u/ATinyPsychologist

Greetings.

First off: I apologize for the barren and new account. I have a personal Reddit but do not want the information I post there to come back to haunt me or damage my career. Similarly, I do not want to share personal info about myself like where I work, etc. I'd never ask stuff about your career, etc, too. I mean, I am interested in what you do, but I'll never ask for specific personal information. I am glad to share that I'm a tenure track professor in the sciences (which means I have to be extra careful)

I did post before from another account, but soon deleted the account due to getting so much spam, so if you recognize me, yay! I feel like a celebrity (but no I'm not giving "I'mTheMainCharacter" vibes when I say this.) I have also posted here many times.

To be clear: I'm only looking for a fellow college/university professor. Rank doesn't matter. I normally chat with anyone, but given how much spam there was last time I posted ... I'm being a bit selective. Also, just because someone fits the bill doesn't mean I'm immediately going to want to be your "online affair partner". I'm selective even if someone fits the bill to a T.

Frankly, I'm looking for a connection that bridges in and out of naughty playing/kink. I am married (he does not know I play), and am seeking a deeper connection. (Not just superficially). I love getting to know someone cerebrally and deeply. I am not looking to change your marriage or mine, or interfere in our day-to-day lives. In a way, I'm a bit of a demi-sexual and very much a sapiosexual. But I'm also naughty! I'm starved from a dead bedroom, and I think I'm a nympho. But I don't just want sex. Again, a connection is far too important.

However, once the connection is made, I'D LOVE TPE. Or any BDSM. I'm such a submissive. Slave with the right person. I've had a few Masters before, but it's sadly faded (feel free to ask why). I know the difference between a sub and slave. I want to be a slave, but being a sub is also fine.

But the reason why I'm not writing more about BDSM is people forget there needs to be a GENUINE connection first OUTSIDE of kink. If we click, BDSM and all is totally fun!

So TLDR: I want a genuine connection first, and BDSM if we click. While we build a connection, happy to share experiences, etc.

I can voice and video for right person, but BDSM takes trust, so I want to trust the right person and feel good about them. That way it can be long lasting.

Please include the word "workaholic" if you read this all the way :)

Hoping for the best (again)!

Greetings.

First off: I apologize for the barren and new account. I have a personal Reddit but do not want the information I post there to come back to haunt me or damage my career. Similarly, I do not want to share personal info about myself like where I work, etc. I'd never ask stuff about your career, etc, too. I mean, I am interested in what you do, but I'll never ask for specific personal information. I am glad to share that I'm a tenure track professor in the sciences (which means I have to be extra careful)

I did post before from another account, but soon deleted the account due to getting so much spam, so if you recognize me, yay! I feel like a celebrity (but no I'm not giving "I'mTheMainCharacter" vibes when I say this.)

To be clear: I'm only looking for a fellow college/university professor. Rank doesn't matter. I normally chat with anyone, but given how much spam there was last time I posted ... I'm being a bit selective. Also, just because someone fits the bill doesn't mean I'm immediately going to want to be your "online affair partner". I'm selective even if someone fits the bill to a T.

Frankly, I'm looking for a connection that bridges in and out of naughty playing/kink. I am married (he does not know I play), and am seeking a deeper connection. (Not just superficially). I love getting to know someone cerebrally and deeply. I am not looking to change your marriage or mine, or interfere in our day-to-day lives. In a way, I'm a bit of a demi-sexual and very much a sapiosexual. But I'm also naughty! I'm starved from a dead bedroom, and I think I'm a nympho. But I don't just want sex. Again, a connection is far too important.

I'd also want a sexual release/outlet. Looking to get off together. Maybe even BDSM online (or being playful together. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE INTO BDSM!)). I'm an exhibitionist, so I love sending naughty pics and videos (as we chat more, I'd love to share of your choice). Voice and video play are fun with the right person. I'm also a slave, so if you're into TPE, I'm VERY into that.

I'm not looking for a quick get off. But something long-term. I want to be friends where we care for each other as people (non sexually and sexually) and want them to release - but also getting to know them as friends, etc.

Is it that hard to find a friends with benefits? A friendship first, and naughty stuff if we click without changing anyone's situation?

PS: Again, you do not have to be in BDSM or be "naughty". Playful in anyway is totally fine!! Even if not playful, friendship only is great as well!!

Please include the word "rubber ducky" if you read this all the way :)

~ Hoping for the best (again)!

Greetings.

First off: I apologize for the barren and new account. I have a personal Reddit but do not want the information I post there to come back to haunt me or damage my career. Similarly, I do not want to share personal info about myself like where I work, etc. I'd never ask stuff about your career, etc, too. I mean, I am interested in what you do, but I'll never ask for specific personal information. I am glad to share that I'm a tenure track professor in the sciences (which means I have to be extra careful)

I did post before from another account, but soon deleted the account due to getting so much spam, so if you recognize me, yay! I feel like a celebrity (but no I'm not giving "I'mTheMainCharacter" vibes when I say this.) I have also posted here many times.

To be clear: I'm only looking for a fellow college/university professor. Rank doesn't matter. I normally chat with anyone, but given how much spam there was last time I posted ... I'm being a bit selective. Also, just because someone fits the bill doesn't mean I'm immediately going to want to be your "online affair partner". I'm selective even if someone fits the bill to a T.

Frankly, I'm looking for a connection that bridges in and out of naughty playing/kink. I am married (he does not know I play), and am seeking a deeper connection. (Not just superficially). I love getting to know someone cerebrally and deeply. I am not looking to change your marriage or mine, or interfere in our day-to-day lives. In a way, I'm a bit of a demi-sexual and very much a sapiosexual. But I'm also naughty! I'm starved from a dead bedroom, and I think I'm a nympho. But I don't just want sex. Again, a connection is far too important.

I'd also want a sexual release/outlet. Looking to get off together. Maybe even BDSM online (or being playful together. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE INTO BDSM!)). I'm an exhibitionist, so I love sending naughty pics and videos (as we chat more, I'd love to share of your choice). Voice and video play are fun with the right person. I'm also a slave, so if you're into TPE, I'm VERY into that.

I'm not looking for a quick get off. But something long-term. I want to be friends where we care for each other as people (non sexually and sexually) and want them to release - but also getting to know them as friends, etc.

Is it that hard to find a friends with benefits? A friendship first, and naughty stuff if we click without changing anyone's situation?

PS: Again, you do not have to be in BDSM or be "naughty". Playful in anyway is totally fine!! Even if not playful, friendship only is great as well!!

PS: I have gotten a lot of messages ... again. And only a few actual well written proper messages that understood what I was looking for. If you reached out before, but I didn't see your message, feel free to message again.

Please include the word "Pixelary" if you read this all the way :)

Hoping for the best (again)!

Greetings.

First off: I apologize for the barren and new account. I have a personal Reddit but do not want the information I post there to come back to haunt me or damage my career. Similarly, I do not want to share personal info about myself like where I work, etc. I'd never ask stuff about your career, etc, too. I mean, I am interested in what you do, but I'll never ask for specific personal information. I am glad to share that I'm a tenure track professor in the sciences (which means I have to be extra careful)

I did post before from another account, but soon deleted the account due to getting so much spam, so if you recognize me, yay! I feel like a celebrity (but no I'm not giving "I'mTheMainCharacter" vibes when I say this.) I have also posted here many times.

To be clear: I'm only looking for a fellow college/university professor. Rank doesn't matter. I normally chat with anyone, but given how much spam there was last time I posted ... I'm being a bit selective. Also, just because someone fits the bill doesn't mean I'm immediately going to want to be your "online affair partner". I'm selective even if someone fits the bill to a T.

Frankly, I'm looking for a connection that bridges in and out of naughty playing/kink. I am married (he does not know I play), and am seeking a deeper connection. (Not just superficially). I love getting to know someone cerebrally and deeply. I am not looking to change your marriage or mine, or interfere in our day-to-day lives. In a way, I'm a bit of a demi-sexual and very much a sapiosexual. But I'm also naughty! I'm starved from a dead bedroom, and I think I'm a nympho. But I don't just want sex. Again, a connection is far too important.

I'd also want a sexual release/outlet. Looking to get off together. Maybe even BDSM online (or being playful together. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE INTO BDSM!)). I'm an exhibitionist, so I love sending naughty pics and videos (as we chat more, I'd love to share of your choice). Voice and video play are fun with the right person. I'm also a slave, so if you're into TPE, I'm VERY into that.

I'm not looking for a quick get off. But something long-term. I want to be friends where we care for each other as people (non sexually and sexually) and want them to release - but also getting to know them as friends, etc.

Is it that hard to find a friends with benefits? A friendship first, and naughty stuff if we click without changing anyone's situation?

PS: Again, you do not have to be in BDSM or be "naughty". Playful in anyway is totally fine!! Even if not playful, friendship only is great as well!!

PS: I have gotten a lot of messages ... again. And only a few actual well written proper messages that understood what I was looking for. If you reached out before, but I didn't see your message, feel free to message again.

Please include the word "imperative" if you read this all the way :)

Hoping for the best (again)!