u/BassBackground8304

I’m a married M49. I am looking for someone who feels comfortable enough to discuss with me how their desires conflict with or compliment their commitment to Halacha and/or Frumkeit. I am not looking for sexting and I am not looking for meets. No names, no pics, no threats, no exposure, no location requests etc. Ask me any questions via DM only for the sake of privacy. Please no males pretending. I’d rather not have any responses. If I sense that this is the case I may need verification.
Chodesh Tov

A couple of years ago wife and I had a sexual awakening. We were just feeling more confident to talk about the fantasies we had and I mentioned that I wanted to have some fun in a Cinema as if we were a younger couple on a date. We found a film that was on late enough and that we didn’t really care that much about watching. We had both seen it before so it was a touch of nostalgia for us both. Wife dressed in crotchless knickers with pull ups under a long dress. We sat in the back row so that we could have some fun. However a lady sat in the back row by herself. That made it even kinkier. As the film started my wife spread her legs and put one leg on my knees so that I could get access to her pussy. I felt her wetness and put my coat over my crotch. I used her pussy Juice on my cock as lube which made her so wet. She decided that she wanted to stroke my cock and the exhilaration of being in public had me so hard. She started to jerk my cock with her hand which was covered in her pussy juice. Her hand was pumping up and down and releasing lots of pre-cum. She was also cupping my balls and I found it hard to contain my pleasure. She kept pumping and I felt the pressure build in my stiff cock. I whispered in her ear that I was gonna have to cum as she was stroking me and she whispered to me that she couldn’t wait to feel my cum fill her soft hand. I couldn’t hold it and shot lots of cum into her hand and moaned as quietly as I could whilst arching my back. She laughed that she didn’t know what to do with my cum in her hand that was dripping down so I took her hand between her legs and massaged it into her pussy. My fingers rubbed her clit and massaged the cum into her pussy using my thumb to insert inside her. She whimpered and tried to contain her pleasure from the people sitting on the same row and in front of us but she was so horny. I flicked my fingers faster over her clit until her back arched and she had a huge orgasm whilst i kissed her neck and plunged my cum soaked thumb back into her pussy. We kissed deeply and she whispered to me that it felt amazing and that she was shaking all over from the thrill. I am surprised that we were not discovered or kicked out. We sat back, relaxed and enjoyed the rest of the film despite a very strong smell of cum in the air.

I am interested in what emotional/intellectual state a married woman needs to be in to engage with this lifestyle, especially in front of their husbands. I can understand a sexual relationship that develops due to flirtation and getting to know someone and this is more like an actual affair that has been kinked. But after one meeting how do woman actually become detached from their marriage in the room and lose themselves in sex? How do they let themselves go to enjoy the experience while their husband is in the room? Perhaps it’s only the exhibitionists that can pull it off? Looking for a hotwife’s experience here.

I understand that many couples agree together to engage but for some women who went into this reluctantly at first and ended up enjoying it did you ever feel compulsion/pressure to sleep with someone you didnt really to. For a lot of guys it seems that all these wives are sluts and the reality is that there are real issues.

Feeling low and lack self respect? Horny and confused? Need direction and guidance? Are you able to follow instructions well? Do you seek praise and desire validation?