r/bisexualafterdark

If so how did it pan out ? I almost got caught once getting head by a random I met

Hi,

I am a bisexual man dom for context
(Also sorry if this isn’t the best place to talk about specific kinks)

I have this kink where I really like the idea of feminizing a guy. The idea of having him put on cute fem clothes like skirts, lingerie and makeup is a massive turn on for me the idea of buying him fem clothes and dressing him up and praising him is just so hot. Just making someone more feminine and submissive is the core of many of my fantasies.

I also have a kink for pet play and the idea of dressing up my partner as a cat boy/girl is another big fantasy that I don’t really understand, but the idea of just having them wear the collar, leash, the cute ears and tail it is all really hot. And I love the idea of comforting and praising them for being a good boy/girl.

Does anyone have any advice on feminizing a guy as a man? I’ve found that most people who are into being feminized are into fem doms.

Does anyone also have any advice on being a gentle dom (especially with pet play or feminization) with someone I don’t have much experience and I would really appreciate any advice?

Does any one have any advice on how to communicate my fantasies with a friend with benefits or someone I’m dating? it makes me really hesitant when people ask what I’m into because I don’t want to come off as too weird.

Thank you for any help!

So I (22M) have been exploring the possibility of being bi by fantasizing about being with men, but sometimes my fantasies turn quite dark and involve me being raped by a man or even by multiple men. I know that I don't actually want to be raped, but I feel so gross for fantasizing about something so dark and wrong. Does any know why I have this fantasy and a way I can stop having it?

46m, just out of a marriage to a woman. I figured out I love to suck cock. I'm a high achiever - I want to get some god-tier blowjob skills.

What's your best move?

How about learning to deep throat? Tricks?

I've always been straight but curious to try dick and get fucked by one and I've always liked watching gay and trans porn and so I recently bought me a butt plug and dildo and lube ofc but it didn't turn out like I thought it would. I put the butt plug in and it felt uncomfortable/okay I kept it in for about 1-2 hours and then I took it out tried the dildo and it felt like me putting the butt plug but a little longer. I thought it would feel amazing. But it just felt like I was going up and down and like nothingness like it wasn't good but it wasn't bad I got off from it and the orgasm felt good but that was the only thing that felt good. Do I need to feel the real thing to actually feel something?

M25 Feeling kinda horny and going to shower want to put something in my ass. Any recommendations?

I’m bi but homoromantic. Around ovulation I get VERY horny and I crave to be filled by a dick. It’s overwhelming. I don’t understand my urges. I sometimes wish I could have an open relationship to explore that but under all those raw fantasies there’s just a pure need to be seen and loved and that’s sth that I already have. I love my partner but on sexual level sometimes I feel like we’re not fully compatible and I panic that she’s not the right one. We’re together for quite a long time which doesn’t help the desire when I’m it’s highly driven by novelties, strangers and some forbidden fruits.
I’d say that I’m a quite sexual person but I suppress it because every single time I let it free I lose control.
How can I deal with all that? I don’t want to love anyone else but I want to fuck someone else as well. It doesn’t need to be a regular partner. I just want an occasional hookup with someone I find hot and feel horny for.
I also realised quite recently that good and safe relationships seem boring for traumatised people who got used to constant change and stress in toxic relationships.
Ughh sorry for venting

My boyfriend LOVES to eat me out... but I noticed that I can never finish during a session, even though sometimes it lasts for hours.

I notice my legs shaking a lot from time to time, but it's not an orgasm, since I don't get full on sensitive around the clit, and overall it doesn't feel the same as when I please myself on my own.

Anyone else have this problem? Maybe I just don't realize that I came?

im a boy who is normally attracted to women and i havent ever found a man attractive irl but when i jerk off (like i am rn) i enjoy gay or bi mmf porn more then straight can anyone help i am very inexperienced

Is to experience bi group masturbation. I love watching people pleasure themselves and it would be so hot to lose control with everyone at the same time.

Has anyone ever tried something like this and what are your fantasies?

52 yr old married Bi guy in the DL. It’s been years since I have played with another man. But today that changes. The last guy I played with and I have stayed in constant contact trying to meet up but with kids and wives it has been tough. But today we found some time and he is going to swing by. The excitement is killing me. Can’t wait. Hope everyone has a great day!

Me and my man recently started messing around, and whenever I try to suck his dick, I start gagging and almost throw up and I have to take long breaks before putting it back in my mouth, which turns him off a lot. Is there a way to get rid of that? I really want to make him cum, especially in my mouth! but the idea of it at the moment makes me gag as well 🤦🏼‍♀️

(Posted this in r/bisexual without much engagement) I (M41) came out as bi later in life after my wife came out to me as queer. She had in some sense known her whole life. I had no inkling through childhood and college or 90% of our marriage. It’s felt like a significant demonstration of fluidity for me. I even denied it when my interest in pegging developed 6 years ago. The thought was unappealing at that point.

I’m actually pretty sure that for me being the receptive partner in anal play wasn’t grounded in orientation; it was the exploration of pleasure and kink. And that led to my admission of curiosity around group play and me realizing that in that orgiastic setting, I’d have no qualms about engaging with someone of my gender. It would just be more fun to play with everyone and every available part!

At first I thought it purely kink-related, but more recently I realized that I have capacity to be attracted to men, still much more sexually than romantically. Are there other identity labels that I might consider? Have you come to your bisexuality through similarly sexually enthusiastic paths?

I bottomed for the first time. Zero issues taking him in, but once he was fully inside me, it felt like a dull pressure/discomfort. I would describe it like putting too much pressure on a muscle. Almost like he was hitting something. He was average length, a little on the thick side. The feeling was where the head of his penis was when he was fully inside. The area along the shaft and my anys was fine, pleasurable actually, until he reached full insertion.

Could he have been bumping into the bend where the rectum meets the sigmoid colon? I’ve used toys as long and almost as thick as him, but with none of this discomfort.

It felt like too much pressure was on something.

We used plenty of lube.

A moment, something that happened in passing or something you saw that stopped you in your tracks cause it was hot.

For me, I have a couple.

1. I was on holiday in France sitting down in a busy outdoor main square at a restaurant. a random guy walked towards my direction, he looked good but nothing out of the norm. A preppy-looking rich guy wearing a summer shirt and light coloured thin linen pants. But as he got closer, I looked down and saw he had a huge dick going far down the crotch of his loose linen pants filling them. It looked so nice, I still think about him even though it was a 5 second sight.

2. On holiday in a hostel with friends, we were waking up in the morning and my friend called my name. I turned to him and as a prank he had his balls hanging out of his boxers. They were huge and smooth, we laughed and moved on, but I couldn’t stop thinking about it. It was a hot summer and I could later see them in his shorts when sitting down, his balls were like two big heavy eggs it was crazy.

3. The same holiday actually, a friend of our group was hanging out in red shorts in the hostel room. It was my first time meeting him, his dick was pretty big and noticeable in the shorts (no underwear). I actually thought he had a boner due to the size/way it was but soon realised that was actually him soft. Others have since confirmed over the years he’s huge.

Some of these moments were before I considered I was bi, but looking back I definitely wouldn’t have been so curious if I was straight.

What are some random hot moments that have stuck with you?

Tell me your dirty secret or your weirdest fantasy!

I'm a bi dude and I can tell you some stories. I've done some things with both guys and girls that I probably shouldn't have, but whatever---Let's talk and have some fun!

Please tell me your age (18+ only), your gender, your orientation, and what you like! Looking for chat or dirty chat, or whatever.

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I posted on r/bisexual and someone suggested I post here, but I wanted to check first, just in case there isn’t interest or people feel I’m selling something & report me for spam (I’m not - it’s completely free with no strings attached)

Please let me know - no probs if there’s no interest…

EDIT: so seems there is interest - thanks to all that replied & upvoted - details in my comment below

Anyone else have trouble with actually finding someone local to their area to sleep with?

So I go to the nude beach in my city pretty regularly. It's mainly for non-sexual reasons- I love how freeing it feels, the feeling of the sun and water on my body, it helps me feel more connected to nature, etc. But the beach has a huge queer area and I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy checking out other people's bodies (both men and women) and having other men check out my body. Most recently I was sunbathing nude on my stomach and a couple guys walked by. I felt them staring at my ass and one guy said to the other "what a beautiful boy". I had no engagement beyond that but it turned me on so much. The beach might be my favourite queer space.

After years of experience and experimenting I've come to like the label pan but as I've come to terms with myself and I don't know why I want to try being a bottom i enjoy playing with a Dildo but the real thing scares me and my experience with women and men makes it seem so intense from that side