r/GoonerRecovering

Please i just need some help to stop

Struggling bad trying to control the urges but porn is pulling me in. Already seen some filthy stuff thats made me hard. Need advice badly

Somebody tell me what to do

Like at what point would you say that you overcome your bad habits, I reduced time I spend on porn by like 90% and now rarely get in contact with it. I got out of bad habits and feel like I'm getting way healthier, even if the road ahead is still a long one...So when did you realize that you made it?

Don’t think ill ever recover tbh

It feels like I'm trapped. I havent even gone 24 hours since I last gooned and the urge is unbearable. My brain is like reddit and I get filled with gooned albums 😂. Maybe I need to try and just not look at reddit ever and just goon from my brain. Maybe the thoughts will eventually go away

So basically I amde up my mind last week, that I will try to stop all gooning activities starting in August. It's the first day and I just woke up about an hour ago, and I'm already struggling. It's so hard and I don't know if I can do it.

I want to try breaking away from my addiction for at least a month, so basically the whole month of August.

But even rn, I'm so horny that I just want to touch. Please, I need advice, any help is welcome. Thank you!

Everytike I relapse I get more and more kinky. I don’t want this to keep happening but I’m struggling so much to stay away

I thought I was helping someone on here but they ended up triggering me .

Now normally I'm really good and laughing these people away at their terrible attempts, but I'm not sure what happened.

I was getting ready to do a favor for someone and I feel hesitant like my motivation is getting tugged or, pulled back.

mention a game, or movie or anything I could use a distraction

Trying to resist and not get sucked back in. Even resisting stresses me out like you wouldn’t believe.

Been doing pretty good avoiding any triggering content. But last night, instead of just listening to sleep reminder I instead doom scrolled. And scrolled right into some triggers unfortunately. Barely even put up a fight and relapsed. Went all last night. And only stopping now finally to type this out.

I am doing my best to distract myself but hot faces are something that I am not able to resist. Even though I go for walks I am coming back to it.. this is not easy.

This has been going on to long I’m done i can’t anymore this addiction has taken so much for me and given so little back to me. A never knew how a few minutes of dopamine can take so much from you. I’m drained of life I don’t even remember how it feels to be normal and feel clear minded for years it’s just been prn I’m done I can’t anymore.

made mistake today and couldnt help myself and looked someone up. I stopped but feeling tempted again and cant seem to get it off my mind.

I need help rn!

These last 8 days have been tough it's hard not to relapse.

I keep telling myself I'm gonna be done and somedays life gets rough and I just can't quit.

I want to be done 😮‍💨 fuck this addiction why do I have this! why am I like this I shouldn't just wanna jerk it. Why am I like this! Why do I have this addiction.

It's weird I feel like a weird perv I just want to be fucking normal.

Rough night. Vivid dreams, the sexual kind, the kind that leave you unsettled instead of rested. Barely slept because of it, and today I'm just... low. No motivation, foggy, going through the motions.

I know dreams aren't relapses, logically I know that. But it still leaves this weird residue, like my body's confused about something my mind didn't even choose. Doesn't help that I'm running on fumes either, everything feels harder when you're this tired.

Not really looking for advice today, just needed to say it somewhere. If you're also running on empty for whatever reason, you're not alone in that.

Been seeing a lot of posts from people in their first two weeks, and I cannot stress enough how important it is to find some time away from the screens, even a five minute distraction can stop you from doing things that you do not want. Open to chat with anyone who needs help

Feeling super proud of myself, plenty more work to do but its gotten so much easier

I get the feeling to get high and give in. I stayed clean for 10 days now the longest I could now not able to anymore can someone please help?

Struggling lately and looked up someone. i stopped but finding it hard to recover and cant seem to get it off my mind.