u/msgoddessjess

My husband asked me if I think he is a cuckold. I think that he is. But he made some valid points and now we are both unsure.

What is a cuckold?

- My husband loves watching me with other men.

- He prefers to watch me, rather than have sex with me.

- I have put a chastity on him, but it's not 24/7.

- He does NOT like humiliation.

- My husband is still more dominant than I am.

Now me. Am I a hotwife?

- I have had sex with other men while my husband watches.

- I have not been on a date with a man without my husband present.

- I am submissive.

- I like showing off/being watched.

I thought we are a hotwife/cuckold couple, but possibly a vixen/stag?

My husband is going on a guy's trip over memorial day weekend. I have something special planned for him, I am getting some boudoir photos taken of me. I won't see any of the photos for a couple weeks, but I was thinking about sending him something spicy. A man on Reddit I have been chatting with for a while now, actually wants to fly up and meet me. He said he would love for us to take photos together and send them to my husband. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not? Would this be a good surprise or would he be upset not knowing before hand?

My husband is going on a guy's trip over memorial day weekend. I have something special planned for him, I am getting some boudoir photos taken of me. I won't see any of the photos for a couple weeks, but I was thinking about sending him something spicy. A man on Reddit I have been chatting with for a while now, actually wants to fly up and meet me. He said he would love for us to take photos together and send them to my husband. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not? Would this be a good surprise or would he be upset not knowing before hand?