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Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your dates how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? And have you had opportunities to satisfy that curiosity?Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

I think some women carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that many men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?

I’m not interested in role play, sexting or anything like that. I’m mainly interested in a casual banter about the topic.

Every successful culture once understood that humiliation rituals are not optional. There’s a reason so many institutions, including elite athletic programs, the military, and fraternities and sororities end up inventing their own version of a hazing. Humiliation rituals work precisely because they are unfair, arbitrary, and slightly cruel. When a group deliberately lowers a newcomer, the resulting flood of shame and subsequent acceptance creates a bond unlike any other.

The line of new sorority sisters made to bend over the long table side by side, skirts flipped up, and take the paddle one after another while the entire chapter watched and scored each girl’s reaction.

The frat pledges ordered to drop and do pushups completely naked, chests brushing the cold floor, while the brothers walked between them and casually rested their shoes on the backs of their necks.

The freshman on the swim team told to crawl the length of the deck on her hands and knees, ass raised, while the seniors timed how long she could keep from trembling.

Each ritual serves the same purpose of humbling the newcomers and keeping them in line.

I’d love to chat with somebody who’s into the idea of hazing, public humiliation, and initiation rituals. If you find these sorts of scenarios fun to imagine, let’s discuss a few!

Kinks: Public degradation, enforced nudity, ENF/ENM, hazing, spanking and paddling, CNC

Every successful culture once understood that humiliation rituals are not optional. There’s a reason so many institutions, including elite athletic programs, the military, and fraternities and sororities end up inventing their own version of a hazing. Humiliation rituals work precisely because they are unfair, arbitrary, and slightly cruel. When a group deliberately lowers a newcomer, the resulting flood of shame and subsequent acceptance creates a bond unlike any other.

The line of new sorority sisters made to bend over the long table side by side, skirts flipped up, and take the paddle one after another while the entire chapter watched and scored each girl’s reaction.

The frat pledges ordered to drop and do pushups completely naked, chests brushing the cold floor, while the brothers walked between them and casually rested their shoes on the backs of their necks.

The freshman on the swim team told to crawl the length of the deck on her hands and knees, ass raised, while the seniors timed how long she could keep from trembling.

Each ritual serves the same purpose of humbling the newcomers and keeping them in line.

I’d love to chat with somebody who’s into the idea of hazing, public humiliation, and initiation rituals. If you find these sorts of scenarios fun to imagine, let’s discuss a few!

Kinks: Public degradation, enforced nudity, ENF/ENM, hazing, spanking and paddling, CNC

Every successful culture once understood that humiliation rituals are not optional. There’s a reason so many institutions, including elite athletic programs, the military, and fraternities and sororities end up inventing their own version of a hazing. Humiliation rituals work precisely because they are unfair, arbitrary, and slightly cruel. When a group deliberately lowers a newcomer, the resulting flood of shame and subsequent acceptance creates a bond unlike any other.

The line of new sorority sisters made to bend over the long table side by side, skirts flipped up, and take the paddle one after another while the entire chapter watched and scored each girl’s reaction.

The frat pledges ordered to drop and do pushups completely naked, chests brushing the cold floor, while the brothers walked between them and casually rested their shoes on the backs of their necks.

The freshman on the swim team told to crawl the length of the deck on her hands and knees, ass raised, while the seniors timed how long she could keep from trembling.

Each ritual serves the same purpose of humbling the newcomers and keeping them in line.

I’d love to chat with somebody who’s into the idea of hazing, public humiliation, and initiation rituals. If you find these sorts of scenarios fun to imagine, let’s discuss a few!

Kinks: Public degradation, enforced nudity, ENF/ENM, hazing, spanking and paddling, CNC

We’re all familiar with toxic masculinity. It’s widely recognized and discussed, and there’s examples of it basically everywhere.

What gets talked about much less often is toxic femininity. And honestly, the more I think about it, the more I realize every example of it is invariably hot to me. Women who weaponize their sexuality to manipulate and get what they want. Competitive women willing to do whatever it takes to steal attention from other women. Pretty much any behavior that might cause other girls to call you a “pickme” is unfortunately attractive to me. So are women who are bullies, or bully-adjacent.

Didn’t like a guy so you spread rumors about him having a small dick? Had beef with a girl so you got her man to check you out, or even flirt with you in front of her? I’m interested in hearing about it all. Feel free to exaggerate your stories if it makes things more fun, but please keep it grounded.

If this isn’t you, but you find women like this equally alluring, I’d love to hear from you too.

Kinks: sex gossip, mean, judgmental or snobby women, humiliation, spanking, SPH, bullies, free use.

Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your date how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? I think some women quietly carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely so hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that some men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?

Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your date how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? I think some women quietly carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely so hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that some men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?

If you’ve been online long enough, you’ve seen some instances of it, whether it’s ragebait posts about shallow women, guys from the manosphere attacking feminism, or the endless debates about men and women’s roles in a relationship.

I myself am not involved in any of the communities/echo chambers that promote toxic views like that, but I’ve seen how heated some of these online arguments can get, and I think it could be fun to sexualize that tension. I know it sounds far fetched (how could something so anger-inducing ever be erotic?) but bear with me.

A lot of political jabs are already sexually charged. Conservatives love to accuse liberal men of being cucks, and women of being whores. I’m interested in discussing where such assumptions and stereotypes originate as well as the psychology behind why they’re supposed to be offensive. In a conservative’s mind, the worst thing a man can be is powerless while someone else claims his girl, and the most humiliating way to insult a woman is to weaponize her own sexual freedom against her.

On the other extreme, there are some feminists who publicly rail against the patriarchy, body-shaming, and toxic masculinity, only to privately fantasize about being put in their place by the exact type of man they claim to hate.

And there’s another, softer hypocrisy that some feminists engage in that I find curious. There was a recent TikTok trend called “Catching Print”, where women share tips and speculate about what men are packing based on the bulge outline in their pants. Many seemed thrilled about the opportunity to reverse the objectification on men, arguing it’s only fair because women have had to put up with it for so long. And to be honest I can understand the appeal of reversing the roles and making men feel like they’re the ones exposed and judged for their bodies for once. If you share that viewpoint, or have a similar revenge fantasy about men, I’d love to hear from you.

I hope I’ve shared enough ideas to inspire some discussions on these topics. I’m really interested in hearing your own thoughts, wherever on the political/cultural divide you may be.

We’re all familiar with toxic masculinity. It’s widely recognized and discussed, and there’s examples of it basically everywhere.

What gets talked about much less often is toxic femininity. And honestly, the more I think about it, the more I realize every example of it is invariably hot to me. Women who weaponize their sexuality to manipulate and get what they want. Competitive women willing to do whatever it takes to steal attention from other women. Pretty much any behavior that might cause other girls to call you a “pickme” is unfortunately attractive to me. So are women who are bullies, or bully-adjacent.

Didn’t like a guy so you spread rumors about him having a small dick? Had beef with a girl so you got her man to check you out, or even flirt with you in front of her? I’m interested in hearing about it all. Feel free to exaggerate your stories if it makes things more fun, but please keep it grounded.

If this isn’t you, but you find women like this equally alluring, I’d love to hear from you too.

Kinks: sex gossip, mean, judgmental or snobby women, humiliation, SPH, free use.

Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your date how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? I think some women quietly carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely so hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that some men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?

Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your date how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? I think some women quietly carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely so hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that some men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?

Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your date how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? I think some women quietly carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely so hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that some men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?

We’re all familiar with toxic masculinity and know what it looks like.

What gets talked about much less often is toxic femininity. And the more I think about it, the more I realize that every example of it is invariably hot to me. Women who weaponize their sexuality to manipulate and get what they want. Competitive women willing to do whatever it takes to steal attention from other women. Pretty much any behavior that might cause other girls to call you a “pickme” is attractive to me. So are women who are bullies, or bully-adjacent.

Didn’t like a guy so you spread rumors about him having a small dick? Had beef with a girl so you got her man to check you out, or even flirt with you in front of her? I’m interested in hearing about it all. Feel free to exaggerate your stories if it makes things more fun, but please keep it grounded.

If this isn’t you, but you find women like this equally alluring, I’d love to hear from you too.

Kinks: sex gossip, mean, judgmental or snobby women, humiliation, SPH, free use.

Do you ever find yourself speculating about what men are packing? Do you wish you could ask your date how big it is without that being considered rude?

Whether you’re a size queen or not, don’t you ever get curious about what guys are hiding? I think some women quietly carry that curiosity with them but rarely get to talk about it openly. And I’d genuinely love to hear it all, unfiltered. To me, it’s genuinely so hot when a woman isn’t shy about expressing her true sexual preferences and thoughts. In my own experience, I’ve seen how men often react to being judged for how they measure up. It seems that some men hate being judged in ways similar to how they often judge women.

Maybe you caught a glimpse of a guy’s outline while he was in form fitting sweatpants. Maybe you heard a rumor from your friend circle that one of your mutual friends is well endowed.

So when it comes to sizing guys up, what’s your tactic? Do you glance at his bulge in sweatpants? Orchestrate a situation where you accidentally brush against it? Pay attention to the size of his hands, feet, posture? Maybe his overall level of confidence?