r/bisexualafterdark

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Joked around with my wife about getting kinkier knowing full well what I wanted but couldn’t ask for. It all started in college when a girl I was with was having a hard time finishing a blow job, so she hit the easy button and just like that 💦. After that I just explored more myself. So anyway she suggested it, pegging, which she seemed pretty into at the time but it’s been months now. To fill that void I have been breaking out her stash of toys. So where do I go from here? I want it more, I want her to size up, and I’m secretly curious about the real thing although I seem to have no attraction to men?

My(26F) boyfriend(31M) has been bi since a teenager and has only ever had sex with other men. We have been in an open relationship for almost a year now and our sex life could use improvement. I have had many experiences with other women as well but I still crave traditional sex with a masculine male partner.

For him he gets very turned on when having sex with other men as a top. We have tried vaginal sex and he says it’s very different and he has trouble finishing. I want to offer anal as an option just because I think it may be easier for him to finish but also don’t have much experience and not sure if it will be the same for him.

My question is for people who have experience with anal sex as a top with both male and female partners, is it the same? Also what should I do to prepare myself for this? Thanks!

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Wats it called when ur not Attracted to men but attracted to big cock lol and u find women super attractive

Hey all, my genderfluid girlfriend and I are looking to branch out, we're both bi/pan/whatever works, and we're trying to find a good app to find like-minded queer people to hook up with. Any advice?

I am an older guy and have been having more and more thoughts and urges to have an experience with a guy. I have tried sniffies and gindr but most just want a car.bj or amonymous sex and it's been hard to trust people online. I have only been with women and was wondering what kind of unspoken signals or scenarious could spark a chance of hooking up with a guy for the 1st time?

So when I was 16 me and my best mate 17 where hanging out for context he is gay and at the time I was straight he asked me do you want to try having sex with a guy and I was horny as fuck so I said yes I enjoyed sucking his cock and then hike bending me over and fucking me hard and feeling his warm cum in my ass I imidently I knew I liked men but it was confusing because I didn’t know
If I liked men or women so I am like I am bi and who knows one day I may be gay

I am a mid-50s bi-curious/bi without experience male, whose fantasies and turn-ons predominantly revolve pleasure giving to other males, females or couples in a consensual, encouraging and non-degrading way. Receiving physical pleasure in return is not an essential part of the fantasy, as the psychological arousal from giving pleasure or being used for pleasure is the main driver. Although I am fairly certain that I am bi, I am also turned on by the idea of bi encouragement from a female partner. I haven't had much exposure to bisexual or kink communities, so am not sure whether this a common dynamic or not and/or whether that means that I am also considered to be submissive or not. Part of this fantasy also involves cleaning up everyone with my mouth afterwards, so I don't know whether this dynamic also strays into cuckolding as well. Whilst I am not fixated on labels or pigeon-holing myself, I would be interested in hearing your thoughts about this and any advice you may have. Thank you..

Please not me that I have edited this post to include more details, as I rushed my first attempt.

i know theres r/r4r but is there any other way? i keep seeing posts from bi guys about not being accepted for their sexuality and it's frustrating the hell out of me because im like how do i find all of you without individually messaging each one.

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I’m a bisexual girl and I’ve done stuff with a girl before which is all dandy, but my boyfriend is also bisexual and he’s done stuff with a man. I know absolutely nothing about back door stuff at all and I just recently found out he has a dldo

I’m not against it per say but uh I have no clue what to do to please him or do anything and yes yes I know communication is key BUT I’d like at least a good few tips and tricks to start out so I can be confident. I want to be the best I can be so if anyone can give me any tips at all I’d absolutely appreciate it so much.

Be blunt, seriously I’ll take it all.

Hey 28M ive just started exploring a bit more as its just been a new revelation and I want to try some stuff out before actually getting with another person.

I could use some advice on whats the best toys to start with and stuff like that

Getting back into casual dating; I’m a bi 27M who’s mostly dated women but find men hot and want to get more experience with them as well. Anyways - I started talking to this girl off Tinder a week or so ago very casually; we’ve hooked up twice since matching and it’s been really fun. She knows that I’m bi, but we haven’t talked too in depth about kinks or fantasies yet - frankly, how do I bring it up with her that I like having my ass played with, really love prostate play and buttplugs, and especially would love to be part of an MMF threesome? Anyone have any tips or advice on how to broach this subject?

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I’ve got very little experience with things up my ass but I’ve used dildos before and it felt absolutely incredible, it was just as good as pussy to me ngl lol, but anyways I’ve since gotten rid of it and now I have no dedicated toys, any suggestions for other things to use?

I really need to find some porn were all three (at least start) from a lot of slow curiosity, tension, seduction. Like maybe you know lesbian vids, when there is no "action" for at least 10 mins and that annoys some, but is so arousing. And best if they were amateurs. I have seen some in the past like that. But only scarce among mainstream websites. Help! I guess more people will benefit ;)