u/internalsauce

Looking for that missing piece, not a central piece by any means, more like a cherry on top.

Not looking to change anyone's situation. I am a husband and a father first and foremost, and that will always be my priority. I will gladly respect anyone else's personal life and time as well.

I work from home and I am pretty flexible during work hours, in particular in the mornings. While my job is not the most important thing to me, it has allowed me to see the world, in particular the continent called America, and helping some people out from time to time. It has also given my the flexibility to search for someone with whom to share my need for...

Sex. After years of guilt, blaming (self and partner), conversations and therapy, I have finally reached a good spot with my partner in that area, so really nothing to complain about. But, I have also accepted that I have a higher amount of sexual desire in me, hence this search. I have this intuition that somewhere on this continent there's a woman around my age, a mom and a professional, who is also happy with her life, but is looking to share an online sexual connection with someone similar, based on respect, consistency and fun. Sex without connection is boring, so I am down to chat about tv series, music, climate change and the world.

Me: I try to take good care of my mind and body, I am 6ft tall ~or 1.80~, I work out reasonably and regularly and it shows (strong arms and broad shoulders). No six pack though, I am after all a proud 38 year old dad. If all of this resonates with you, let's chat!

Vamos a probar algo nuevo. Estoy buscando ese complemento al cotidiano, que se sienta como la pieza que falta. No es una pieza esencial, todo funciona bastante bien, pero sería profundamente agradable y satisfactorio contar con ella.

Como ya se ha dicho mil veces por aquí, no busco cambiar la situación de nadie, y así como es mi prioridad mi vida personal (esposo y padre antes que todo), también quiero respetar completamente la privacidad y vida personal de otros.

Trabajo desde casa y tengo bastante flexibilidad durante el día laboral, en particular en las mañanas. Si bien mi trabajo no es lo más importante para mí, me ha permitido conocer el mundo, en particular el continente americano, y de vez en cuando sentir que estoy usando al sistema para restituir el bienestar de personas que en general no la pasan muy bien por generaciones. Fuera de eso, me ofrece la flexbilidad de lanzarme en esta búsqueda de alguien con quien compartir mi necesidad de....

Sexo. Ya más allá de culpas y conversaciones y terapias, he encontrado un buen lugar con mi pareja y pues no me quejo. Al contrario. Pero también acepto ya en paz que mi cuerpo y mente necesitan más sexo en el cotidiano. Sin penas, culpas ni presiones. Entonces me lanzo en esta búsqueda. Tengo la intuición de que existe en este continente una mujer más o menos de mi edad, con hijxs, profesional, cuya vida se sienta globalmente satisfactoria y agradable, pero que, después de años trabajo interno, malestar intermitente, malentendidos, y finalmente equilibrio y aceptación, también sabe que sería muy placentero compartir una conexión virtual, sexual, sostenida, divertida y respetuosa con una persona similar. En cualquier plano, el sexo sin conexión es bastante aburrido, así que será un placer también conversar de series, música, cambio climático o el panorama mundial.

Por mi parte, me cuidado bastante en cuerpo y mente, mido 1.80 ~o 6ft~ según tu sistema métrico favorito, hago ejercicio sana y sostenidamente, y se nota. No tengo cuadritos, soy después de todo un padre de familia de 38 años, pero me siento muy bien con mi cuerpo. Si te sientes reflejada, curiosa, con ganas de explorar, charlemos!

Vamos a probar algo nuevo. Estoy buscando ese complemento al cotidiano, que se sienta como la pieza que falta. No es una pieza esencial, todo funciona bastante bien, pero sería profundamente agradable y satisfactorio contar con ella.

Como ya se ha dicho mil veces por aquí, no busco cambiar la situación de nadie, y así como es mi prioridad mi vida personal (esposo y padre antes que todo), también quiero respetar completamente la privacidad y vida personal de otros.

Trabajo desde casa y tengo bastante flexibilidad durante el día laboral, en particular en las mañanas. Si bien mi trabajo no es lo más importante para mí, me ha permitido conocer el mundo, en particular el continente americano, y de vez en cuando sentir que estoy usando al sistema para restituir el bienestar de personas que en general no la pasan muy bien por generaciones. Fuera de eso, me ofrece la flexbilidad de lanzarme en esta búsqueda de alguien con quien compartir mi necesidad de....

Sexo. Ya más allá de culpas y conversaciones y terapias, he encontrado un buen lugar con mi pareja y pues no me quejo. Al contrario. Pero también acepto ya en paz que mi cuerpo y mente necesitan más sexo en el cotidiano. Sin penas, culpas ni presiones. Entonces me lanzo en esta búsqueda. Tengo la intuición de que existe en este continente una mujer más o menos de mi edad, con hijxs, profesional, cuya vida se sienta globalmente satisfactoria y agradable, pero que, después de años trabajo interno, malestar intermitente, malentendidos, y finalmente equilibrio y aceptación, también sabe que sería muy placentero compartir una conexión virtual, sexual, sostenida, divertida y respetuosa con una persona similar. En cualquier plano, el sexo sin conexión es bastante aburrido, así que será un placer también conversar de series, música, cambio climático o el panorama mundial.

Por mi parte, me cuidado bastante en cuerpo y mente, mido 1.80 o 6ft según tu sistema métrico favorito, hago ejercicio sana y sostenidamente, y se nota. No tengo cuadritos, soy después de todo un padre de familia de 38 años, pero me siento muy bien con mi cuerpo. Si te sientes reflejada, curiosa, con ganas de explorar, charlemos!

We all have them ~wants, needs, kinks, ways to get them, ways to top-off~, and in the end it's a numbers game: it's only a matter of time before we find that other person with whom most of those are a match, or at least compatible. Not my first rodeo on here. I have met some very nice, interesting and curious people, but coming back here after a healthy pause, I am (pleasantly?) surprised at the increase in transparency and naming of how often ghosting happens on here. And not just plain old ghosting after a couple of exchanges, but full-on disappearing acts after weeks of meaningful and fun conversation. Maybe it's people discovering their new found vulnerability (and how uncomfortable it actually makes them) with a stranger, good old guilt, or just life happening. In any case, responsibility lies on both sides, I know I have probably been too eager, not transparent enough, or not precise and explicit enough regarding my wants and needs.

This is the part that looks pretty much the same in a lot of posts on here: not looking to change anyone's situation, wife and kids are my priority. Dead bedroom, bedroom in and out of coma, etc. In the end, I've realized this is beyond that last part. So not looking to get into spouse bashing or a competition around whose situation is worse. Overall, I am in a very good place, and hopefully you are too, and we can find each other in this next part: this is about knowing and accepting myself, and I know that I would just love to have something sustainable, transparent, consistent and easy with someone with very similar views and situation.

That "something" that I want is certainly centered on sex. I am a very sexual, pleasure seeking person. Nothing out of the ordinary, twisted or pathological (I think?). I have a couple of good old kinks, but they are not essential, nor do they take the focus away from the freedom and intensity of just watching and being watched. What I am looking for is a wife, a mom, a professional, around my age, for whom all of the above resonates, and wants/needs the same thing: fun and intense online sex. And yes, while having it happen a lot, with different degrees of freedom (lots of time and space to take our time and make it super fun, or quickies, or not being able to talk, or just watching, or just chatting, etc.) would be great, I also know that sex is only fun when there's connection, so definitely open to chatting about other fun things as well (the world, life, meal prepping, music, etc.).

And to close, a little about me: I am 6ft tall, brown skin, take good care of myself and have a pretty good body: noticeable muscles, broad shoulders and strong arms, just overall nice shapes for a 38 year old dad. I don't have a six pack and don't care about having one, and I would just love to find a confident natural looking woman who also loves herself and her body, and wants/needs to have consistent online fun. Let's chat!

We all have them ~wants, needs, kinks, ways to get them, ways to top-off~, and in the end it's a numbers game: it's only a matter of time before we find that other person with whom most of those are a match, or at least compatible. Not my first rodeo on here. I have met some very nice, interesting and curious people, but coming back here after a healthy pause, I am (pleasantly?) surprised at the increase in transparency and naming of how often ghosting happens on here. And not just plain old ghosting after a couple of exchanges, but full-on disappearing acts after weeks of meaningful and fun conversation. Maybe it's people discovering their new found vulnerability (and how uncomfortable it actually makes them) with a stranger, good old guilt, or just life happening. In any case, responsibility lies on both sides, I know I have probably been too eager, not transparent enough, or not precise and explicit enough regarding my wants and needs.

This is the part that looks pretty much the same in a lot of posts on here: not looking to change anyone's situation, wife and kids are my priority. Dead bedroom, bedroom in and out of coma, etc. In the end, I've realized this is beyond that last part. So not looking to get into spouse bashing or a competition around whose situation is worse. Overall, I am in a very good place, and hopefully you are too, and we can find each other in this next part: this is about knowing and accepting myself, and I know that I would just love to have something sustainable, transparent, consistent and easy with someone with very similar views and situation.

That "something" that I want is certainly centered on sex. I am a very sexual, pleasure seeking person. Nothing out of the ordinary, twisted or pathological (I think?). I have a couple of good old kinks, but they are not essential, nor do they take the focus away from the freedom and intensity of just watching and being watched. What I am looking for is a wife, a mom, a professional, around my age, for whom all of the above resonates, and wants/needs the same thing: fun and intense online sex. And yes, while having it happen a lot, with different degrees of freedom (lots of time and space to take our time and make it super fun, or quickies, or not being able to talk, or just watching, or just chatting, etc.) would be great, I also know that sex is only fun when there's connection, so definitely open to chatting about other fun things as well (the world, life, meal prepping, music, etc.).

And to close, a little about me: I am 6ft tall, brown skin, take good care of myself and have a pretty good body: noticeable muscles, broad shoulders and strong arms, just overall nice shapes for a 38 year old dad. I don't have a six pack and don't care about having one, and I would just love to find a confident natural looking woman who also loves herself and her body, and wants/needs to have consistent online fun. Let's chat!

We all have them ~wants, needs, kinks, ways to get them, ways to top-off~, and in the end it's a numbers game: it's only a matter of time before we find that other person with whom most of those are a match, or at least compatible. Not my first rodeo on here. I have met some very nice, interesting and curious people, but coming back here after a healthy pause, I am (pleasantly?) surprised at the increase in transparency and naming of how often ghosting happens on here. And not just plain old ghosting after a couple of exchanges, but full-on disappearing acts after weeks of meaningful and fun conversation. Maybe it's people discovering their new found vulnerability (and how uncomfortable it actually makes them) with a stranger, good old guilt, or just life happening. In any case, responsibility lies on both sides, I know I have probably been too eager, not transparent enough, or not precise and explicit enough regarding my wants and needs.

This is the part that looks pretty much the same in a lot of posts on here: not looking to change anyone's situation, wife and kids are my priority. Dead bedroom, bedroom in and out of coma, etc. In the end, I've realized this is beyond that last part. So not looking to get into spouse bashing or a competition around whose situation is worse. Overall, I am in a very good place, and hopefully you are too, and we can find each other in this next part: this is about knowing and accepting myself, and I know that I would just love to have something sustainable, transparent, consistent and easy with someone with very similar views and situation.

That "something" that I want is certainly centered on sex. I am a very sexual, pleasure seeking person. Nothing out of the ordinary, twisted or pathological (I think?). I have a couple of good old kinks, but they are not essential, nor do they take the focus away from the freedom and intensity of just watching and being watched. What I am looking for is a wife, a mom, a professional, around my age, for whom all of the above resonates, and wants/needs the same thing: fun and intense online sex. And yes, while having it happen a lot, with different degrees of freedom (lots of time and space to take our time and make it super fun, or quickies, or not being able to talk, or just watching, or just chatting, etc.) would be great, I also know that sex is only fun when there's connection, so definitely open to chatting about other fun things as well (the world, life, meal prepping, music, etc.).

And to close, a little about me: I am 6ft tall, brown skin, take good care of myself and have a pretty good body: noticeable muscles, broad shoulders and strong arms, just overall nice shapes for a 38 year old dad. I don't have a six pack and don't care about having one, and I would just love to find a confident natural looking woman who also loves herself and her body, and wants/needs to have consistent online fun. Let's chat!