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As the title says, slept with it on for the first time last night. Honestly expected it to maybe be a little worse? I woke up a few times but overall wasn’t all that bad. The fitting of my cage definitely makes it worse, I have room at the end of it when flaccid so it lets me grow a little more than it should which causes some pinch marks due to the cage I have.

Looking forward to getting a more fitting cage and sleeping with it regularly in the future!

As the title says, slept with it on for the first time last night. Honestly expected it to maybe be a little worse? I woke up a few times but overall wasn’t all that bad. The fitting of my cage definitely makes it worse, I have room at the end of it when flaccid so it lets me grow a little more than it should which causes some pinch marks due to the cage I have.

Looking forward to getting a more fitting cage and sleeping with it regularly in the future!

Challenging myself to wear my cage all night for the first time ever tonight. Wish me luck!

I’ll start by saying I do plan on getting a better, more custom fitted cage very soon. I’m thinking Cherry Keeper?

In the mean time, this “put a ring on it” from LockTheCock will have to do. It’s metal, clunky, heavy, wants to pull away from my body. It was leaving me uncomfortable and aching more than I would like. Got a shoelace and wrapped it around and bam! Works like a charm (albeit not easy to tie a not behind the back).

But wow does it make a world of difference and feel so so so much better. Everything feels secure against my body, my cock and balls have gotten to relax a bit. And I’ve actually gotten to really feel what it’s like to get hard with nowhere to go! Since before it would just push away, now it just swells up and is all so frustrating and awesome.

By far my best experience so far with chastity and has confirmed my ever growing feelings that I really want this to be a regular, normal thing for me and my wife.

Going to attempt my first ever night locked up tonight! Wish me luck.

First time getting my cage back on for a while. I don’t have some fancy nice cage with perfect fit (not yet at least, I plan to very soon).

Anyways I got it on and after jamming it home and trying to forget about it for a bit, I’m trying to make sure everything’s all fine down there.

I’m having a little bit of an aching feeling, but my balls don’t seem to be purple or anything. I was able to pee fine (sitting, of course). The ring is sliding down some, which I know is an issue but I just can’t get a smaller ring to fit for some reason?

Is the aching fine, probably just from the weight of this metal cage pulling down? Or is it my body aching because it knows this isn’t normal and I’ve basically been half clubbed since? Or is this a serious issue?

Thanks.

As a (soon to be) cuck, do you find it’s often easy to get the wife to start following your orders in regards to what she does/says to the cuck?

My wife is about as vanilla as it gets. We have some good role play but it definitely feels like it’s a little awkward for her at times to say certain things.

So with that being said, after you are able to be dominant with her do you see switches flip in those kind of wives? In no way can I see my wife telling me sorry no sex because Bull said so. Or for her to want to kiss me after someone cums in her mouth. But I really want that to eventually become a norm for the dynamic.

Thanks!

As title says, how to I make it more routine with my wife? We’ve dabbled with it on and off for a couple years now. We’ll go through stretches of using it some, but mostly at my request. Maybe have it on for a day, I go down on her and make her cum with toys and don’t get released, then next day same type of thing but she loves sex so she’ll let me out and she lets me cum and then we don’t use it again for a couple months.

The big issue is that I say, and really do, want to be locked up a lot and essentially not allowed to cum other than occasionally ruined orgasms to drain my balls. But my wife is just not a dominant person. She likes the control for a bit, but then ultimately wants sex and doesn’t have the restraint to not let me cum because she feels like I deserve to cum if she did. 

I know ultimately I need to have the self restraint to not cum, but in the moment I just can’t help myself. How am I able to combat this? How can I get both myself and my wife to really take this by the horns and make it a piece of our life consistently? 

As title says, how to I make it more routine with my wife? We’ve dabbled with it on and off for a couple years now. We’ll go through stretches of using it some, but mostly at my request. Maybe have it on for a day, I go down on her and make her cum with toys and don’t get released, then next day same type of thing but she loves sex so she’ll let me out and she lets me cum and then we don’t use it again for a couple months.

The big issue is that I say, and really do, want to be locked up a lot and essentially not allowed to cum other than occasionally ruined orgasms to drain my balls. But my wife is just not a dominant person. She likes the control for a bit, but then ultimately wants sex and doesn’t have the restraint to not let me cum because she feels like I deserve to cum if she did. 

I know ultimately I need to have the self restraint to not cum, but in the moment I just can’t help myself. How am I able to combat this? How can I get both myself and my wife to really take this by the horns and make it a piece of our life consistently?