Unconventional suggestions? Never orgasmed lol. Help
I’m in my mid 20s and have never been able to do this. Like at all. I’ve been able to squirt and I’m guessing I’ve probably gotten close to it at some point or another, but the whole “finishing” bit seems to be beyond my capability. My c*nt just doesn’t want to participate. I know it’s likely partially a psychological thing, as I do have trauma surrounding sex in general, however, even with partners that I’ve found the absolute most safety and trust with, and can squirt with ( this is something that is extremely hard for me to do. I’ve it maybe four times ever ), there seems to be a wall that I’m hitting both physically and / or mentally that won’t let me cords that finish line. I’ve tried all kinds of stuff, both by myself and with partners, and haven’t found a way to get there. Magic wands, other vibrators, butt stuff, oral, etc etc etc. you name it, I may have tried it. Anyways, help? 😅 I think double penetration is probably the most pleasure I’ve gotten so far, with a hitachi chillin at full speed, but I’m still hitting that wall
Further context: I do much better with a partner, so solo suggestions probably won’t help unfortunately. While not entirely ruled out, I don’t think this is a physical issue. I feel very comfortable and aroused with the person I’m currently with and ( to my knowledge ) gotten close fairly often, I just don’t know how to get over the edge so to speak