u/Big-Drive-3981

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

Right now, my wife is impossible to turn on. When we were dating, it was extremely easy. A kiss on the neck, a hand on the thigh, and most of the time, she just had to look at me. When we got married, it changed. It started becoming the idea of other people. We loved thinking about each other with other people. Some of the best sex we ever had was after I slept with someone else. This eventually turned in to trying to swing. Things fell apart then. We got ghosted once and then the wife in another couple passed away. That was that. She's always struggled when we were trying to be good Christians and only do things with eachother. I've never blamed her for wanting that, and honestly, I'd be just fine if we were ok. That's where we are now. She doesn't want others. She says she doesn't necessarily want me with other women, but she won't get mad at me for doing things. With that, I play online, but I don't really know how far I'd actually go. Maybe if the situation was right? I dont like upsetting her even if I know it won't have long term consequences.

I said all that to give some background in hopes I can get ideas on some things I can do to turn her on. Please don't just come with the normal list (i.e, do more chores, communication, help more with kids, etc...) Those are things I already do and I dont want transactional sex. Also, I'm willing to put in the work physically. I just need to get her to that point where she gets out of her head. This is just as much about satisfying her as it is me. Ladies, what are things your man can do to turn you on? Men, what have you found that has turned your woman on?

Right now, my wife is impossible to turn on. When we were dating, it was extremely easy. A kiss on the neck, a hand on the thigh, and most of the time, she just had to look at me. When we got married, it changed. It started becoming the idea of other people. We loved thinking about each other with other people. Some of the best sex we ever had was after I slept with someone else. This eventually turned in to trying to swing. Things fell apart then. We got ghosted once and then the wife in another couple passed away. That was that. She's always struggled when we were trying to be good Christians and only do things with eachother. I've never blamed her for wanting that, and honestly, I'd be just fine if we were ok. That's where we are now. She doesn't want others. She says she doesn't necessarily want me with other women, but she won't get mad at me for doing things. With that, I play online, but I don't really know how far I'd actually go. Maybe if the situation was right? I dont like upsetting her even if I know it won't have long term consequences.

I said all that to give some background in hopes I can get ideas on some things I can do to turn her on. Please don't just come with the normal list (i.e, do more chores, communication, help more with kids, etc...) Those are things I already do and I dont want transactional sex. Also, I'm willing to put in the work physically. I just need to get her to that point where she gets out of her head. This is just as much about satisfying her as it is me. Ladies, what are things your man can do to turn you on? Men, what have you found that has turned your woman on?

Right now, my wife is impossible to turn on. When we were dating, it was extremely easy. A kiss on the neck, a hand on the thigh, and most of the time, she just had to look at me. When we got married, it changed. It started becoming the idea of other people. We loved thinking about each other with other people. Some of the best sex we ever had was after I slept with someone else. This eventually turned in to trying to swing. Things fell apart then. We got ghosted once and then the wife in another couple passed away. That was that. She's always struggled when we were trying to be good Christians and only do things with eachother. I've never blamed her for wanting that, and honestly, I'd be just fine if we were ok. That's where we are now. She doesn't want others. She says she doesn't necessarily want me with other women, but she won't get mad at me for doing things. With that, I play online, but I don't really know how far I'd actually go. Maybe if the situation was right? I dont like upsetting her even if I know it won't have long term consequences.

I said all that to give some background in hopes I can get ideas on some things I can do to turn her on. Please don't just come with the normal list (i.e, do more chores, communication, help more with kids, etc...) Those are things I already do and I dont want transactional sex. Also, I'm willing to put in the work physically. I just need to get her to that point where she gets out of her head. This is just as much about satisfying her as it is me. Ladies, what are things your man can do to turn you on? Men, what have you found that has turned your woman on?

Right now, my wife is impossible to turn on. When we were dating, it was extremely easy. A kiss on the neck, a hand on the thigh, and most of the time, she just had to look at me. When we got married, it changed. It started becoming the idea of other people. We loved thinking about each other with other people. Some of the best sex we ever had was after I slept with someone else. This eventually turned in to trying to swing. Things fell apart then. We got ghosted once and then the wife in another couple passed away. That was that. She's always struggled when we were trying to be good Christians and only do things with eachother. I've never blamed her for wanting that, and honestly, I'd be just fine if we were ok. That's where we are now. She doesn't want others. She says she doesn't necessarily want me with other women, but she won't get mad at me for doing things. With that, I play online, but I don't really know how far I'd actually go. Maybe if the situation was right? I dont like upsetting her even if I know it won't have long term consequences.

I said all that to give some background in hopes I can get ideas on some things I can do to turn her on. Please don't just come with the normal list (i.e, do more chores, communication, help more with kids, etc...) Those are things I already do and I dont want transactional sex. Also, I'm willing to put in the work physically. I just need to get her to that point where she gets out of her head. This is just as much about satisfying her as it is me. Ladies, what are things your man can do to turn you on? Men, what have you found that has turned your woman on?

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!