u/peachconoisseur

Just wanted some advice if any of you have been in a similar situation.

Before we got married, I told my wife that I'm open to multiple women which initially upset her but she said she liked me so much she'd be willing to compromise.

I always teased her a bit about me being with other women but she always got shy, but now we've been married for a while she's started to open up more.

She said she has the best sex life ever (which she never dreamed of before we got married as Muslim virgins) but she admitted she feels selfish for keeping me all to herself and not letting other women have this pleasure.

Then she admitted more, she started to reveal during sex that she wants me to pound other women whilst she watches and sees how hard I get.

She said she's afraid of what will happen if I find another woman in terms of she feels her family and other people will see her as a "weak woman".

I told her it's okay and tried to reassure her and for a while the thoughts seem to have gone.

We went through a difficult patch in our marriage (did to external pressure nothing to do with me or her) and I ended up putting on a lot of weight and letting myself go. For the last few months I have lost weight and made more effort with my appearance.

After this, she now irons my clothes or tells me to get a haircut and then when I come home from the hospital she wants to know about all the women at work looking at me and she gets turned on hearing about it.

I'm all for encouraging and exploring with my wife but I genuinely can't tell is she definitely a cuckquean and is it that she has a lot of guilt or is it more likely she just says it to make me happy? I'm not sure because it's been a lot more occasions than I thought.

Are there any other Muslims who went through this and anat did you do?

Have you experimented with different scenarios whether that's more than one guy, for threesomes, size play or cuckolding ?

What about multiple women, for multiple domming or topping and middling, or any other arrangements?

How did it go? Was it what you expected? Any advice or regrets?

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Can't contain my excitement anymore, I have to share how amazing my wife is. We both started out as 2 Muslim virgins who were nervous to discuss our kinks. And now we are happily married and exploring more and more.

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In public we are humble and you would have no idea who enjoys what. However, in private she is my queen and I'd do anything for her.

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When I'm not really busy with work, she'll get treated to a Queen day. That starts with me waking up early, going downstairs and filming myself cooking her and exquisite breakfast completely butt naked.

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I'll make her a freshly prepared home made bean dish, with toasted sourdough bread and perfectly done sunny side eggs topped with pesto and herbs. I'll bring this upto our bed on a tray with chilled juice and a steaming hot cup of herbal tea. 

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I'll send her the video of me preparing the food naked which she can enjoy watching whilst she eats breakfast. Whilst she eats, I will be under the blankets massaging her from her feet upwards and kissing and sucking her toes.

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From there, she gets to climax however she chooses and we do what she wants. For example, sometimes, she enjoys going on outings with me and whilst I am driving she will lean over with her hijab still on, rip my penis out of my pants and suck me completely dry.

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Sometimes, we'll do some intricate henna designs on the sorts of her body that she only shows me when we're home alone together.

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On days I am working, she waits for me at home in lingerie and heels. She kisses me and greets me with salam then asks how much I missed her and makes me show her that by getting me to kneel and worship every inch of her body from her toes upwards. 

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She enjoys sitting on my face and making me lick her asshole as she climaxes over and over again and then rides my hard cock till she's satisfied. She enjoys every inch of me till her heart's content. She'll moan her life out and tell me all her craziest fantasies.

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If she's feeling in need of extra adoration, she will bend over and make me clean her filthy ass, it could be sweaty or dirty or both and she will make me clean every single spot and make her squeaky clean as a way to enjoy my service to her.

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If she is feeling extra greedy or wants to tease me she enjoys playing with massive 12 inch dildos and comparing them to my penis and telling me how much bigger and better this huge enormous size is.

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Would you want to watch her do that to me? Or would you want her to watch as you use me for you own pleasure and make her jealous? Or would you join in with her and both of you can use me simultaneously?

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Would you enjoy coming to nice dinners and trips abroad with us and then getting down to business as as soon as we're alone?

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If you enjoy the sounds of this and want to join her in using me for your pleasure then drop a message and let's see where it goes!

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Can't contain my excitement anymore, I have to share how amazing my wife is. We both started out as 2 Muslim virgins who were nervous to discuss our kinks. And now we are happily married and exploring more and more.

​

In public we are humble and you would have no idea who enjoys what. However, in private she is my queen and I'd do anything for her.

​

​

When I'm not really busy with work, she'll get treated to a Queen day. That starts with me waking up early, going downstairs and filming myself cooking her and exquisite breakfast completely butt naked.

​

​

I'll make her a freshly prepared home made bean dish, with toasted sourdough bread and perfectly done sunny side eggs topped with pesto and herbs. I'll bring this upto our bed on a tray with chilled juice and a steaming hot cup of herbal tea.

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I'll send her the video of me preparing the food naked which she can enjoy watching whilst she eats breakfast. Whilst she eats, I will be under the blankets massaging her from her feet upwards and kissing and sucking her toes.

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From there, she gets to climax however she chooses and we do what she wants. For example, sometimes, she enjoys going on outings with me and whilst I am driving she will lean over with her hijab still on, rip my penis out of my pants and suck me completely dry.

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Sometimes, we'll do some intricate henna designs on the sorts of her body that she only shows me when we're home alone together.

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On days I am working, she waits for me at home in lingerie and heels. She kisses me and greets me with salam then asks how much I missed her and makes me show her that by getting me to kneel and worship every inch of her body from her toes upwards.

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She enjoys sitting on my face and making me lick her asshole as she climaxes over and over again and then rides my hard cock till she's satisfied. She enjoys every inch of me till her heart's content. She'll moan her life out and tell me all her craziest fantasies.

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If she's feeling in need of extra adoration, she will bend over and make me clean her filthy asshole and crack, it could be sweaty or dirty or both and she will make me clean every single spot and make her squeaky clean as a way to enjoy my service to her.

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If she is feeling extra greedy or wants to tease me she enjoys playing with massive 12 inch dildos and comparing them to my penis and telling me how much bigger and better this huge enormous size is.

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She is the queen of my heart, body, mind and soul and sometimes I'm not sure if this is too good to be true and if I should be worried about anything. I remember feeling so shy to tell her my fantasies but I'm glad I did.

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Can't contain my excitement anymore, I have to share how amazing my wife is. We both started out as 2 Muslim virgins who were nervous to discuss our kinks. And now we are happily married and exploring more and more.

​

​

In public we are humble and you would have no idea who enjoys what. However, in private she is my queen and I'd do anything for her.

​

​

When I'm not really busy with work, she'll get treated to a Queen day. That starts with me waking up early, going downstairs and filming myself cooking her and exquisite breakfast completely butt naked.

​

​

I'll make her a freshly prepared home made bean dish, with toasted sourdough bread and perfectly done sunny side eggs topped with pesto and herbs. I'll bring this upto our bed on a tray with chilled juice and a steaming hot cup of herbal tea.

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​

I'll send her the video of me preparing the food naked which she can enjoy watching whilst she eats breakfast. Whilst she eats, I will be under the blankets massaging her from her feet upwards and kissing and sucking her toes.

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​

From there, she gets to climax however she chooses and we do what she wants. For example, sometimes, she enjoys going on outings with me and whilst I am driving she will lean over with her hijab still on, rip my penis out of my pants and suck me completely dry.

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​

Sometimes, we'll do some intricate henna designs on the sorts of her body that she only shows me when we're home alone together.

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​

On days I am working, she waits for me at home in lingerie and heels. She kisses me and greets me with salam then asks how much I missed her and makes me show her that by getting me to kneel and worship every inch of her body from her toes upwards.

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​

She enjoys sitting on my face and making me lick her asshole as she climaxes over and over again and then rides my hard cock till she's satisfied. She enjoys every inch of me till her heart's content. She'll moan her life out and tell me all her craziest fantasies.

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​

If she's feeling in need of extra adoration, she will bend over and make me clean her filthy ass, it could be sweaty or dirty or both and she will make me clean every single spot and make her squeaky clean as a way to enjoy my service to her.

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If she is feeling extra greedy or wants to tease me she enjoys playing with massive 12 inch dildos and comparing them to my penis and telling me how much bigger and better this huge enormous size is.

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So, I will just preface this by saying that I am happily married to my amazing wife and we explore our fantasies together as much as possible.

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I am not upset or discontent, but sometimes I do get thoughts of serving and being used by multiple dommes (including my wife) who will take it in turns to use me or team up together and enjoy me simultaneously over and over again till they've had their fill

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Am I the only one who has these thoughts or are they fairly common amongst subs?

How do you feel about that and how do you process it?

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We recently had a big argument in our marriage and things were up and down. We're making progress now alhamdulillah.

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But lately during intimacy my wife has been objectifying me more now.

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For example, she loves to read out the size of the condoms as she opens it and puts it on me. During the heat of the moment she also admitted the main reason she stayed after argument was because of my size and she "couldn't imagine life without it".

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After the intensity when we were just walking around I asked her and she said she meant every word.

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Whilst, I do feel flattered that she enjoys my physical body, it's created this insecurity (which I understand is paradoxical), because now I wonder if she meets someone bigger will she prefer them to me? I did ask her this and she said no she just wants me. We have also done lots of size play with really big toys so I guess she is not lying.

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I just didn't really know how to process it all, am I being too sensitive,have you ever been in a similar situation?

So me and my wife have been married for a while now. Before we got married, we had discussed our kinks and I had always hinted that I wanted to try submissive stuff but sometimes with work and stress we would have periods where we were less active.

In a really unexpected turn of events, we had the most spontaneous sex ever and it turned really really intense.

I had previously expressed a fantasy to my wife that had really turned me on, but my wife had said it was a bit too gross and that she wouldn't be interested in trying it. For context, this fantasy was "being forced" to clean her behind with my tongue when she was dirty.

My wife made me strip for her and then put heels on her and adore every inch of her body. After making her climax, then things escalated.

She covered her behind in chocolate. Normally we use oral dams but she told me not to use one this time and clean every inch of her whilst she said bad things to me and made me show her just how much I'd do to show I adore her.

We both climaxed multiple times extremely intensely over and over.

I had to go to work the next day, but I am so shy that she sees me differently now and I feel extra vulnerable. Any advice on how to debrief after something as intense as that?

So my wife and I have been married for some time and we are blessed that we can both explore our kinks with each other in a healthy way, we are usually able to vocalise our fantasies and ideas to one another.

Due to work and schedules it can take a while before we try things, or decide not to try them, but lately we have been exploring my wife using me for her pleasure with body worship and face sitting etc.

However, when I see how much fulfilment she gets from it and how much pleasure sometimes, I get this strange thought.

Sometimes, I imagine my wife bringing someone of her choosing, like her friend or something, and they both take it in turns to use me for their pleasure. But she would still be in control and could tell the other person to stop anytime for example.

Am I the only one who gets thoughts like that or is that common in this space/situation?