u/frontside540

I’m giving this another chance.

Two souls searching this avenue as the nights grow longer and quieter, days drag on where nothing changes, minds finding no rise only to give way to the trail of ghosts. Here I stand, embracing these dramatic thoughts wondering if you're doing the same.

Basics - 6'1" and 185 - Lithe, proportionate and fit. Buzzcut blond man who looks good shirtless. Married, Dad, inhabitant of a dead bedroom, roommates, the whole 9. Not a bot or a scammer. OPSEC airtight.

MST, PST or CST please, I'm not trying to make a habit of keeping you up all night although you may find yourself embracing your inner night owl and smiling in the later hours.

I'm not here for games. I'm not here for a mirror to my interests and I would be surprised to find anyone who wanders the corridors I frequent, staring longingly at the mountains I adore. I love to write. I love to discover music and catalog my taste in curated playlists for any given mood. I am not afraid of the sadness you harbor, the yearning that washes over you in your silent moments of reflection. Let me be the vessel for your lost emotions, bring my your smiles, your kindness and sweetness, your deepest desires and your unseen heart, all are safe here.

We can exercise demons, share our triumphs, celebrate each others sense of humor and bask in the feeling of being noticed, fawned over and before you know it, you'll see me when you close your eyes, a subtle smirk that sticks with you all day and that warmth rising in your chest and the hair raising on your arms can share my name and my presence in your life. I will have this effect on you and if you're doubting, there is only one way to find out.

I'm here to be picky, sue me. I've settled in life in more ways two hands can count, and I'm here to find someone who wields their sex appeal and intellect like a brandished sword and a hidden knife. If you're a gym girlie that's cool with me, if you're a basement fitness babe that's cool too. If you get your sweat out on a bike ride or a long hike, we will get along great. Kind eyes are more important to me than the color of your hair, your tattoos, blank skin, beauty lies in the imperfections and these beholding eyes see everything about you. Bring me your yapping, your weirdo songs, your tears of loneliness and let me make some room for you here. Fit moms, corporate suit rockers, punk band shirts, leggings, jeans, skirts and sundresses. Show off your style, your attention to your appearance and watch me paint your inbox with the words you sorely miss.

Unleash what you keep trapped inside, the realest version of you buried beneath the years of tip toeing and diminishing your inner flame, come have your needs me. Let me be the shadow you speak to, the echo in the halls that feels familiar and the ignition switch to the pulse you keep checking for. Let's bring each other back to life, embrace a new energy, find a consistent source of support and undeniable attraction. Let me show you how I yearn, how I make these feelings dance like a snake charmer, let me adapt to your motion and dazzle you with this.

Message me, I'm waiting for you.

I’m giving this another chance.

Two souls searching this avenue as the nights grow longer and quieter, days drag on where nothing changes, minds finding no rise only to give way to the trail of ghosts. Here I stand, embracing these dramatic thoughts wondering if you're doing the same.

Basics - 6'1" and 185 - Lithe, proportionate and fit. Buzzcut blond man who looks good shirtless. Married, Dad, inhabitant of a dead bedroom, roommates, the whole 9. Not a clanker or a scammer. OPSEC airtight.

MST, PST or CST please, I'm not trying to make a habit of keeping you up all night although you may find yourself embracing your inner night owl and smiling in the later hours.

I'm not here for games. I'm not here for a mirror to my interests and I would surprised to find anyone who wanders the corridors I frequent, staring longingly at the mountains I adore. I love to write. I love to discover music and catalog my taste in curated playlists for any given mood. I am not afraid of the sadness you harbor, the yearning that washes over you in your silent moments of reflection. Let me be the vessel for your lost emotions, bring my your smiles, your kindness and sweetness, your deepest desires and your unseen heart, all are safe here.

We can exercise demons, share our triumphs, celebrate each others sense of humor and bask in the feeling of being noticed, fawned over and before you know it, you'll see me when you close your eyes, a subtle smirk that sticks with you all day and that warmth rising in your chest and the hair raising on your arms can share my name and my presence in your life. I will have this effect on you and if you're doubting, there is only one way to find out.

I'm here to be picky, sue me. I've settled in life in more ways two hands can count, and I'm here to find someone who wields their sex appeal and intellect like a brandished sword and a hidden knife. If you're a gym girlie that's cool with me, if you're a basement fitness babe that's cool too. If you get your sweat out on a bike ride or a long hike, we will get along great. Kind eyes are more important to me than the color of your hair, your tattoos, blank skin, beauty lies in the imperfections and these beholding eyes see everything about you. Bring me your yapping, your weirdo songs, your tears of loneliness and let me make some room for you here. Fit moms, corporate suit rockers, punk band shirts, leggings, jeans, skirts and sundresses. Show off your style, your attention to your appearance and watch me paint your inbox with the words you sorely miss.

Unleash what you keep trapped inside, the realest version of you buried beneath the years of tip toeing and diminishing your inner flame, come have your needs me. Let me be the shadow you speak to, the echo in the halls that feels familiar and the ignition switch to the pulse you keep checking for. Let's bring each other back to life, embrace a new energy, find a consistent source of support and undeniable attraction. Let me show you how I yearn, how I make these feelings dance like a snake charmer, let me adapt to your motion and dazzle you with this.

What are you waiting for?

Are you looking to embark on a full blown love affair? Are there parts of your life that leave you feeling empty after all the unrequited effort? I'm searching for my person in this manner where so many of us are after similar things, where I don't often haunt this space.

I'm a married dad, evoking the feelings and emotions that are unnoticed in myself and hoping to care for these parts of you in a way that no one else can or will. I am not here for a fling, a ghost party or a quick fix to the urges we all feel. I am here to embrace the familiar aspects of this loving feeling in another, to find the counterparts and hold them close.

As for the basics, I am slightly on the tall side, I like to stay in shape without devoting my entire life to being in the gym. I am active, persistent, consistent and thoughtful. I look younger than my age, faster than weight lifters and stronger than runners. I don't scare easily, I have a penchant for being too verbose and like to paint my thoughts with words. Blue eyes, defined jawline, a pensive gaze, short blond hair and an imagination that I'd love to share.

Expect love letters, simple thoughts that are directed as periodic surprises, cute voice notes, sharing when I'm thinking about you which I hope will be always. I am into women who take their appearance seriously, in body and mind. Beauty is beyond the template but I am very attracted to a petite or lithe figure rather than an aesthetic type. Tattoos, blank skin, any colors of hair and the accompanying decorations or style of dress are of no preference, my attraction encompasses all.

Bring me your yapping, softness, sweetness and the moments when you feel needy, none of these are too much for me. Kind and gentle eyes, passionate thoughts, allow me to be the vessel for your venting time. Share your nerdisms, your delicate feelings and my time can be yours in return.

Please be either MST or PST as the time difference is paramount, we are cognizant of the time we can share and I'd prefer we align on when our windows for communication coincide. Bring me your intellect, your dampened emotions and let them run free. We deserve to enjoy ourselves, confide in one another and god forbid we have a little fun for once! I can switch code, adapt to your needs and provide a soft place for you to land rather than just acknowledge your turn of phrase.

If you've read this far and you're smiling on the outside or within, share with me what you enjoyed about this novel I've provided and tell me of a time your body, soul and mind felt truly alive. Let's see if we can awaken the woman you so dearly miss being seen as, I will use all I have to revive that which you have found buried and sunken. Let me make something special in your life.

Come here lurker, I am waiting for you.

Are you looking to embark on a full blown love affair? Are there parts of your life that leave you feeling empty after all the unrequited effort? I'm searching for my person in this manner where so many of us are after similar things, where I don't often haunt this space.

I'm a married dad, evoking the feelings and emotions that are unnoticed in myself and hoping to care for these parts of you in a way that no one else can or will. I am not here for a fling, a ghost party or a quick fix to the urges we all feel. I am here to embrace the familiar aspects of this loving feeling in another, to find the counterparts and hold them close.

As for the basics, I am slightly on the tall side, I like to stay in shape without devoting my entire life to being in the gym. I am active, persistent, consistent and thoughtful. I look younger than my age, faster than weight lifters and stronger than runners. I don't scare easily, I have a penchant for being too verbose and like to paint my thoughts with words. Blue eyes, defined jawline, a pensive gaze, short blond hair and an imagination that I'd love to share.

Expect love letters, simple thoughts that are directed as periodic surprises, cute voice notes, sharing when I'm thinking about you which I hope will be always. I am into women who take their appearance seriously, in body and mind. Beauty is beyond the template but I am very attracted to a petite or lithe figure rather than an aesthetic type. Tattoos, blank skin, any colors of hair and the accompanying decorations or style of dress are of no preference, my attraction encompasses all.

Bring me your yapping, softness, sweetness and the moments when you feel needy, none of these are too much for me. Kind and gentle eyes, passionate thoughts, allow me to be the vessel for your venting time. Share your nerdisms, your delicate feelings and my time can be yours in return.

Please be either MST or PST as the time difference is paramount, we are cognizant of the time we can share and I'd prefer we align on when our windows for communication coincide. Bring me your intellect, your dampened emotions and let them run free. We deserve to enjoy ourselves, confide in one another and god forbid we have a little fun for once! I can switch code, adapt to your needs and provide a soft place for you to land rather than just acknowledge your turn of phrase.

If you've read this far and you're smiling on the outside or within, share with me what you enjoyed about this novel I've provided and tell me of a time your body, soul and mind felt truly alive. Let's see if we can awaken the woman you so dearly miss being seen as, I will use all I have to revive that which you have found buried and sunken. Let me make something special in your life.

Come here lurker, I am waiting for you.

Are you looking to embark on a full blown love affair? Are there parts of your life that leave you feeling empty after all the unrequited effort? I'm searching for my person in this manner where so many of us are after similar things, where I don't often haunt this space.

I'm a married dad, evoking the feelings and emotions that are unnoticed in myself and hoping to care for these parts of you in a way that no one else can or will. I am not here for a fling, a ghost party or a quick fix to the urges we all feel. I am here to embrace the familiar aspects of this loving feeling in another, to find the counterparts and hold them close.

As for the basics, I am slightly on the tall side, I like to stay in shape without devoting my entire life to being in the gym. I am active, persistent, consistent and thoughtful. I look younger than my age, faster than weight lifters and stronger than runners. I don't scare easily, I have a penchant for being too verbose and like to paint my thoughts with words. Blue eyes, defined jawline, a pensive gaze, short blond hair and an imagination that I'd love to share.

Expect love letters, simple thoughts that are directed as periodic surprises, cute voice notes, sharing when I'm thinking about you which I hope will be always. I am into women who take their appearance seriously, in body and mind. Beauty is beyond the template but I am very attracted to a petite or lithe figure rather than an aesthetic type. Tattoos, blank skin, any colors of hair and the accompanying decorations or style of dress are of no preference, my attraction encompasses all.

Bring me your yapping, softness, sweetness and the moments when you feel needy, none of these are too much for me. Kind and gentle eyes, passionate thoughts, allow me to be the vessel for your venting time. Share your nerdisms, your delicate feelings and my time can be yours in return.

Please be either MST or PST as the time difference is paramount, we are cognizant of the time we can share and I'd prefer we align on when our windows for communication coincide. Bring me your intellect, your dampened emotions and let them run free. We deserve to enjoy ourselves, confide in one another and god forbid we have a little fun for once! I can switch code, adapt to your needs and provide a soft place for you to land rather than just acknowledge your turn of phrase.

If you've read this far and you're smiling on the outside or within, share with me what you enjoyed about this novel I've provided and tell me of a time your body, soul and mind felt truly alive. Let's see if we can awaken the woman you so dearly miss being seen as, I will use all I have to revive that which you have found buried and sunken. Let me make something special in your life.

Come here lurker, I am waiting for you.

Are you looking to embark on a full blown love affair? Are there parts of your life that leave you feeling empty after all the unrequited effort? I'm searching for my person in this manner where so many of us are after similar things, where I don't often haunt this space.

I'm a married dad, evoking the feelings and emotions that are unnoticed in myself and hoping to care for these parts of you in a way that no one else can or will. I am not here for a fling, a ghost party or a quick fix to the urges we all feel. I am here to embrace the familiar aspects of this loving feeling in another, to find the counterparts and hold them close.

As for the basics, I am slightly on the tall side, I like to stay in shape without devoting my entire life to being in the gym. I am active, persistent, consistent and thoughtful. I look younger than my age, faster than weight lifters and stronger than runners. I don't scare easily, I have a penchant for being too verbose and like to paint my thoughts with words. Blue eyes, defined jawline, a pensive gaze, short blond hair and an imagination that I'd love to share.

Expect love letters, simple thoughts that are directed as periodic surprises, cute voice notes, sharing when I'm thinking about you which I hope will be always. I am into women who take their appearance seriously, in body and mind. Beauty is beyond the template but I am very attracted to a petite or lithe figure rather than an aesthetic type. Tattoos, blank skin, any colors of hair and the accompanying decorations or style of dress are of no preference, my attraction encompasses all.

Bring me your yapping, softness, sweetness and the moments when you feel needy, none of these are too much for me. Kind and gentle eyes, passionate thoughts, allow me to be the vessel for your venting time. Share your nerdisms, your delicate feelings and my time can be yours in return.

Please be either MST or PST as the time difference is paramount, we are cognizant of the time we can share and I'd prefer we align on when our windows for communication coincide. Bring me your intellect, your dampened emotions and let them run free. We deserve to enjoy ourselves, confide in one another and god forbid we have a little fun for once! I can switch code, adapt to your needs and provide a soft place for you to land rather than just acknowledge your turn of phrase.

If you've read this far and you're smiling on the outside or within, share with me what you enjoyed about this novel I've provided and tell me of a time your body, soul and mind felt truly alive. Let's see if we can awaken the woman you so dearly miss being seen as, I will use all I have to revive that which you have found buried and sunken. Let me make something special in your life.

Come here lurker, I am waiting for you.

Looking to arrange head swap car play in the not too distant future, always wanted to try. 35 hung and clean

I've decided that this foray is worth another attempt and another step into the unknown. Married man here, searching the vast channels of the internet has not quite yielded what I've really wanted and I've decided that this sub is where I would like to focus my efforts. I've been at this for several months and have had the chance to build a connection a few times yet here I am, putting the truest version of myself forward, hoping this catches the eyes and attention of someone who I would like to get to know, come to care for and grow to cherish in a special way. Maybe you can relate.

Music nerd seeking someone who looks towards their playlists in search of a way to channel their feelings. Movie and film enjoyer who likes to challenge their mind and search for the hidden meaning in things. I want to meet someone who I can confide in, hold confidence for, a vessel for the secrets and the emotions that have long since been ignored or taken for granted. I search these posts for someone who sparks my interest, knowing full well that I have more to give than I have been valued for. I have been wasting away in a marriage that, on it's surface, is all well and good. Beyond the lack of passion, there is a lack of enjoyment in the company, in the shared moments and in the feeling of being celebrated rather than tolerated.

Before I tell my life story or ask that you tell me yours, I figure it wise to be brief even though it is against my nature. Here are some of the higher level things about me, to pique your interest. Broken grammar be damned, my words could be yours to enjoy, among my body and mind.

On the tall side, fit, active, intelligent and thoughtful. Blue eyes. Short blond hair and an infectious smile below a piercing gaze. I possess what I like to think is a way with words, how they are used is often where I fall short. I enjoy the outdoors in a way that isn't necessarily camouflage but to return to the roots, to nourish the soul and to enjoy the seldom quiet and peace. Music, food, literature, novels, science fiction, select anime and the often enjoyed cannabis all manifest themselves as rituals in my life. Passionate, devoted and understanding of your time all become things that I am grateful for. I have time to give, emotions to share and a true desire to be heard, understood and enjoyed. I prefer a lithe woman but looks are not the end all to be all. I'm varied in my interests in the opposite sex, don't be scared to shoot your shot.

I'm looking to embark on a journey of world building, a creation of this sacred space I may share with someone who feels as neglected and taken advantage of as I do. In return I offer a special kind of trust and an open hand paired with a solemn heart, yours to trample or to keep close.

Reach out to me if these words catch your fancy, I'm happy to share a picture at the outset. My current online AP is moving across the world and we don't interact in a way that feels fulfilling for either of us anymore, hence my continued search. I'm not looking for a rebound or a replacement, but for someone new and interesting.

You know where to find me, you know what to do.

It's late and what better time to write an OA post? We all have a love hate relationship with this searching. The anticipation and the ups and downs certainly make this space addicting. I haven't quite found my person yet and I'm as encouraged as ever to keep looking. I think we deserve to be a little particular here.

Just over six feet tall, they better not bury me standing up. Buzzcut, receding hairline but I wear it well still. I enjoy staying fit and active and my hair is the only way to accurately discern my age. I like films, cooking, an absolute freak for music, a slight taste for the finer things. I'm a bored, married dad in an otherwise serviceable marriage, not looking to change my situation or plan an exit with a potential AP. I do however want to plan dates and fantasize about them, communicate frequently and develop a close and potentially romantic relationship. Pocket boyfriend material.

Looking for you if you're 30-40, MST or PST, have some character to you, can and enjoy writing back and forth during the day and late into the night, are game for a picswap down the line, willing to devote some energy and enthusiasm to something new and not expect it to fall in your lap. This takes a little work and effort, that's what we all want right? Fit and attractive is a bonus, I don't have a strict type, you just know when you know! Let's burn the midnight oil together.

I don't know about you, but today feels like my lucky day. Today feels like the day we find each other like we are meant to. It's not about waking up on the right side of the bed, it's not about getting that early morning workout in and crushing the routine. You do that all the time. Today is different somehow, parts of your life that are cemented in place still leave a space where the energy has room to operate.

I'm married, father to one, stable at home and things have a way of becoming more monotonous by the day. DB, a lack of attention, affection, all the classic tropes that has brought me here. I've tried this before with some success but I wouldn't be typing this out if I didn't feel that my person is out there somewhere. I'm interested in a thousand things, I have a favorite everything and maybe you can be my new favorite person.

- Pocket boyfriend energy
- Fit, handsome and fun
- Equal parts outdoorsy and inside
- Equal parts white collar work, blue collar hobbies
- Will pick out your favorite ice cream, will eat some of it
- WFH so I'm mad available
- Night owl looking for a fellow late night person
- Take it slow, let the beat build a little bit
- Music nerd x1000 and hoping you are too
- Questionable morals, I'm here aren't I?
- Will send you long messages, quick replies, love letters if we click
- Yappers to the front of the line
- MST or PST for time alignment reasons, please.
- 420 welcome in the biggest way
- Be fit and cute, not looking for a model
- Be sweet, friendly, supportive and enthusiastic about this
- No fee for this type of subscription, I only want reciprocity

Not here to be anyone's therapist or looking to plan your exit. Not looking for love bombing for a week and the a ghost session. I brought the fucking bricks, let's build together. Let's be the reason we can't help but check for messages, let me make you smile when you read my next. Let me sweep you off your feet and catch you as you fall. Let's make you good days last longer and your bad days less of a burden. Confide in me, tell me what's on your mind, tell me what you dream about and what you sorely miss from your life. Let me try to augment your life and introduce some loving, warm, passionate and creative energy. Let's have some levity, some laughs and let's feel that emotional connection grow day by day.

Are you vibing with this? Are you ready to leave this place and forget the last time you read or posted an ad? Take my hand and let's GTFOH.

Maybe today is the day. Do you feel lucky? Tell me.
:thx for reading:

I'm starting to observe that this environment relies so heavily on the right timing. Among the noise and the cacophony and the sheer volume of posts, timing relies on the right person seeing this at precisely the right time.

I'm on the taller side, married, my hair is blond, my eyes are blue and my heart is still pounding in my chest. The workouts, the body focus, the mentality of parenthood, the growing orbit between spouses and absolutely the deafening silence when the house becomes quiet all contribute to this feeling that something is missing. Life becomes a routine and some people thrive in this. The more I grow and learn, the more I understand how deeply I pine to feel more alive. In my youth, there was no speed to fast, no thrill too daring and no rule I wouldn't bend. I've reclaimed so much in terms of my health and my bodily edge but the mind still races for excitement, it still does laps trying to find something that left a long time ago.

I'm searching for someone very specific. A woman who truly understands how to treat a man. Not just any man, but one whose insides roil like a furnace. A brooding, solemn, thoughtful, attentive, creative and complicated man. I value sweetness, true depth, kind words, a calming peace, a secret need for attention, affection and interest. I want you to be complex, hard to understand, difficult to relate to and above all, a wild and yearning soul. Adventurous but not reckless, smart but not condescending, beautiful but far from perfect, scarred but not defeated.

Be 30-40, be willing to talk about what bothers you as much as what makes you smile. Be available and possess the capacity to release the emotions, here, with me. Be wise and gentle, weaponize the cadence of your words and the beauty in your voice against me, let me tame it. There is a feeling that I'm chasing and I don't want a carrot on a stick, I want to see another person running in the same direction, chasing the same feeling. I love music nerds, bookworms, movie buffs, foodies, yappers and above all, a woman who is confident in herself and ready to look beyond what lies in front of you. I love women who can stare at the sunset and say nothing but feel everything. Poets, writers, singers, painters, hikers and swimmers, techies, cowgirls, business leaders, moms, deep thinkers, bold souls all get your asses to the front of the line. Bring me the fire, bring all of you and most importantly bring the parts of you that you wish to revive. Let's go there.

If you're still reading this, you might be the one I'm looking for.
Tell me something you fear and tell me something you hope to find.
:waves:

Happily drafting a post to engage with others here. The premise behind this sub is something I am delighted to see.

As the title states I am 36, Married, have one child and looking for the real thing. That probably means something different to each of us so I'll elaborate. As with most, my marriage is calm and steady albeit boring and monotonous. Plenty of people here can surely relate. I'm on the tall side, slightly over 6 feet tall, blue eyes and short, receding blond hair (we're working on it). I like to exercise and enjoy outdoor activities to stay in shape, I like to think I'm handsome, funny and possess a quality of the words I choose and have a distinct way with them. I work from home so I have plenty of time to devote to an online relationship. I am very interested in voice notes as a woman's voice is highly attractive to me, also interested in trading photos to establish physical attraction before getting too far down the road. Huge music nerd and will enjoy sharing with this special someone.

I am looking for reciprocal energy and interest, availability and desire. Hopefully you are a hopeless romantic like I am, enjoy sharing sweet thoughts and want to slowly build something with lasting power. Yappers to the front of the line please! I am thoughtful and attentive and I am looking for someone similar. I am not interested in a dom/sub dynamic. I am already daddy at home and am not looking to play that role. I will however, be leaning heavily into other kinks you might have once/if we get that far where we want to be intimate. Open to local but would like to start online either way. I am attracted to tall women, short women, women of any race or background. Strong preference for women on the thinner side but with the right energy and enthusiasm/thoughtfulness, all body types are welcome to come say hi.

Have substance, bring some stories, let's share and build together.

I know my person is out there. May our hands find each other here, feeling our way through the dark.
:waves:

The work week has started and already my mind is wandering. I'm here to advertise my interest in making a special new friend, perhaps it is your lucky day. I'm over 6 feet tall if that matters to you. It's okay to be a little shallow here. I work out and exercise by doing the activities and sports that I enjoy. Widows peak, hello I'm pushing 40, that is probably the only sign I show of my age. I'm here for the same obvious reasons that you are, perhaps for others also. Let's kick it off shall we?

- Married, Dad, DB, handsome and still trying, romantic and slightly unhinged.
- Questionable morals, its what's on the inside that counts!
- Blond and blue eyed white man, not your average gringo, some of us have soul.
- Will flirt back, I don't play games. Yappers to the front of the line.
- Highly open to voice notes, calls and sending dumb selfies. A bit of a show off. Sue me.
- Here to tease you about silly things not judge you for your secret wants and desires.
- Not particularly interested in a D/S dynamic. Will play into your kinks outside of that. Heavily.
- Not shy, probably will overshare and unabashedly not ashamed or embarrassed.
- Be fit and attractive, willing to align on attraction via pics relatively early.
- Will laugh at your jokes, you won't know if I'm faking it. Try me. Wants to hear your stories.
- MST or PST please, I'm already alone most nights, looking to change that.
- Pints of ice cream first, keep it in your pants lady. Patience is key.
- Music nerds, 420 and outdoorsy ladies to the absolute front please.
- Reassurance for overthinkers, daily if required. Subscription to these feels is free.
- Can't stress this enough, be exciting. I'm not here for boring chats or to plan the exit from your marriage. I'm not leaving mine and neither should you, if you love bomb me for three days and then ghost me, you're a dummy.
- Please be a Mom who wants a sexy Dilf.

When the week is long, the days are tough and all you want now that the house is quiet is to reach into the airwaves and text your special secret man, you message him and before you know it you hear the only two words that matter in that moment. "I'm here."

What are you waiting for lurker? Come say hi.

The time has come to adjust my methods. I've been on this searching journey for a short time and I've not quite found what I'm looking for. I work in a corporate, white collar setting with plenty of time to offer to the right person. I'm selective and somewhat picky, particular with my passions and preferences in life, not only concerning romantic partners. I make friends very easily and am easy on the eyes. Just over 6ft tall, short hair and the figure of an athlete slightly exiting their prime. I have written novels in these posts before and now am deciding to leave more to the imagination. I believe in having range when it comes to style, music, interests and hobbies and am something of a renaissance man. Left leaning, some more centrist politics in there as well.

I'm attracted to many kinds of women but I am looking more intently for a woman who likes a witty dialogue, has a teasing energy at first but is willing to yap about more intellectual topics, has hobbies, enjoys sharing music and has kids. I'm more physically attracted to petite or tall and thin women. I'm not particularly firm on this, more of a preference than a hardline requirement. Availability and attraction are vital but there has to be more than the shallow physical attraction in order to form the kind of bond I'm aiming for. I'm looking for exclusivity, possibly long term and a lasting connection where we establish safe and secure communication and eventually plan to meet. I'm not looking for an exit strategy or purely a sexting partner. 30-40 is preferred and I'm not looking for a D/S dynamic but I am happy to help fulfill more vanilla aspects of the intimate. Bonus if you like a man in a suit and also who knows how to saddle a horse. Bonus if you like to be on the mountain. Bonus if you are neuro divergent.

Come on in lurker, come say hi!