u/zenracer555

After a decade together, we’re slowly evolving and finally decided to get more playful with toys, massage, and sensory stuff.

Main goal is to focus on my wife’s pleasure, make intimacy more fun, and build a good starter kit without ending up with a drawer full of gimmicks.

Here’s what I got from Lovehoney:
Paid items
Magic Wand Rechargeable (main anchor toy)
DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge (positioning/support)
Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator (oral-style/clit toy)
Ostrich Feather Tickler (sensory play)
Water-Based Lube (basic must-have)
Toy Cleaner (cleanup)
Silicone Nipple Suckers (sensory/nipple play)
Adjustable Nipple Clamps (maybe too much?)
Beginner’s Flogger (light sensory play)
Furry Handcuffs (light restraint, maybe)
Penis Extender (not sure if this is useful)
Fleshlight STU (more for me/stamina training)

Free gifts
Gold Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
Red Silicone Mini Wand Vibrator
Black Lace Mini Dress
Clear Jeweled Metal Butt Plug

Still considering separately:
Dame Fin
Dame Aer or Womanizer Next
We-Vibe Tango X
We-Vibe Chorus Pro
Waterproof throw / blanket
Better storage case or toy bags

For experienced couples, what would you keep, return, add or replace?

Trying to build a fun, body-safe, wife-focused starter kit without buying a bunch of random clutter.

We’re a married couple in our 40s from the Smyrna area with a 4½-year-old, looking to meet other nudist/naturist families or couples in the Atlanta area.

We’re not looking for nude meetups right away. We’d rather start with normal, clothed activities like Chattahoochee walks, parks, hiking, coffee, Jeju Spa, or other family-friendly outings and build genuine friendships first.

My wife is still new to naturism and taking things at her own pace, so meeting real nudists in a relaxed, non-sexual setting would be a huge help.

If you’re in a similar stage, or you’re an experienced naturist family who enjoys helping newcomers feel welcome, we’d love to connect.

Couples and families only, please. We’re not swingers and not looking for anything sexual, just genuine friendships.

My wife and I finally tried Jeju Spa, Atlanta for our 10-year anniversary, and we had a great time.

We enjoyed the massage, deep tissue, foot massage, sauna rooms, food, and the overall spa experience. We easily spent six hours there and didn’t even realize it.

My wife was too shy to try the nude wet area or body scrub, but she is open to going again, which is a big first step. Coming from a traditional Indian background, she's still reluctant around nudism, so this was significant.

We’re planning to visit again on July 10th. If any respectful couples are going and want to say hi, feel free to DM me.

Couples only please. Not looking for anything sexual or lifestyle-related, just spa/nudist-friendly friends.

40M37F wife is trying Jeju Spa for the first time tonight, around 8 PM. She is still very shy and uncomfortable with nudity, so I’m trying to keep it low-pressure and go at her pace.

I think meeting friendly nudist couples would help her feel more comfortable and confident, even if it’s just a quick hello.

To be clear, couples only please.

Not interested in single males. We are not swingers or looking for anything sexual. Just trying nudism and hoping to make respectful nudist friends.

If any couples are going tonight, please DM me. Hope to see some of you there.

Man, I just finished 1.1 and recently discovered the Mindgasm app.

I’ve been dealing with POIS-like headaches since my teens, so orgasms were always something that came with a cost. This feels honestly revolutionary to me.

I don’t even know if I’m ready for everything here yet. 1.1 itself feels like a huge milestone.

Just wanted to say thank you for putting this material out there and creating this subreddit. It’s unbelievable what’s out there once you start discovering it.

Really appreciate it.

MF couple in Atlanta looking to learn tantric massage, sensual massage, and deeper couple-focused intimacy practices.

I’ve practiced yoga for the last 4 years through Isha and Art of Living. We are exploring tantra, breath, touch, presence, and connection together to improve intimacy.

We are mainly looking for:

• Experienced MF couples willing to share guidance or learn together
• Trusted tantric massage/couples massage teachers around Atlanta
• Workshops, intimacy coaching, or safe training options
• Couple-to-couple friendship and shared learning

We are not looking to open the marriage or swing. Couples only, no single males please.

Any recommendations or directions would be appreciated.

I’m 40, and I’m honestly surprised I’m discovering this only now.

I was on a semen retention path for 7+ months, partly because my bedroom was pretty dead, but also because orgasms were rough for me.

Masturbation/ejaculation often triggered POIS-like symptoms — headaches, drained energy, and a few days to recover. So over time I started thinking semen retention was just the better option.

Then I discovered NEO, which led me to Mindgasm. I started with Lesson 1 for the first few days. Then I added Lesson 2, and later Lesson 3.

Around day 4 or 5, I had this intense full-body shaking/vibration experience. I don’t know if it was an orgasm or something else, but it felt amazing — very different from anything I had felt before.

The surprising part is that lately, even if I masturbate, I may feel a little drained that day, but I’m not getting the same headaches and crash I used to get. I’m still taking it slow and not trying to overdo anything.

Just wanted to share because this is all new to me, and maybe it helps someone else.

Better late than never.

Serendipity has a small trail, but I’m curious if there are any other good options around Georgia: private land, clubs, campgrounds, ranches, or organized group hikes.

It would also be great to get a group together if there’s a suitable place.

I’ve been to Iron Aspen Ranch and Mountain Air Ranch in Colorado, and both had beautiful nude hiking setups. I wish Georgia had something similar — safe, private, nature-focused, and clearly clothing-optional.

Open to ideas, leads, or anyone interested in planning something.

Hey all — I wasn’t planning to visit Paradise Valley Resort today, but I’m around Dawsonville and thinking of stopping by for about 2 hours.

Does anyone know today’s entrance fee for a single male, 40M? Also, if anyone knows a way to get in for a little cheaper, I’d appreciate the tip.

Hey all — I wasn’t planning to visit Paradise Valley Resort today, but I’m around Dawsonville and thinking of stopping by for about 2 hours.

Does anyone know today’s entrance fee for a single male, 40M? Also, if anyone knows a way to get in for a little cheaper, I’d appreciate the tip.