I'm not completely PF but I think that I'm completely BJ and HJ free.
It makes me very excited that she is not touching my penis with her hand. She touches it with her foot only.
I don't understand why I "like" it that I'm missing this touch.
(Yes she otherwise touches me with her hand. Sometimes even slaps my butt.)
What is the mechanism behind this ?
Last week I went to lunch as usual when I was at work. I was alone also so I just took some seat and enjoyed the lunch.
Then suddenly out of nowhere a trigger came into my mind. I had an erection and had this familiar sensation on my penis that I could ejaculate.
I wasn't sure if it was really going to release fluids but I actually wanted to find out so I just surrendered to the feeling.
And then it started. Pump, pump pump ( there was so many pumps that I had time to think when is this going to stop?) pump pump pump pump...
And then,there it was! I could smell the odor of semen. I felled a little bit embarrassed.
I had luckily black pants so no visible stains. But I could feel that there is a wet spot. And there was nobody too close or anyone noticed anything. It was kinda only ejaculation without orgasm
I told my gf that I actually almost cum at my lunch place one day because I was too embarrassed to tell the truth.
She replied that it was good that you didn't cum so you don't have to start wear diapers.
I've recently noticed that my gf is actually gaining weight.
That's probably because she always has some candy or chocolate in every room. Living room though is a place for chips and chocolate and there's always soda with sugar on the refrigerator also.
She is about 5'6"/ 210 or 168/95.
Fat has distributed pretty evenly but thighs and belly is probably most advanced. There is belly roll on front but also on sides so it is 180 degrees belly. There are some back rolls also.
Her mobility is ok, we can walk together but stairs cause some problems. I usually push her from the bottom.
Trousers don't last long because thighs rub together.
But she has some leg, foot and hip pains so I massage her a lot, especially after walking.
I'm not looking for tips to make her eat more. I just say something positive about candy, chocolate, chips and soda that she boughts.
But would someone have some tips on what I could do or say to her to make her feel more comfortable about the extra padding she has?
Also is it a good idea to put some oil or lotion under belly roll?