u/petermalibu

31 [m4f] #online dominant M seeking F for abdl and BDSM fun

Hello people here,

dominant M here looking for an F for a relaxed ABDL dynamic with light BDSM elements. Clear communication, mutual respect, and consent are key.

Looking for something simple, comfortable, and enjoyable for both sides. If that sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out 🙂

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u/petermalibu — 3 days ago

31[M4F] #online Dom is looking for some serious but fun dynamic

Hello everyone here,

I’m a dominant who knows exactly what he’s looking for. I value control, structure, and a dynamic that has clear direction.

I’m not interested in hand-holding or endless small talk. You should be direct, self-aware, and capable of following a lead without constant validation. Experience is secondary — mindset matters. But of cause, i'm not someone stupid, who can't respect limits or a daily life.

What you get is consistency, control, and someone who expects things to be taken seriously. The first task I give will be simple, enough to see if you can follow through. After that, it won’t stay easy. I want to blackmail you step by step deeper into submission.

If you think you fit, prove it. Tell me who you are and why you’re worth the time. I have some kinks and some limits, we can discuss details in private.

We’ll see if it goes anywhere.

If you finished reading till the end, start your message with the colour of your underwear, you are wearing in the moment.

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u/petermalibu — 3 days ago

31 [M4F] #online #Europe A somewhat more niche request

There are aspects of sexuality that one might prefer to explore alone. For me (mDom, 31), that is my dominant, sadistic side.

I particularly enjoy expressing this through instructions or tasks, up to small DIY-style assignments, online. For this, I am looking for an open-minded play partner who would like to take on the complementary role and who may also explore BDSM on her own or is curious to try it, with an interest in online play. An exchange on equal footing is, of course, also important to me.

If this has sparked your interest, feel free to reach out.

In this context, “alone” does not mean experiencing BDSM in isolation, but rather without a physically present partner, while still being connected online.

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u/petermalibu — 4 days ago

[M4F] do you like inspections?

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M dom looking for a female sub interested in inspection based tasks. I also like some sadiam and humiliation.

Focus is on structure, attention to detail, and consistent follow through. Expect clear instructions and regular check ins. Respect, consent, and boundaries are essential. Short or longer term possible if it fits.

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u/petermalibu — 5 days ago