u/opuscartel

Hi everyone,

I am a married woman living in the US with my husband and kids. I also work full time and am a mom. My parents are visiting us right now from India, so today I took them and the kids for some shopping while my husband was busy with an another work.

We went to H&M. I picked up some clothes for the kids and my parents. Then I started trying on a few dresses for myself. As many of you who shop at H&M here know, they have unisex fitting rooms. I came out a couple of times looking for my mom to get her opinion, but she wasn’t around. I felt a bit disappointed.
That’s when this fellow Indian guy who was nearby noticed and came over. He politely suggested that the next size might fit better and recommended a different color for the previous dress. He even went and picked out a couple of options for me. His suggestions were actually really good. He didn’t come across as creepy at all. He seemed decent, well groomed, fit, and nice.

We chatted for a bit. He heard me speaking to my kids and realized we are from the same region in India. He looked to be in his 20s. The conversation felt natural and light. Before leaving, he said he would like to stay connected and gave me his number. He told me to text him only if I felt comfortable.

Now I am not sure what to do. I am married and have a family. This was completely unexpected. He seemed genuinely kind, but I feel confused. Should I text him or not?

Hi everyone,

I am a married woman living in the US with my husband and kids. I also work full time and am a mom. My parents are visiting us right now from India, so today I took them and the kids for some shopping while my husband was busy with an another work.

We went to H&M. I picked up some clothes for the kids and my parents. Then I started trying on a few dresses for myself. As many of you who shop at H&M here know, they have unisex fitting rooms. I came out a couple of times looking for my mom to get her opinion, but she wasn’t around. I felt a bit disappointed.
That’s when this fellow Indian guy who was nearby noticed and came over. He politely suggested that the next size might fit better and recommended a different color for the previous dress. He even went and picked out a couple of options for me. His suggestions were actually really good. He didn’t come across as creepy at all. He seemed decent, well groomed, fit, and nice.

We chatted for a bit. He heard me speaking to my kids and realized we are from the same region in India. He looked to be in his 20s. The conversation felt natural and light. Before leaving, he said he would like to stay connected and gave me his number. He told me to text him only if I felt comfortable.

Now I am not sure what to do. I am married and have a family. This was completely unexpected. He seemed genuinely kind, but I feel confused. Should I text him or not?

Hi everyone,

I am a married woman living in the US with my husband and kids. I also work full time and am a mom. My parents are visiting us right now from India, so today I took them and the kids for some shopping while my husband was busy with an another work.

We went to H&M. I picked up some clothes for the kids and my parents. Then I started trying on a few dresses for myself. As many of you who shop at H&M here know, they have unisex fitting rooms. I came out a couple of times looking for my mom to get her opinion, but she wasn’t around. I felt a bit disappointed.
That’s when this fellow Indian guy who was nearby noticed and came over. He politely suggested that the next size might fit better and recommended a different color for the previous dress. He even went and picked out a couple of options for me. His suggestions were actually really good. He didn’t come across as creepy at all. He seemed decent, well groomed, fit, and nice.

We chatted for a bit. He heard me speaking to my kids and realized we are from the same region in India. He looked to be in his 20s. The conversation felt natural and light. Before leaving, he said he would like to stay connected and gave me his number. He told me to text him only if I felt comfortable.

Now I am not sure what to do. I am married and have a family. This was completely unexpected. He seemed genuinely kind, but I feel confused. Should I text him or not?

Hi everyone,

I am a married woman living in the US with my husband and kids. I also work full time and am a parent. My parents are visiting us right now from India, so today I took them and the kids for some shopping while my husband was busy with an another work.

We went to H&M. I picked up some clothes for the kids and my parents. Then I started trying on a few dresses for myself. As many of you who shop at H&M here know, they have unisex fitting rooms. I came out a couple of times searching my parent to get her opinion, but she wasn’t around. I felt a bit disappointed.

That’s when this fellow Indian guy who was nearby noticed and came over. He politely suggested that the next size might fit better and recommended a different color for the previous dress. He even went and picked out a couple of options for me. His suggestions were actually really good. He didn’t come across as creepy at all. He seemed decent, well groomed, fit, and nice.

We chatted for a bit. He heard me speaking to my kids and realized we are from the same region in India. He looked to be in his 20s. The conversation felt natural and light. Before leaving, he said he would like to stay connected and gave me his number. He told me to reach out him only if I felt comfortable.

Now I am not sure what to do. I am married and have a family. This was completely unexpected. He seemed genuinely kind, but I feel confused. Should I him out or not?

Hi everyone,

I am a married woman living in the US with my husband and kids. I also work full time and am a mom. My parents are visiting us right now from India, so today I took them and the kids for some shopping while my husband was busy with an another work.

We went to H&M. I picked up some clothes for the kids and my parents. Then I started trying on a few dresses for myself. As many of you who shop at H&M here know, they have unisex fitting rooms. I came out a couple of times looking for my mom to get her opinion, but she wasn’t around. I felt a bit disappointed.
That’s when this fellow Indian guy who was nearby noticed and came over. He politely suggested that the next size might fit better and recommended a different color for the previous dress. He even went and picked out a couple of options for me. His suggestions were actually really good. He didn’t come across as creepy at all. He seemed decent, well groomed, fit, and nice.

We chatted for a bit. He heard me speaking to my kids and realized we are from the same region in India. He looked to be in his 20s. The conversation felt natural and light. Before leaving, he said he would like to stay connected and gave me his number. He told me to text him only if I felt comfortable.

Now I am not sure what to do. I am married and have a family. This was completely unexpected. He seemed genuinely kind, but I feel confused. Should I text him or not?

Hi everyone,

I am a married woman living in the US with my husband and kids. I also work full time and am a mom. My parents are visiting us right now from India, so today I took them and the kids for some shopping while my husband was busy with an another work.

We went to H&M. I picked up some clothes for the kids and my parents. Then I started trying on a few dresses for myself. As many of you who shop at H&M here know, they have unisex fitting rooms. I came out a couple of times looking for my mom to get her opinion, but she wasn’t around. I felt a bit disappointed.
That’s when this fellow Indian guy who was nearby noticed and came over. He politely suggested that the next size might fit better and recommended a different color for the previous dress. He even went and picked out a couple of options for me. His suggestions were actually really good. He didn’t come across as creepy at all. He seemed decent, well groomed, fit, and nice.

We chatted for a bit. He heard me speaking to my kids and realized we are from the same region in India. He looked to be in his 20s. The conversation felt natural and light. Before leaving, he said he would like to stay connected and gave me his number. He told me to text him only if I felt comfortable.

Now I am not sure what to do. I am married and have a family. This was completely unexpected. He seemed genuinely kind, but I feel confused. Should I text him or not?

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

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I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.

I’m an Indian dude in my 20s who just moved to a new city in the US for work. I got a private room in a nice mixed gender 4BHK apartment with a shared bathroom. There’s an Indian girl a bit elder than me in one room, and her mom is staying with her for a month.

Man, this mom is something else. Late 40s or early 50s but she looks amazing. She’s got that hot rich MILF energy, takes care of herself really well, and is super attractive. I snapped a quick pic of her from the back the other day because I couldn’t help it.

I talked to her for like an hour yesterday when I moved in and a little bit today too. She seems pretty friendly and easy to chat with. I’m really into her and I badly want to make something happen. I know it’s risky since we’re all living together and her daughter is right there, but she’s only here for a month so the window is short.

Any advice? How do I flirt with her and escalate things without making the apartment situation weird? Looking for real tips from people who have been in similar spots.
Thanks bros.