I hear this term often and say "yeah!!!, Elusive Connection".
But what Is it? Is it a feel? Is it a deep dive into attention you don't have right now and then floats away when you got the attention? Is it the feeling of someone really getting you? What does it mean?
I'd like to find out. Would you like to find out?
In order to find out, its has to be a slow go, chatting, getting a feel for each other seeing if you catch enough of an interest to want more.
Are you patient enough to find out? Are you curios enough to want to find out? Are you adventurous enough to throw your hat in the ring? Are you open enough to really find out?