u/midwestABDL

[M4A] Looking to talk about giving up control

I’m naturally submissive as well as being a diaper lover and sometimes little.

I love to think about what it would look like to completely hand over the reins of my life to someone else. Have someone control me completely. Today I want to talk about, not roleplay, this idea. If we click in talking about it I’m open to roleplay, but I don’t want to start there.

Besides diapers and kinky stuff. My ideal situation would have them wanting what is best for my health. Eating healthy, not drinking alcohol, working out, less time on social media, etc.

How deep do you think this could go?

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u/midwestABDL — 3 days ago

32[M4A] Diaper, Virgin Fantasy

Although I’m not a virgin I wish I was. I’m a mostly diaper lover, submissive, who will regress sometimes. I have this wholesome fantasy of being in a relationship but I’m a diaper wearing virgin and my gf thinks that’s cute and doesn’t want it to change.

The most we’d do is her giving me handjobs during diaper changes and me eating her out, but PiV or me receiving blowjobs is strictly off limits.

If you’d like to chat about this fantasy please include your age and gender in your first message. I’m not looking to roleplay, I just want to talk about what this might look like.

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u/midwestABDL — 3 days ago

32[M4A] Life and times of a diaper cuck

I have abdl and when I told my wife about it she agreed to partake but under the condition that she would be able to sleep with other men. I agreed and we haven’t looked back. We’ve been married three years and she has had her current lover 6 months. Honestly not having to worry about sex is a relief to me. I’m looking to talk with and hopefully be humiliated by people for my lifestyle. I’ll answer any questions no matter how embarrassing. The only thing I’ll say is we aren’t looking for a n online bull and I’m not sharing pics of her.

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u/midwestABDL — 4 days ago

32[M4A] I want to be treated like a diapered adolescent

I want to be talked to and treated like a diapered adolescent so bad. I mean in every aspect of my real life if possible, at least that’s my fantasy. Referring to my work as school, being helpfully watched over by someone more mature. Being called condescending nicknames like kiddo, big guy, sport, champ, etc.

Basically just have someone to treat me like their diaper wearing child.

If you want to talk about this fantasy then feel free to dm.

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u/midwestABDL — 5 days ago

32[M4A] Feminization, diapers, and control

I’m a super submissive little guy who dreams about being feminized including up to forced transitioning. I also wear diapers 24/7, as well as regress often and I wear fem clothes whenever I’m home.

I’d like to talk about the power dynamic of giving up control of my life and being pushed deeper into my kinks. To be clear I’m NOT looking to actually do this. I just want to talk about it. I also don’t send pics. If you want to talk about what going down a forced feminization, ABDL, path might look like please reach out.

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u/midwestABDL — 6 days ago

32[M4A] Feminization, diapers, and control

I’m a super submissive little guy who dreams about being feminized including up to forced transitioning. I also wear diapers 24/7, as well as regress often and I wear fem clothes whenever I’m home.

I’d like to talk about the power dynamic of giving up control of my life and being pushed deeper into my kinks. To be clear I’m NOT looking to actually do this. I just want to talk about it. I also don’t send pics. If you want to talk about what going down a forced feminization, ABDL, path might look like please reach out.

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u/midwestABDL — 7 days ago

32[M4A] Feminization, diapers, and control

I’m a super submissive little guy who dreams about being feminized including up to forced transitioning. I also wear diapers 24/7, as well as regress often and I wear fem clothes whenever I’m home.

I’d like to talk about the power dynamic of giving up control of my life and being pushed deeper into my kinks. To be clear I’m NOT looking to actually do this. I just want to talk about it. I also don’t send pics. If you want to talk about what going down a forced feminization, ABDL, path might look like please reach out.

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u/midwestABDL — 8 days ago

32[M4A] Feminization, diapers, and control

I’m a super submissive little guy who dreams about being feminized including up to forced transitioning. I also wear diapers 24/7, as well as regress often and I wear fem clothes whenever I’m home.

I’d like to talk about the power dynamic of giving up control of my life and being pushed deeper into my kinks. To be clear I’m NOT looking to actually do this. I just want to talk about it. I also don’t send pics. If you want to talk about what going down a forced feminization, ABDL, path might look like please reach out.

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u/midwestABDL — 9 days ago

[M4A] Looking to talk about giving up control

I’m naturally submissive as well as being a diaper lover and sometimes little.

I love to think about what it would look like to completely hand over the reins of my life to someone else. Have someone control me completely. Today I want to talk about, not roleplay, this idea. If we click in talking about it I’m open to roleplay, but I don’t want to start there.

Besides diapers and kinky stuff. My ideal situation would have them wanting what is best for my health. Eating healthy, not drinking alcohol, working out, less time on social media, etc.

How deep do you think this could go?

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u/midwestABDL — 9 days ago

32[M4A] How ABDL and cucking go hand in hand

I’m a submissive, little who is really interested in being cucked. Today I want to talk with people who also enjoy blending these two kinks about what a relationship might look like between an age regressor and a hotwife.

I’m not looking to rp and I’m not looking to actually be cucked. I just want to discuss the fantasy.

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u/midwestABDL — 9 days ago

32[M4A] Chat with a wannabe cuck who wears diapers

You read that right. I enjoy the feeling of wearing and peeing in diapers. I actually like it more than regular underwear. So much so that I’ve worn them 24/7 for the past 5 years and my wearing diapers has turned from a fun kink to a need.

I know this makes me not super appealing sexually and that’s why I’d be totally understanding if my would be partner, I’m single, denied me sex and cucked me. I’d rather them do that honestly. I think it’d be better for everyone.

Today I’m looking to chat about this and my other kinks. How it affects my life. My fantasies. Answer any questions you might have. And ohh Yeahh, ideally have you humiliate me for it while we chat.

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u/midwestABDL — 9 days ago

32[M4A] Chat with someone who wears diapers for fun

You read that right. I enjoy the feeling of wearing and peeing in diapers. I actually like it more than regular underwear. So much so that I’ve worn them 24/7 for the past 5 years and my wearing diapers has turned from a fun kink to a need.

Today I’m looking to chat about this and my other kinks. How it affects my life. My fantasies. Answer any questions you might have. And ohh Yeahh, ideally have you humiliate me for it while we chat.

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u/midwestABDL — 10 days ago

32[M4A] I want to be treated like a diapered adolescent

I want to be talked to and treated like a diapered adolescent so bad. I mean in every aspect of my real life if possible, at least that’s my fantasy. Referring to my work as school, being helpfully watched over by someone more mature. Being called condescending nicknames like kiddo, big guy, sport, champ, etc.

Basically just have someone to treat me like their diaper wearing child.

If you want to talk about this fantasy then feel free to dm.

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u/midwestABDL — 10 days ago

32[M4A] Diaper, Virgin Fantasy

Although I’m not a virgin I wish I was. I’m a mostly diaper lover, submissive, who will regress sometimes. I have this wholesome fantasy of being in a relationship but I’m a diaper wearing virgin and my gf thinks that’s cute and doesn’t want it to change.

The most we’d do is her giving me handjobs during diaper changes and me eating her out, but PiV or me receiving blowjobs is strictly off limits.

If you’d like to chat about this fantasy please include your age and gender in your first message. I’m not looking to roleplay, I just want to talk about what this might look like.

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u/midwestABDL — 11 days ago

32 [M4F] #Online looking for a unique gentle dom

I’m a 32 years old, bisexual, kinda gender confused, male and very kinky. I would describe my submissiveness as cuddly and obedient. That being said I also can’t actively do many kink related things in real life because I suffered a spinal cord injury 4 years ago. So I’m looking for a dominant woman around my age who is understanding of that situation. I’m not opposed to sending pictures and videos but we definitely have to build a level of trust first. However I do love sending and receiving audio messages. I also don’t tribute or P2P at all.

I’m looking for a domme who is not only interested in the usual power exchange and who loves humiliating beta simps like me. Lately I’ve been using the Obedience App to structure my life, I’d really like to find someone who would take the domme role on that for me. Im interested in building a genuine connection. Where some of our rules will revolve around better my life, like: drinking enough water, exercising, reading regularly, minimizing social media, etc.

As for what I’m looking for. Ideally this would be online and we would talk about both sfw and nsfw topics but I would definitely want to include you humiliating me for various things, me simping for you and potentially you virtually cucking me as these are some of my biggest kinks. I see this as something where we are almost like friends, you can come and vent to me about anything and I’ll listen and respond. As well I’m very interested in the idea of you imposing rules on me. Like I said I’m really interested in exploring the obedience app on my phone and it’d be great if you monitored me as a domme there. Because of my situation this may have to take a little extra thought, but I am willing to put in the work if you are. I’d also be interested in doing tasks online for you, like writing lines, making certain post embarrassing myself or sending you pictures of kink related things I enjoy and would want, that I find online. Lastly I’m a complete open book about myself and love answering questions, especially embarrassing ones.

In order of what I’m sexually into the list goes: diapers/ ABDL, humiliation, femdom, chastity, pegging, cucking, edging, bondage, feminization, outfit control, and probably more. I do not like exposure or findom. Please start your message with your age and “Hi puppy” so I know you’re legit and read everything.

I know diapers are not a common kink but it is my number one thing and nonnegotiable if we are going to chat. Although I’m into ABDL I don’t actively wear or do things in little space. Besides all that I’m pretty shy and nerdy but I love pleasing and following rules. I’m definitely not the bratty type.

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u/midwestABDL — 12 days ago

32[M4A] Diaper, Virgin Fantasy

Although I’m not a virgin I wish I was. I’m a mostly diaper lover, submissive, who will regress sometimes. I have this wholesome fantasy of being in a relationship but I’m a diaper wearing virgin and my gf thinks that’s cute and doesn’t want it to change.

The most we’d do is her giving me handjobs during diaper changes and me eating her out, but PiV or me receiving blowjobs is strictly off limits.

If you’d like to chat about this fantasy please include your age and gender in your first message. I’m not looking to roleplay, I just want to talk about what this might look like.

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u/midwestABDL — 12 days ago

32[M4A] I want to be treated like a diapered adolescent

I want to be virtually talked to and treated like a diapered adolescent today. I mean in every aspect of my real life if possible. Referring to my work as school, being helpfully watched over by someone more mature. Being called condescending nicknames like kiddo, big guy, sport, champ, etc.

Basically just have someone to treat me like their diaper wearing child. While we chat about real life and anything else. You can even impose rules if you’d like.

If you want to talk about this fantasy then message me including your age and gender. And just know I don’t send pics.

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u/midwestABDL — 14 days ago

[M4A] Hypothetical ABDL Polycule

I’m looking to talk with interested people in what an Abdl polycule might look like? Would everyone be padded? Would it be a mix of cg’s and little’s. There are a lot of possibilities. I’m a little myself, but I’m open to chat with anyone. Would the little work or take care of the house? Would the little be full time or would they get adult time too?

My two favorite dynamics that I’d like to talk About are:

  1. A throuple with a dom, me as a little, and a switch.
  2. A four person relationship with a mommy and daddy. Me as a little and then a female little as well. With this dynamic is littles would share a nursery and crib.

Please include your initial thoughts as well as age and gender in your first message. To be clear I’m not looking to roleplay, I more want to chat about the fantasy and maybe world build.

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u/midwestABDL — 15 days ago

32[M4A] I want to be treated like a diapered adolescent

I want to be virtually talked to and treated like a diapered adolescent today. I mean in every aspect of my real life if possible. Referring to my work as school, being helpfully watched over by someone more mature. Being called condescending nicknames like kiddo, big guy, sport, champ, etc.

Basically just have someone to treat me like their diaper wearing child. While we chat about real life and anything else. You can even impose rules if you’d like.

If you want to talk about this fantasy then message me including your age and gender. And just know I don’t send pics.

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u/midwestABDL — 15 days ago

Although I’m not a virgin I wish I was. I’m a mostly diaper lover, submissive, who will regress sometimes. I have this wholesome fantasy of being in a relationship but I’m a diaper wearing virgin and my gf thinks that’s cute and doesn’t want it to change.

The most we’d do is her giving me handjobs during diaper changes and me eating her out, but PiV or me receiving blowjobs is strictly off limits.

If you’d like to chat about this fantasy please include your age and gender in your first message.

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u/midwestABDL — 16 days ago