but I missed so much. Let’s chat, you can tell me real or we can RP with what happens next. I am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+

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u/dacaptin79 — 20 days ago

Older married guy, i was the good religious guy who didn’t realize everything fun i missed out on as a young adult. Got married way too young (19) missed out on so many things, I thought everyone was squeaky clean and innocent. I missed the clues and the signs of girls flirting. So tell me what you did that others don’t know, I’ll tell you what I thought about doing but was too embarrassed to admit for fear of being dirty. This can be lengthy or short

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u/dacaptin79 — 20 days ago