u/your_master_is_in

36 [M4F] #Tennessee #USA - thoughtful Dom seeking devoted sub for TPE

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I'm a 36 year-old Dom who's interested in finding a TPE dynamic. It would be my first of that kind, and I would prefer to have a real relationship in addition to the dynamic, so I am wanting to take time before fully being in our roles. I'm open to distance as long as we look to close the distance in a reasonable time frame.

My ideal submissive/slave will respond well to structure enforced by a balance of reward and punishment. The intensity of the dynamic and the thoroughness of rules can be catered to comfort, potentially moving in stricter and more intense directions as we progress together. The ultimate goal would be a state of your body and life not being your own, at least at home. I am open to various levels of ownership outside the home, including a rewarding career that is fully your own and your own friends. I would not seek to isolate you unless that is your desire.

A bit about myself: 6’2”, blue eyes, short beard, full head of hair, reasonably good looking and in decent shape. 

I'm a nerd who goes to the gym but doesn't live there. The gaming is mostly RPGs, and tabletop, plus some strategy and basketball. I'm a big music fan, liking girlie pop, grandpa rock, hip hop, and lots in between. I enjoy art of all sorts. Politically progressive.

I am also a very spiritual person. There aren't great labels for it, but you could say I'm an eclectic pagan and witch. Spiritual guidance can be part of the dynamic, or your spiritual life can be your own, but I bring it up because there are certain types of religious people I wouldn't be terribly compatible with.

Feel free to reach out with any questions, but if you're genuinely interested in pursuing the dynamic, please fill out this application to your comfort.

Name:

Location:

Where are you from?:

Age: 

Profession: 

Height:

Body type:

Ethnicity:

Favorite album:

Something you love:

Something you hate:

Religion:

Kinks:

Limits:

Children? In the future?: 

One place you're happy: 

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u/your_master_is_in — 11 days ago

36 [M4F] #Tennessee #USA - thoughtful Dom seeking devoted sub

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I'm a 36 year-old Dom who's interested in finding a TPE dynamic. It would be my first of that kind, and I would prefer to have a real relationship in addition to the dynamic, so I am wanting to take time before fully being in our roles. I'm open to distance as long as we look to close the distance in a reasonable time frame.

My ideal submissive/slave will respond well to structure enforced by a balance of reward and punishment. The intensity of the dynamic and the thoroughness of rules can be catered to comfort, potentially moving in stricter and more intense directions as we progress together. The ultimate goal would be a state of your body and life not being your own, at least at home. I am open to various levels of ownership outside the home, including a rewarding career that is fully your own and your own friends. I would not seek to isolate you unless that is your desire.

A bit about myself: 6’2”, blue eyes, short beard, full head of hair, reasonably good looking and in decent shape. 

I'm a nerd who goes to the gym but doesn't live there. The gaming is mostly RPGs, and tabletop, plus some strategy and basketball. I'm a big music fan, liking girlie pop, grandpa rock, hip hop, and lots in between. I enjoy art of all sorts. Politically progressive.

I am also a very spiritual person. There aren't great labels for it, but you could say I'm an eclectic pagan and witch. Spiritual guidance can be part of the dynamic, or your spiritual life can be your own, but I bring it up because there are certain types of religious people I wouldn't be terribly compatible with.

Feel free to reach out with any questions, but if you're genuinely interested in pursuing the dynamic, please fill out this application to your comfort.

Name:

Location:

Where are you from?:

Age: 

Profession: 

Height:

Body type:

Ethnicity:

Favorite album:

Something you love:

Something you hate:

Religion:

Kinks:

Limits:

Children? In the future?: 

One place you're happy: 

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u/your_master_is_in — 14 days ago

I recently got a DM from a post in a kink personals sub. It wasn't really what I was searching for, but a daughter messaged me saying she was looking for someone to play with her and her mom. They've fooled around in the shower, but haven't done more and the daughter wanted to. I'm a Dominant and the daughter was very submissive and we clicked pretty well. I then talked to the mom a bit, but she wanted me to be submissive and that kind of put a damper on things, so not sure that will go anywhere.

It did remind of this time in college though. I was hanging out with a group of friends and one of them brought another friend over. We were in our 20s, but this woman was about 40 and very attractive, in good shape. Apparently she was interested in me, but I had never done anything with a woman more than a year older than me at that time, so I didn't really see her like that even though she was very hot. furthermore no one told me she was interested, and I'm not always best at picking up signals.

Well eventually she brings her daughter around, who was 18 and had recently started at my university. We hit it off and we would see each other some, made out a few times, including at a Halloween party. This made the mom mad, because she was there too and presumably wanted me to make out with her instead, or in addition too. But I was young and dumb and this just flew over my head.

I was texting the daughter a few days later and the mom took her phone and started texting me. I thought she just didn't want me to see her daughter, but she just wanted me. It turns out, she would have been very into me fooling around with both of them at the same time, and I wish I had known because it would have been one of the best experiences of my life. But I didn't know what was going on, so it all fell apart.

but now I want something like that to actually happen. Mother/daughter, sisters, something like that. Something hot and wrong, with jealousy and closeness all together. If anyone is interested in talking about it send me a dm

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u/your_master_is_in — 16 days ago

I'm a 36 year-old Dom who's interested in finding a TPE dynamic. It would be my first of that kind, and I would prefer to have a real relationship in addition to the dynamic, so I am wanting to take time before fully being in our roles. I'm open to distance as long as we look to close the distance in a reasonable time frame.

My ideal submissive/slave will respond well to structure enforced by a balance of reward and punishment. The intensity of the dynamic and the thoroughness of rules can be catered to comfort, potentially moving in stricter and more intense directions as we progress together. The ultimate goal would be a state of your body and life not being your own, at least at home. I am open to various levels of ownership outside the home, including a rewarding career that is fully your own and your own friends. I would not seek to isolate you unless that is your desire.

A bit about myself: 6’2”, blue eyes, short beard, full head of hair, reasonably good looking and in decent shape. 

I'm a nerd who goes to the gym but doesn't live there. The gaming is mostly RPGs, and tabletop, plus some strategy and basketball. I'm a big music fan, liking girlie pop, grandpa rock, hip hop, and lots in between. I enjoy art of all sorts. Politically progressive.

I am also a very spiritual person. There aren't great labels for it, but you could say I'm an eclectic pagan and witch. Spiritual guidance can be part of the dynamic, or your spiritual life can be your own, but I bring it up because there are certain types of religious people I wouldn't be terribly compatible with.

Feel free to reach out with any questions, but if you're genuinely interested in pursuing the dynamic, please fill out this application to your comfort.

Name:

Location:

Where are you from?:

Age: 

Profession: 

Height:

Body type:

Ethnicity:

Favorite album:

Something you love:

Something you hate:

Religion:

Kinks:

Limits:

Children? In the future?: 

One place you're happy: 

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u/your_master_is_in — 16 days ago

36, 6'2" good looking, experienced Dom.

I love spanking, been a little too long. Open to more or just the spanking if that's all you're looking for. multiple toys, not afraid to go hard.

travel possible

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u/your_master_is_in — 22 days ago

36 [M4F] #Tennessee #Online - sadistic pleasure Dom looking for submission

I enjoy a blend of pleasure and pain in my dynamic. As a partner I'm kind, nurturing, soft, a good listener, will want to take care of you and make you happy. But I also enjoy inflicting pain and having a girl submit herself to me completely. This might include impact play, very rough use, degredation, humiliation, and forced service. I enjoy a balance of soft and hard, breaking your body down so your brain turns off and you're putty in my hands.

I'm open to TPE or some version less extreme than that with clear boundaries. Local is preferable, but open to travel or one of us relocating if we want long term.

About me: 6'2". In good shape. Blue eyes, dark blonde hair, short beard, generally considered good looking. Single, no kids. Well endowed. Nerdy. Liberal. Spiritual. Music lover. Solid cook. Pretty good at massages. Affectionate. Nice. Mean.

Generally prefer someone younger and smaller than I am, though the age portion is more about outlook than anything else. I am very curious and open-minded, and I am constantly working to become more well-rounded, enjoying new things. I don't get along as well with people set in their ways. Open to long-term or short.

If you're interested, please message me with a little about yourself.

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u/your_master_is_in — 22 days ago

I enjoy a blend of pleasure and pain in my dynamic. As a partner I'm kind, nurturing, soft, a good listener, will want to take care of you and make you happy. But I also enjoy inflicting pain and having a girl submit herself to me completely. This might include impact play, very rough use, degredation, humiliation, and forced service. I enjoy a balance of soft and hard, breaking your body down so your brain turns off and you're putty in my hands.

I'm open to TPE or some version less extreme than that with clear boundaries. Local is preferable, but open to travel or one of us relocating if we want long term.

About me: 6'2". In good shape. Blue eyes, dark blonde hair, short beard, generally considered good looking. Single, no kids. Well endowed. Nerdy. Liberal. Spiritual. Music lover. Solid cook. Pretty good at massages. Affectionate. Nice. Mean.

Generally prefer someone younger and smaller than I am, though the age portion is more about outlook than anything else. I am very curious and open-minded, and I am constantly working to become more well-rounded, enjoying new things. I don't get along as well with people set in their ways. Open to long-term or short.

If you're interested, please message me with a little about yourself.

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u/your_master_is_in — 22 days ago