u/woodyk39

From r/PussyFreeCommunity

A few years ago my wife couldn’t be on birth control, and she had a lot of anxiety about relying on condoms alone. She was also on medication that made penetrative sex largely unappealing for her.

Our sex life suffered quite a bit. She often avoided intimacy because she worried it might lead to sex, and then she’d spend days afterward anxious about whether she might get pregnant.

One night while we were making out, she told me we could have sex. Instead of feeling excited, I felt guilty. I knew it wasn’t something she was really looking forward to, and I didn’t want her to feel obligated. At the same time, I didn’t want to reject her and ruin what had otherwise been a really nice evening.

So after putting on a condom, I pretended that I had already finished before we ever got to penetration.

She laughed and started teasing me about it. She found the whole thing incredibly hot and started touching her self and orgasmed harder than she had in a long time. I've always been into kink stuff related to embarrassment, submission, inadequacy, and I ended up cumming for real from watching her touch herself and being teased.

After that night I would joke about how she was too hot for me to handle and it would really get her in the mood to touch herself. I faked orgasming a few more when she said we could have sex. But eventually the thought of prematurely ejaculating and not being able to make it inside of her was so hot for me I started to actually cum before making it inside of her.

We went from being intimate only occasionally to fooling around several times a week. The pressure was gone for her and it seemed to awaken a kink in herself.

I feel a little guilty that it started with me not being completely honest, but it led us to a dynamic that really helped our relationship during a period where we otherwise would have been really disconnected.

(She's on different meds now, and I've since had a vasectomy)

You may have seen all those HIMS adds about getting Viagra or other "enhancement" products for better sex. But did you know they have a discussion on prejac fetish? Check it out: https://www.hims.com/guides/prejac

I came across this on a discord server, TeazeTech Speed Spurt. Not sure how I got to that one and I don't have a link, but you can probably search it and investigate or request access.

In the last days I've become very interested in the idea of training myself to cum very fast when I get intimate with my wife. The purpose of this would be that even if she would allow me to penetrate her to not be able because I would bust a nut during the foreplay so I will always be forced to finish her by licking her pussy.

Anyone ever achieved that? Any good tips and tricks?

What I have done in the last week : completely abstained from any form of normal masturbation, and I've only cum twice (very ruined orgasms) by doing a series of touches with this rule:

• only touch my dick with 2 fingers
• every touch would last at most 10 seconds
• after every touch I take a break of at least 10 seconds until the next one
• put a time limit of 10 minutes at most for this

Besides this edged myself for 1 minute every day when I was extremely horny or before sleeping (basically when I used to jerk off replaced with

What I achieved: was very horny all the week and those 2 times I did that procedure I had a very ruined orgasm (after the last 10 second touch my dick trembled for like 20 seconds and then dribbled loads of cum)

But really curious of any other training ideas